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Breastfeeding - desperate help!

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LPC20 · 10/11/2024 10:38

Hi, I’m wondering if anyone can share a similar story / provide some advice.
My first born was born 7 weeks ago and up until last week was exclusively breastfed. I have struggled with massive oversupply, constant engorgement daily, red warm breasts, huge embarrassing let downs, thrush, mastitis, vasospasm very sore nipples with cuts on. I’m under a feeding consultant and we’ve been practicing deep latching and using no pumps just hands and warm / cold but it’s continuing. My nipples have started to change direction too.

The GP has referred me to the breast clinic which has petrified me that this is something more sinister. Has anyone else experienced this and can say that actually all of this is breastfeeding?

Because of this I started to combi feed and my son had blood in his poo. A cow’s milk allergy had been questioned weeks ago (my husband has a severe allergy which he has an epi pen for) so we’ve now been prescribed formula. I’m at my wits end and thinking I want to go fully on to the bottle, particularly as we’re trying to settle his discomfort, but just by introducing 1 bottle a day I have worse engorgement than before, despite following the feeding consultant’s guidance. I just want to quit cold turkey / pump slightly now because I have engorgement daily anyway.

Desperate first time mum - please help!

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KnickerlessParsons · 10/11/2024 11:55

Pack it in and switch to formula. Honestly, you'll feel so much better.

I had similar issues, though not as bad as you.
Baby sicked up blood. But it was from my nipples and that's what encouraged me to give up. DH made the decision for me in the end because he hated seeing me cry every time I needed to feed the baby.

I had a big abscess in one breast which 3 lots of ABs didn't shift and I had to have an op under GA to drain it. They left the wound open and I had to have daily visits from the district nurse for a few weeks to redress it.

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