Can't do it

[poppy8989]

I can't do this

Hey OP. What’s going on?

How long ago did you have DC?

Hope you are well, mumma

Do you think that speaking to the PANDAS Foundation could help?

Are you ok? Do you want to tell us what has been happening? Are you safe?

I’m so sorry. Having a baby is HARD. No one can explain what it’s like until you have one. It is a bit like a bomb going off in your life. You have a huge emotional upheaval, very little sleep and often we are physically wrecked by giving birth and trying to breastfeed. We are here for you and listening if you want to share. You are not alone. I hope you are ok.

How old is baby?
Do you need to get immediate help x

Tell us what's happening OP. How old is your baby? Tell us all the bits which feel impossible.

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I hope you are ok, OP. It is shit sometimes. People are listening if you want to talk.

Please talk to us, we can definitely relate to how you maybe feeling which I find helps
You aren't alone x

@poppy8989 x

Being a new mum is so hard. I struggled really bad for the first couple of weeks... 2 months in and I still struggle now but it's getting easier. Everyone always says how your life changes over night when you have a baby but you don't understand until you're in that situation yourself.

Talk to someone you think will understand, another mum. It will get easier x