I'm a week on from my second c section. The first left me with a very neat scar and a small shelf which despite my efforts I couldn't lose. This time around my wound has opened at one end. It's not infected but looks pretty grim. Mw and dr unconcerned but I'm worried it's going to heal and look hideous. Can anyone shed any light on what I'm likely to expect? I know it's all aesthetical and it's not important in the grand scheme of things. Feeling generally hormonal and upset about the potentially horrid scar.
Also, how long did people really wait before lifting toddlers? I'll be 3 weeks post partum when my husband goes back to work but I'm really missing playing normally with my 2 year old (as is he), what are the chances of some normality being resumed soon???