My first birth I needed 12 stitches due to some nasty tears. I healed pretty well though and 3 years later here I was giving birth to DS and not too worried at all.
The midwife said this time I only had 2 grazes and didn't need any stitches.
Everything has now healed up and I took a mirror down there and I most definitely needed stitches and now it's too late 
So I just have healed holes in my labia and some awkward damage around my urethra which is impractical for the toilet (have to move stuff around and hold it as I pee 
) as well as hideous.
The grazes were actually very large and I have two huge scars down either side but I know these will heal with time and I expected this kind of damage so was totally prepared for it. I also know that the rips will not change 
For the sake of a couple of stitches before they healed "open" Im very disappointed.
Is there surgical options? How would that even work? I dont fancy the thought of it has anyone ever had it done?