Sorry to hear that, Satin - no firsthand knowledge here (there is a Tamoxifen thread in General Health and the ladies there are v friendly and helpful, if thats relevent) but hope you get something useful.
Poor Solo! Any better today? Great resolutions, though rather a lot to tackle all in one go - some more fun than others 
Jabber, can we make coming over here (and unwittingly triggering a mass get together) your New Year resolution? Pretty Please? 
So far....I am going to let go of some of the ways in which I baby dd2 (taking her for a wee before I go to bed, eg): she is ready, and its me hanging on to my baby
. I am going to write more words per week (not on MN!). I am going to give dh more attention (see Solo's resolution, comes to the same thing
). I want to speak more French to the dds, 'cos I've slipped. I want to not take the blame for things that aren't my fault. I want to slow down and smell the roses. And I really should use less emoticons 
For starters.