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AUG 08 - Here we go again and again and again...

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TwilightSurfer · 24/04/2010 22:34

Seriously!

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cyteen · 04/05/2010 23:11

Oh blimey TS I would have had a Krakatoa moment - how awful and sickmaking in every way Head donks are so horrible to watch, even the little ones. DS whacked his forehead (again) on the kitchen worktop during a teatime tanty this pm and that was horrid enough in its own small way. I take my virtual hat off to you for your self-control.

Hope Reese (and you) are feeling better soon. Lots of hugs prescribed.

On a tangent, I thought your birthday cake post was actually a load of positives heading LittleNutTree's way

LG hope E's spots are just viral and not the pox. I love their spherical tummies, don't you? J has just discovered his belly now that vest-free weather is mostly upon us, and likes nothing more than to pull up his tshirt and show the world his yumtious round tum. He also likes scrutinising my saggy old belly. The two do not compare well!

Off to bed soon so hearty waves to the rest of you, except for dizzy, to whom I send an enormous gin vats of affection and respect, as well as a good old fashioned V sign to flick at anyone who dares to differ xx

RedLentil · 05/05/2010 00:06

Oh TS, how sickening.
And Dizzy, it is not fair of your family to make you feel bad. You are a fantastic mother, wife and friend. People are nuts.

I spoke to my friend today, and things were refreshingly (if not entirely) positive. So the panics I've been having all weekend have abated, thank heavens. Tomorrow is the last day of teaching too, so that will take a big chunk of disruption out of the week. The long drive up to Cork, and the swapping over means the whole day is gone pretty much and having Wednesdays back will let me start to work on some money-making schemes I hope).

Spherical tummies? No, I've only seen them on other children. Mine are skinny little feckers.

Poor dd1 has slapped cheek virus and has been sick, hot, uncomfortable and her usual positive self throughout. She really is Maebh the Brave.

DD2 has developed a very strong set of opinions. She woke from her nap and demanded 'Butter. Jam. Coat. Garden.' I managed to fob her off with a banana sandwich. She also had a bit of a wobbly when she discovered that ds was home and in bed sick instead of ready to play. (Tis lovely to hear your girls are so fond of each other Crispy).

He recovered rather brilliantly when the chance arose to work on his boat project though. One really positive outcome from the madness of the last few days is that even on little things, he has been much happier to tell me he disagrees with me. An end to a long run of passive aggression (when he isn't being his usual Mr Happy thing) is most welcome.

DH got into bed with dd1 last night (scoring a win for her in her tussle to get a bedshare with him more often than me). She kept waking him up with shouting and at one point shouted, 'You're my legs! Come back here right now!'

TwilightSurfer · 05/05/2010 01:21

cyteen thanks for talking about bellies. i love reese's little round one. she was rubbing it this evening saying, "tickle tickle".

sorry to dump my horror earlier. she's been fine, normal in every way, even shoveled 3 helpings of dinner into that cute belly. i'm still going to be stressed all night with visions of natasha richardson.

dizzy i wish we could be family. who needs the crap the "real" unconditional love folks give. i love that you are realizing your dream.

lucky you've been under stress, what's the likelihood you have hives? you've probably already thought of that. just know i'm thinking about you.

red i love that your dd2 speaks her mind. butter!

i know i should respond to more but the sun is setting. i want to take a moment to bid goodbye to this day and wish for a less stressing tomorrow.

namaste

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springaporesling · 05/05/2010 03:53

Namaste TS and hope Reese had no ill effects from her accident in the night. My brother did the same at about their age and broke his leg. My Dad was at the time with another Dad trying to stop his DS eating dog sh*t and so completely missed the incident. He and Mum then couldn't work out why DB wouldn't stand up or walk .

Dizzy why can't they just be happy for you.

Loti let us know how you get on at the docs.

LNT so pleased you're enjoying your job. I see you are not completely ruling out the possibility so get poas - we want to know.

Red don't like to say we told you so that it would all blow over with the other Mum but glad things seemed to have resolved themselves and as Pert (I think) said I can only hope to be half the parent you lot already are with older ones as DS grows up.

Do any of you fbgs have a simple cookie recipe and refrigerator cake recipe - have charity sale at work on Friday and need to make something?

luckoftheirish · 05/05/2010 06:55

TS really hope you all slept well and no ill effects re accident.. made me shudder just reading it hugs..

dizzy hope the rest of your birthday wasn't spoiled ..

glad all is well in the red house ..

lol at your dds crispy glad your cm was good with all the swopping its something that my two would do..

both dds up mega early yesterday due to being cold .. switching heating last night to come one an hour earlier.. result both dds awake before 6 again ..

horrible night sleep due to wake up/feeling awful/dh snoring due to beer consumption at the pub last night.. roll on docs this am and pray for drugs as horrible as its makes me feel i'm a solo parent even when poorly

luckoftheirish · 05/05/2010 06:57

ps lnt thought what the others thought the moment i saw your post.. hot/dizzy/tearful??

LadyGardenia · 05/05/2010 07:38

Morning all ds2 not up yet loti I'm saying nothing but good luck at the doc.

TS that's so horrible would it be worth bringing Reese to A&E for her to have the once-over?

oopsandbabycoconut · 05/05/2010 08:20

TS - how horrid for you. Hope R has a peaceful night and is up bright and chirpy in the morning.

LOTI - good luck at the doc, let us know how it goes.

VG - morning, DS still sleeping I wish things like that would happen iin our house.

LNT - I thought the same at all the rest.

Dizzy - I know you are of to work today. Hope you had a lovely evening last night with DH and today isn't tooo stressful.

hotterpotter · 05/05/2010 08:30

Hello

Back at work, making the most of my job while I still have it Those of you living in marginal seats please please PLEASE don't vote for the bastards tories. Most of you are not old enough to remember Thatcher (blatant flattery ) but let me tell you it was Not Nice.

TS poor R hope she is OK. My DS seems to be from the same school of not-looking-where-he-is-going as Cyteen's DS and while you do sort of get used to them trying to crack their skulls open on various surfaces it still makes me feel sick sometimes to see him heading towards floor/hearth/bottom of stairs etc etc. They do seem to made of rubber though so fingers crossed she's fine

LNT I had visions of women up and down the land, and even further afield, reading your post, smirking to themselves and muttering 'pg'

Loti I hope it is something easily treatable. about DH...

Red so glad things not too bad with your friend

VG hello

Sorry don't have time to namecheck you all as really should be working but hello

Just wanted to share this interesting story I noticed on the news last night.Think this is rather close to a certain lady of the crisps' house...

oopsandbabycoconut · 05/05/2010 08:34

HP - That is very near the crisp one. I drive past there regularly on my way to my parents, bother that I missed it!

cyteen · 05/05/2010 09:49

Hahahaha hots excellent And have no fear from my vote - I am certainly old enough to remember Thatcher and all her many evil tricks. Growing up with a lefty lesbian mum meant Tory-hating was rather thrust upon us. Our toilet walls were covered in postcards of things like Maggie Thatcher - Milk Snatcher, and that one of her nicking an old lady's purse How I miss those days of strident leftism.

CrispyTheCrisp · 05/05/2010 10:08

Morning, I have some very sad news that our lovely dizzy has lost the baby . I am just choking up typing it on here, so lord only knows what she and MrDixie are going through

She didn't specifically ask me to tell you all but i couldn't come on here and pretend everything is ok. Because it isn't . Life can be so cruel and unfair, and it just seems so wrong for it to happen to such lovely, lovely caring people.

Much love to you dizzy {{{{hugs}}} and we will all be virtually holding your hand with you when you get to meet DC4

luckoftheirish · 05/05/2010 10:20

oh poor poor dizzy... makes everything else in life seem irrelevant at this time.. don't have the words but you and your dh/mini dizzies are all in our thoughts xxx

oopsandbabycoconut · 05/05/2010 10:21

Crispy - That is the sadest news. Thank you for coming and letting us know, what a difficult thing to have to let us all know.

Dizzy You, MrDizzy and the girls are in our thoughts. Will be thinking of you all and will be here for you when you need us. Please let us know if you need anything doing/getting or just listening to.

RedLentil · 05/05/2010 10:25

Oh, my dearest Dizzy.
This is so awful for you, your dh and your lovely girls.

We'll stand right beside you, and give you all our love and support.

springaporesling · 05/05/2010 10:35

So terribly Dizzy thinking of you all at this time. Thanks for letting us know Crispy.

lwfhthebagpipeplayer · 05/05/2010 10:52

Thoughts and prayers Dizzy, for you and family.

cyteen · 05/05/2010 11:12

Oh no, no no I can't believe it. I am so sorry

GladioliBuckets · 05/05/2010 11:29

Oh Dizz so sorry hun. Hope you can get some time off and think about you for once.

TS My DS1 did that at a playground once, scraped his face on the gravel too. A dad there was all 'don't let him sleep, he might be concussed' but hey, it was his nap time and he was in the pushchair on the walk home so of course he fell asleep! Watch out though, head injuries tend to come in threes. I wouldn't get rid of the swings for good though, these things just happen.

Having a domestic day today, have made strawberry muffins and sag dahl which I'm going to freeze in portioned bags, making veg korma from a jar later. Feeling inspired to do some more sewing machine stuff during Kurt's afternoon nap or maybe just read for once.

MrsMiamla · 05/05/2010 11:39

dizz, don't know what to say. words just don't seem enough

LadyGardenia · 05/05/2010 11:45

Oh Jesus. I can't believe it.

Oh dizzy I am so so so sorry. I send so much love to all of you, and rest in peace to your small darling.

Be kind to yourself and let us help if we can. I hope you know how much you mean to us here and how deeply we will be feeling this for you.

I am so glad you have such a fantastic dh.

TwilightSurfer · 05/05/2010 11:50

dizzy my heart goes out to you and your husband. if you need anything at all i will move mountains to do it.

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luckoftheirish · 05/05/2010 12:09

everything i am about to write seems so mindless after poor dizzy's news..

bee to docs thankfully not shingles just nasty virus/vey low blood pressure/run down.. she told it will last anything from a week to 3 weeks dependent on how my body fights it! now with 2 kids and no husband all weekend thats going to prove interesting..

oh she did say to lie down whenever i felt dizzy which is sound advice but again with two small charges and on my jack jones for most of the the time i thought

CrispyTheCrisp · 05/05/2010 13:27

Not heard any more. I just hope with all my heart that the staff are treating them with compassion and kindness. BTW, thankyou for the prayers LWFH

LOTI are you still going this weekend, or am i reading it that DH is leaving you and going himself? Even if that is the wrong end of the stick, then he should be canx his plans and taking care of his family. I am beyond for you.
Please promise that when you are feeling stronger that you consider what is best for you and the girls long term. He has been given enough chances and this cannot go on. He is being downright nasty & self centred and is a terrible role model for your beautiful girls. Wishing you lots of get better vibes - take care of yourself or the virus will go on and on

TS i hope DD2 is ok after her crack to the head, so very frightening, especially when you are just that bit too far away to intervene. I agree with buckets though - keep the swing

red glad to hear parental relationships are almost back to normal and communication channels are still open with DS

DD1 had her first lunch club at preschool today and was terribly excited. So much so that she only managed to eat 2 corner sandwiches in the time allotted and brought the rest home

QueenofDreams · 05/05/2010 13:40

Dizzy hope you're doing ok, and hope you're being well looked after.

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