Hi everyone - sorry have been off the radar for a bit - life just is getting on top of me at the moment! Lee - thanks - I was just thinking how i needed to post!
P had her op last Tues - It went well- mostly. She was asleep on me when they put her to sleep so much much better than crying and sad... but then when she woke up and we went to get her from recover her left leg went bright red and swelled up, then i noticed her arm and then her other leg so I was petrified and thought she was having an allergic reaction and was actually going to die. I have never been so scared and felt so helpless. They had never seen it before either and no one was tellng us anything, she was screaming and we were all just watching to see what happened. of course she wouldn't calm down until she had milk and her leg started to go down again so it was okay and we gave her some milk. anyway leg was still purple later that eve so dr came back and said he had no idea why and to monitor it at home - so came home last night and oddly she slept all night! I thought she'd wake for food etc. Anyway needless to say I was awake and checking every hour and. God i was just so scared...
Leg was purplish for a bit so we took her back to hospital the next night to get it checked and dr cut the cast back a bit. Anyway the whole thing is going super well - her hip is very stable now and she could even have gone into the brace now but dr put plaster back on for 6 weeks to be safe. It is now only to her knees so she can move her legs more which is good.
I went to physio for the first time today which is set to be long and tiring - am supposed to do exercises without my brace every few hours - how?! My op probably in about 2 months although seeing consultant tmrw so will find out. Then ntensive physio afterwards for at least 6 months. Great. Apparently it is unlikely I will ski next season, which has really upset me. ARGH.
To top it off I am ill - have had a horrid fluey coldy thing since sunday and hubby is away in Rome all week (not that it would be any different if he were here with his hours) so all I want to do is sleep - and even if P has a nap I now have to do exercises or tidy up etc. BORING.
So have been pretty down recently about it all which I why I haven't really posted - feeling too sorry for myself and didn't want to bore you with my miserable rantings
P is loving weaning and sleeping all night still which is good although she has taken to waking at about 5:45 for her first feed - NOT good. Although she goes back until about 8.
Madmissy - Perhaps that 10:30 feed could be dropped now? Then the frst morning feed would increase? That's what P did - she was taking less first thing and seems fast asleep at 10:30 so I decided after about 2 weeks of weaning to just drop it and she slept right through!
Our timings are - milk feed 6-7oz at 6am (and that is a huge feed for her)
porridge and fruit at 9am
Lunch - 4-5oz milk plus 2/3 cubes veg, possibly 1 fruit at 12pm ish
milk - 5oz generally at 2:30/3pm
dinner - 5pm - baby rice and fruit, possibly 1 cube veg
milk feed at bedtime - 5/6oz usually.
She weighed 15lbs at nearly 22 weeks so is gaining well (40th centile approx) but is still being quite sick with the reflux despte the food!
Sorry for enormous post and glad to hear everyone is getting on well!