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merryberry · 08/02/2010 14:41

New thread idea good jfly!

See what I did, now we are two - for those with new number 2 and expecting number 2.

And all the rest of us who get at least 2 tantrums a day from the 2 year olds.

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megonthemoon · 24/05/2010 14:29

Brilliant news JFly - I have a huge smile on my face for you here

DP - sorry to hear about your aunt That's crap re GP, esp if she has had it before - you'd think alarm bells would have rung by now.

14th June looks good for me at the moment.

No pox here too - was clearly a heat rash and the grumpiness associated with it last night appears to have actually been back molars cutting through. So DS and I pootled to Brighton instead. Can you believe they closed off half of the kids playground by the beach on the hottest day of the year, to put more sand in the sandpits? At least 75% of Brighton's toddlers were crammed into the other half and the paddling pool was crazy! DS and I retreated to the beach proper with ice cream instead.

I was then v naughty and bought cute baby girl clothes in Baby Gap, despite having bought sufficient unisex stuff for DS that we don't need anything new...

Ewe · 24/05/2010 15:56

Absolutely thrilled for you J, SUCH good news

14th in my diary too.

I am loving this weather so much, parenting is much easier in this weather, T just pootles about in paddling pool, I dangle my feet in and she pours water over them. I even managed to read some book today, amazing!

Sorry to hear about your aunt DP. Hope it isn't as bad as you fear.

meg, a baby is one of the best excuses for shopping ever, definitely doesn't count as naughty!

timmyinatizzy · 24/05/2010 17:34

Yay JFly thats wonderful news.

Meg - Even I, with a shopping phobia would still go out and buy something new especially if it was of the opposite sex.

DP. Sorry to hear about your aunt. Sending very un mumsnetty hugs to you x

turtle23 · 25/05/2010 06:52

Jfly- Hurrah! So pleased for you! That's fab news! (Did they tell you what flavour baby was? )
I now haven't had more than two hours sleep in a night for 8 nights. Please let them be well. I am falling apart. What worries me is this bug starts with conjunctivitis and have woken up to red eyes this morning. WTF do I do if I get it? Hoe Start lady meant to be coming (fingers x-ed she turns up this time) tomorrow. She wont come if I'm ill.

merryberry · 25/05/2010 08:27

poor turtle, it's probably red eye of exhaustion! seriously, just get cloramphenical drops from chemist to start with. take religiously as reinfection common. add in ritual screaming til you're sick, throwing yourself about and screwing up yours eyes if you want to channel your toddler while doing it.

sigh

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merryberry · 25/05/2010 22:06

am very very very very very cheered to have finalised gg's start at the lovely wee pre-school his brother went to. starts in september. now have to go figure how to feed childcare vouchers through to them from tiny company.

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megonthemoon · 26/05/2010 09:32

mb (or anyone else) - do you know if pre-schools are fundamentally different in their educational approach to daycare nurseries? I guess it depends on the pre-school, but I'm wondering if it makes no odds for DS at the moment whether he stays at nursery or goes to preschool next Sept when I am on mat leave (is it all the same early years stuff), or whether it offers something different and so i should be looking into it.

merryberry · 26/05/2010 10:05

makes no odds I think, i would only move if move meant something very important to me, like playground/no playground for kids. tis a class, money, location thing only i think. from my localised north london experience it goes like this:

state nurseries, do early year foundation programme, are heavily oversubscribed and offer daft short hours.

private nurseries and pre-schools, offer longer/more sessions and do added flavour of educational choice eg montessori, and always have better facilities, excepting sometimes Sure start children's centres.

the main north london pre-school diffs I can see with compared to private/state nurseries is that (1) they practically never do wraparound care for office hours workers and (2) often have slightly more staff with higher childcare quals, eg degrees and older staff with more epxerience

all types seem to spend last months of child's years there practising for discipline of being at schoool, which is very helpful. not the actual 3Rs skills, but the doing as told, being friends, sitting and concentrating, tidying up.

then there is obv a class/money divide in the amount of parental involvment in each type. and when i'm being er, very dry about it, this is what i see:

pre-schools: families in upper middle class income bracket often use nannies all day with added pre-school to hone child's social skills and their own by meeting other rich and famous--/ 'parents like us'. i confess to a) having had a kick at said parents' fame and b) a quiet laugh at shock on their faces when they see our not-upper-middle-class-income-bracket house.

private nurseries: Usually full to bursting, insane waiting lists. Only a pound ot two an hour cheaper than pre-schools TBH. families with middle class incomes quivering with worry about tax/childcare vouchers/new govt both parents freelancing frantically and making my head spin trying to keep up with who is whose parent as they change pick ups and they friend/swapping childcare bedazzles me.

state nurseries: heroically hard working/chronically underemployed parents lobbing selves and offspring into peeling paint nursery with pallets used as fences and moaning there's not enough free childcare. Probably because staff spend most of their time up the road having hourly fag breaks

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merryberry · 26/05/2010 10:06

excuse grammar and types people, I am hilariously multitasking: doing some proof reading on other screen

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Lambriniknickers · 26/05/2010 11:38

Jfly, am SO pleased for you. That's wonderful news. Hope you can enjoy being pregnant now.

Merryberry has the preschool thing well and truly sussed. Have you asked what they do at the nursery DS is in now, Meg? At Ff's the next room up from toddlers is preschool - I've had a quick look at drop off and pick up and it all seems much the same, only slightly less chaotic. Very slightly. If he's happy where he is, I would leave it.

This time in a week I'll have just finished my last exam. So until then....bye.

Lambriniknickers · 26/05/2010 11:39

Sorry, it's me, Ffreckle. Haven't changed last Friday's Ashes to Ashes name.

megonthemoon · 26/05/2010 12:05

Ah mb, I used to live in Hampstead borders. I can imagine exactly what it's like in your bit of our fair capital... Which famous parents by the way?

That's all fabulously helpful. I won't bother moving him this Sept (sort of figured this would be the case). I think by the following Sept might need to do something - nursery is in village and hence very small (typical day is 4 babies and 10 kids) so they have all from 2-5 in same room with babies joining occasionally. Sweet, as like a big family, and hence perfect for DS now getting used to socialising and children of different age in not overwhelming envt, but means pre-school prep type stuff may not happen so much due to toddlers being around and am quite keen on that for DS. Would probably mean nanny type thing or me freelancing, but the latter is on the table anyway as I'm not really enamoured with returning after second lot of mat leave.

I can't believe I'm already worrying about education type stuff when he's only 2, and I actually am not particularly into hothousing my boy anyway! I think relatively imminent DC2 is making me think a bit longer term and wonder about childcare arrangements when I am off/return to work.

turtle23 · 26/05/2010 13:00

As much as I HATE living in this flat I am giving staying here a bit more thought. There is a lovely Montessori Pre School literally next door and we are in the area for a very, very good primary school. The two next schools also get excellents and goods so am thinking it may be silly to go. Can I survive living in a 2 bed flat with no garden with two small boys? I suppose people do.
(Obviously ideal would be to get a house next door to where I am but as will have to rent next it isn't going to happen. )

merryberry · 26/05/2010 14:24

him, kids manon and gulliver

him and her

the one in the white shirt also does cbbc stuff i think, to kids joy.

glenys kinnock's grandkids

and other actors etc that i don't really know there names

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merryberry · 26/05/2010 14:26

their

slaps self upside the head. clearly i only have a correct english allowance per day, and have used it all up working early on

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JFly · 26/05/2010 14:55

Ooh, you had some good cel-ahh-brities, MB. Not many here, and none I've seen at school gates.

I'm one of those snobby people who is specifically looking for a pre-school rather than a daycare nursery. I'm more concerned with adding to G's "experience" than with childcare. There's a nice (and cheap) Montessori up the road that I really like and hope he can go to in September.

I think it will be good for him to be away from me for a few ams/pms a week and also to have something structured once baby arrives. I have so little childcare that he would really benefit from some independence. And I think his language skills will improve, too, in that setting.

I wouldn't mind the state-option here, but I'd rather get him started this autumn and I'm sure we'd carry on with the Montessori if that's the case.

OH, and so sorry, but it looks like June 14th is no good for me. MW appt and also have my niece and her BF for a couple days, so afraid will have to miss it. No fair!

DP, so sorry about your aunt's dx. I really hope that treatment options and care management as good as can be hoped for. It must be very scary for you all.

megonthemoon · 26/05/2010 15:31

My only local celebs are Dame Vera Lynn and Mrs McCluskey from Grange Hill

turtle23 · 26/05/2010 17:47

(thinking of thefunny day when as a nanny I went to pick up charge from playdate at new friend Ida's house and her dad opened the door...she didn't tell me her surname was Lundgren...)

timmyinatizzy · 28/05/2010 10:20

We have one famous(ish) person sending his children to DS's nursery, but only one day a week here. Haven't quite managed more than a smile yet....But his daughters are quite sweet, and I'm hoping that DS's footie skills will impress them!

Dontpanic · 28/05/2010 22:39

Timmy, I've got a real soft spot for Dazza since his Ipswich days, we should never have got rid of him

turtle23 · 31/05/2010 12:45

Giving MN a break for a bit. Up for meeting up so please keep me up to date on FB? xx

littleducks · 31/05/2010 20:38

This isnt over the aibu thread is it?

I'm sorry if i wasnt supportive enough, reading it back now i can see that you might have possibly have thought i was laughing at you, i honestly wasnt and i hope i havent offended you. sorry.

cryhavoc · 02/06/2010 18:44

I'm back! Exams finished today, have spent a lovely afternoon pottering around the garden with Ff, digging for bugs in holes helpfully supplied by the dogs, and bouncing on the trampoline. Am now drinking an icy cold, well earned beer, while she shouts at Upsy Daisy and Iggle Piggle. No law books, no revision notes, and best of all, no long list of cases mocking me because I haven't memorised them all. Yay!

How are you all? Any news on your aunt, DP?

Have name changed (again). Had to get rid of Lambriniknickers in case people thought I actually like lambrini (was for final Ashes to Ashes - Bloke's idea, said it was far more suitable for me than Bollyknickers), and this popped into my head when the dogs were pretending to kill each other in the garden.

Mortifying moment on Sunday, suggesting that living in the Shire has taken Ff too far from her valleys/Yorkshire roots. Third birthday party, birthday boy's mum serving chips with chicken nuggets, I split a nugget open for Ff to show her it's chicken and she gives me a withering stare and announces, 'Not chicken, Mummy. Yuck.'
She saved face for us all by happily eating the chips...

merryberry · 03/06/2010 22:22

Ff should have a meal here. Am surrounded by cries of 'these olives are quite bitter' and 'the steak is chewy' and of course 'nonononononono'. It's very gourmet up north london at times.

ds2 had as many coniptions as he ever does this evening, confronted with removal of bed bag and instigation of duvet.

he will not bloody give up the bottle though. and i'm not very good at pushing it, as he's my last baby etc. i can't remember when ds1 did, how much milk is everyone else still getting through, and what method?

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merryberry · 03/06/2010 22:22

and good job namechanger1

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