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radical cross stitch, theological debate, Easter bunnies, changing bags,and a baby brother...it must be June 08!

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spongebrainbigpants · 04/11/2009 19:22

Welcome to our new thread .

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DebInAustria · 13/12/2009 10:32

Wow Amber - keeping absolutely everything crossed for you.

DebInAustria · 13/12/2009 10:37

If you haven't done this Santa message before you must, my boys love it and I've done one for Ethan even though he doesn't understand the other 2 do!You can also do adults messages this year. Make sure you put the photo on as then it appears in Santas book.

ktmincepie · 13/12/2009 11:22

Amber - Wow! Fingers crossed! I felt periody at the beginning of this pregnancy but it never came. Even had some spotting about the day it was due. How many tests have you done?

Neenz - how did the panto go?

Sponge - how is the ear infection?

We went to a house warming yesterday afternoon, there were about a million kids running round screaming, J was very overawed, but he had a good time, particularly as they had olives and mince pies!

sybiltherednosedreindeer · 13/12/2009 11:44

AMBER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that is such amazing news! What with you and sponge this is ecoming the thread of miracle babies!

Deb, thats so much for posting that link. DS and dd have both just had messages from Santa and are really chuffed! DS1 is a bit confused though as he had thought that maybe Santa didn't exist and yet there he was sending a message to him!

Viva those jokes are so bad, they're what I call embarrassing

Rolf · 13/12/2009 11:46

Let's have the prawn joke Viva .

Poor T went quite mad last night. She's been sleeping badly (she has a cold) and I went to get her, and she just flipped out. She clawed frantically at her clothes until I stripped her off, lay on the floor naked thrashing around and banging her head. Because of the cold, she hasn't been eating well for a week or so, so this poor skinny naked girl just look so pitiful. Utterly hysterical and inconsolable - it was really scary. It took ages for her to calm down enough to feed her.

BDQ if you're staying in an apartment in central Liverpool. you'll have a great time. The museums are very child-friendly. The art gallery has a dressing-up section which my children really like. The Maritime Museum is good too and is in the Albert Dock which is fun. The World Museum satisfies those dinosaur cravings. If you need to burn off some energy there's a soft play place in town which doesn't smell of mice, feet or vomit, and serves poncy organic food too.

ktmincepie · 13/12/2009 12:12

Debs - I did a santa message for J, he was a bit excited and a bit confused!

Rolf - that sounds horrible, how is she today?

SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas · 13/12/2009 13:18

amber that's fantastic. will keep everything crossed for miracle baby no2! I felt v periody at the time my period was due at month 1 with C, and remember that I complained to DH that I had them, so hopefully it will be just that x

rolf I am saving the prawn joke up for tonight if I get called in again. it's rubbish, but I love it.

sybil such fun!

SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas · 13/12/2009 13:19

and whinegums I liked the joke do you like my new name?

mistletoeandwhinegums · 13/12/2009 14:13

I do indeed like your new name SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas!!!

Rolf, hope T is better today.

neenz · 13/12/2009 14:33

Amber omg!!!!!!!!!! What fantastic news!! Well miracles do happen you know and it is not really that much of a miracle is it - cos it's not like you have NO eggs or that M has NO sperm so it was probably just a case of waiting until you produced a good 'un (like me!!!). It's always worth having sex at the time of the month just in case isn't it . When I read that your period was late I though 'Oooh!' and I am just so chuffed that it is late cos of a baby!! It is so worrying isn't it. I have had some stabbing pains and every time you think 'oh no' but you do get pains like that don't you cos all the ligaments are stretching or something.

Sorry just got to do again

Fingers crossed for us both, when do you think you are due? I think I am 15 Aug. I am trying not to get too excited just in case but it is blldy difficult. And I hate this bit cos every time you go to the loo you worry you are going to see blood

goingtohaveagoodnightssleep · 13/12/2009 15:20

Fantastic news Amber!!!! Feeling periody is very normal.

Really feeling for you sponge, it just seems to be one thing after another for you, hope you feel better soon!

abdnhikinginawinterwonderland · 13/12/2009 15:20

Amber yippee!!! fingers crossed...

deb we've done the santa message, it's wonderful.

Rolf · 13/12/2009 15:53

AMBER - I missed this yesterday. Bloody hell! That's fabulous news

Viva I am very excited about the prawn joke. Whinegums I am going to try your trifle joke.

Knock knock
Who's there?
The interrupting sheep
The interrupting shee.... BAAAA!

hollybrainfestivepants · 13/12/2009 19:18

Amber, that is fantastic news!

Miracles do happen - mine's refusing to go to sleep as I type!

Thanks for all the sympathy - I'm really hoping next year I can regain my health as this last pg has really taken it out of me. Wouldn't have it any other way though .

Hi to everyone else - no time to catch up, sorry!

Amberc · 13/12/2009 19:54

So still OK - still no period even though I must have checked my pants a hundred times.

Neenz - maybe not a miracle but not far off. My AMH level is 2.6 which is what makes good eggs. To be responsive to IVF you should be 5-15. To make a baby naturally you should be 16-44! That's why I'm waiting 'cos a bad egg could have got fertilised and then might terminate itself. We'll see. I am a bit excited though - you can't keep it all in. Would be end of August though

Question for you. When your little ones eat or drink a bottle of milk, does their tummy become really distended? Luke's does and I'm starting to worry a little bit.

Kt - does J like olives?! Wow what refined taste!!

Sybil - I lol-ed about your little one thinking santa didn't exist and then getting a message!!

SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas · 13/12/2009 20:30

still haven't managed to watch all of last night's xfactor, as have been in and out of work all day, but had managed to not find out who was eliminated all day. bloody mumsnet have just given it away with their discussions of the day thing.

I shall have to tell the prawn joke to make me feel better...

Far away in the tropical waters of the Caribbean, two prawns were swimming around in the sea - one called Justin and the other called Christian. The prawns were constantly being harassed and threatened by sharks that inhabited the area. Finally one day Justin said to Christian, 'I'm fed up with being a prawn; I wish I was a shark, and then I wouldn't have any worries about being eaten.'

Just then, as if by magic,a large mysterious cod appeared and said, 'Justin, Your wish is granted' , and lo and behold, Justin turned into a shark. Horrified, Christian immediately swam away, afraid of being eaten by his old mate. Time passed and Justin found life as a shark boring and lonely. All his old mates simply swam away whenever he came close to them. Justin realised that his new menacing appearance was the cause of his sad plight. While swimming alone one day he saw the cod again and he thought that perhaps the fish could change him back into a prawn. He approached the cod and begged to be changed back, 'very well Justin' said the cod, 'you have learned your lesson' and, lo and behold, he found himself turned back into a prawn.

With tears of joy in his tiny little eyes Justin swam back to his friends and bought them all a cocktail. Looking around the gathering at the reef he realised he couldn't see his old pal.' Where's Christian?' he asked.' He's at home, still distraught that his best friend changed sides to the enemy and became a shark' , came the reply.

Eager to put things right again and end the mutual pain and torture, he set off to Christian's abode. As he opened the coral gate memories came flooding back. He banged on the door and shouted, 'It's me, Justin, your old friend, come out and see me again.' Christian replied, 'No way man, you'll eat me. you're now a shark, the enemy and I'll not be tricked into being your dinner.'

Justin cried back ' No, I'm not. That was the old me. I've changed.'

Wait for it

Wait for it

Wait for it

'I've found Cod. I'm a prawn again Christian'.

ktmincepie · 13/12/2009 20:40

Amber and Neenz - we are all going to be crossing our fingers for you both! Really hope it works out.

J just has a cow cup full of milk a day which he doesn't have all in one go but drinks over an hour or so, he has some milk on his cereal in the morning as well. Haven't noticed his tummy swelling.
He loves olives, they seem to be one of his favourite things, we haven't actually found anything he doesn't like yet, I accidentally made a fairly hot curry the other week and he tucked into that, weird child!

Sponge - I've been feeling really run down throughout this pregnancy and I wonder if it's because I've been either pregnant/breastfeeding for the past 2 1/4 years, my body hasn't had any me time!

I've been loving the jokes, I'm rubbish at remembering them.

J said Mamma at dinner time tonight, only because I told him to. He also gave me a kiss for the first time today (has been kissing his toys for ages).

Rolf · 13/12/2009 21:22

ktpie that is so sweet about J. T still likes patting me on the shoulder .

Amber and Neenz fingers crossed here for the 2 of you.

Viva LOVE the joke!

Sometimes T has a sticky-out put belly, when she's been eating well or feeding a lot. At the moment she doesn't as she's still not eating much.

Sponge so sorry you're ill again.

The blood tests I had done are all ok, which is good, I guess, but in a way I was hoping for a straightforward solution to the hair loss problem, and a dodgy thyroid would have given me a reason for it. I bet that once I stop bfeeding things will sort themselves out, but T and I still really like it, and I'm not quite ready to let it go, seeing as it's the last time I'll do it. There's also usually a reason not to stop - like at the moment when she's under the weather and not eating, and it gives her some nutrients, liquid and comfort.

Feeling much better now, but thanks to all of you for your kindness and advice. I'm holding fire until the new year. Nothing constructive can happen until then anyway and everyone will be better placed to make decisions when they are more rested and well. One good thing about DH being so detached from reality domestic issues is that he can put a nice intergalactic bigger perspective on it.

SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas · 13/12/2009 21:30

I think you and I would get on in RL Rolf - a friend of the Prawn joke is a friend of mine!

Hope T is feeling better today, i like the idea of her patting you on the shoulder.

Essie3 · 13/12/2009 22:26

Well, I was going to post earlier on but then read Amber's post and had to go to scream and be excited!
Now I've composed myself. Watching Susan Boyle - she's an odd one.

Having Christmas stress - need to see inlaws, but so that I could have a relaxing time and not dread it over Christmas I suggested going before Christmas. That won't do apparently - at Christmas there's 'food around' but going before Christmas means more planning for MIL and cuts down on her preparation time. (She is highly organised, will need to cater for us whenever we go; I eat what I get, being veggie - cheese sandwich, bag of chips from the chippy... And 'food being around' - yeah, turkey sandwiches, spare sausage rolls etc.)

I have a little joke - it was told to me by an engineer boyfriend of mine, but is relevant still because I married a lawyer.

So, an engineer dies and goes to heaven. He gets to the pearly gates, and St. Peter checks his book. Peter says 'sorry, but there's no record of your name here'. The engineer says 'surely I'm down? I was sent to the pearly gates, not the other place? Couldn't you check higher up?' St Peter goes away to talk to God, but comes back looking sad. 'I'm really sorry mate' says Peter 'but you're not in my book. He says if your name's not down you're not getting in. He's obviously God and doesn't make mistakes. Ever. You're a lovely chap, but He says it's the other place for you. Sorry.'

Downcast, the engineer goes down to Hell, and is welcomed by Lucifer. He's shown to his room and whilst it's not up to scratch, he decides to make the best of it for, well, eternity.
After a while, he gets quite fed up of the heat, and being an engineer, goes to investigate. He finds the main boiler, which hasn't been checked for years. He has a little tinker, gets a new thermostat, and Hell becomes a lot more cool and bearable. There's still a smell of burning flesh, though, so he goes to check the air con filters, which need replacing. He does that, and puts in some relaxing lavender essential oil whilst he's at it. Drainage and the sewers also get the once over, and he tidies the place up and makes it livable.

So, Hell now has clean running water and flushing toilets; hot tubs and spa baths; it's a lovely temperature, smells great and everyone is pretty relaxed. Word gets out, and God realizes that things aren't working out as they should, so he nips downstairs to visit his old enemy.
'Aright, Nick?' 'Darling! What brings you here?' God explains that Hell has become really pleasant - perhaps as pleasant as heaven but without the real flowers (it smells of flowers though). He asks who is behind all of this. 'Thing is, Darling' says the Devil, 'It's this engineer you sent down.' 'Must have been a mistake - the guy is clearly one of mine - look at all the good work!' 'Nope, you sent him here.' 'Well I want him now, he's shown he would fit in!' 'No way.' God gets a bit angry, and demands that the devil gives him the engineer. The devil refuses. In the end, God says 'right, that's it. I'll sue you!' And the devil says...

'And where do you think you're going to get a lawyer?'

DebInAustria · 13/12/2009 22:38

Loving the jokes

Rolf - good to hear from you, glad the results are OK and like you say when you finsh bfeeding you'll probably be better but I certainly see whilst you're still carrying on!

Sleighbellsandschnitzel · 13/12/2009 23:08

let's see if this works

Sleighbellsandschnitzel · 13/12/2009 23:09

it's me Deb, Sound of music was on TV!!

SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas · 13/12/2009 23:23

For some reason, when I read your post deb I was reminded of Michelle of the resistance from 'Allo Allo'

pssst, it is I, michelle, I shall say this only once...

essie loved the joke, ILs sound stressful - mine appear to only eat M&S food, so at least I know what I'm going to get when we visit!

I'm back at work again still haven't seen the result of the xfactor really hoping not to find out before I get to watch it!

will perhaps scour the internet looking for more shite great jokes to entertain you with...

[another disclaimer: I will in fact be doing important doctor type things at some point, but I have to wait for the patient to be ready to come and get their scan, and sometimes the interval between the a&e dept phoning me to request a scan, and the patient actually be ready for the scan can be a while - last time I was on, I waited for one patient from 8pm til nearly 2am]

SantaClausIsComingToGlasvegas · 13/12/2009 23:24

deb I also envisaged you wearing your curtains...