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Sept 08: They're under starters orders .... and they're off .... well, some of them!

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 25/05/2009 21:47

I thought I'd use this title as not all of our delicious babies are on the move yet, including mine

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ninja · 26/06/2009 09:30

Yep - lots of pinching here. When she's feeding or when she's being carries. OUCH

imoscarsmum · 26/06/2009 10:41

Iron rich foods, in addition to those ILTMIMI mentioned are:
wholewheat (eg bread, pasta), egg yolks, green veg (broccoli, cabbage, watercress is especially rich - I make goats cheese & watercress muffins which C adores) and all Plum baby food except their fromage frais (for obvious reasons) cos all their products contain quinoa, which is a super food and has 3 x amount of iron than wholewheat.
And no i don't work for em, we just love em. If they made their peach spelt granola in adult size, I'd buy it & eat the lot!!

Off to docs now. Had fab day on southport beach yesterday - loads of people swimmingbtoo.

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 26/06/2009 11:27

Oh yes, lots of pinching here. Any uncovered bit of flesh is a target.

Luckily he's stopped pinching my boob when he was feeding. That used to drive me INSANE.

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Ponymum · 26/06/2009 12:20

It just disturbs me that clearly there is enough excess skin on my neck that she can grab a little handful. And twist.
I keep checking myself for bruises. People will start to wonder what I have been getting up to!

DebiTheScot · 26/06/2009 13:37

It was scratching more than pinching that I got. All over my chest. Its amazing how fast baby's nails grow.

Off camping tonight- school trip, 100 year 8s. I'm only going for 1 night but should be fun.

CarrieBo · 26/06/2009 13:48

No pinching here...yet...don't go giving him ideas though please!

So yesterday we viewed the house that we liked most on paper...and we loved it.

We're trying very hard not to mentally move in, we told the EA that we're interested in putting in an offer, so they're working extra hard to sell our house - first viewer this afternoon!
Another bonus of the property is that at the end of the garden is a gate leading to some school playing fields which you're allowed to use out of school time - amazing! And we'd never be overlooked.

CarrieBo · 26/06/2009 13:52

And thank you so much ladies for telling me about the birth trauma counselling at the hospital - my friend came round for dinner last night and ended up crying about her birth again and how she feels cheated/a failure etc, and I told her about it, so today she asked her HV and she's been referred. If she gets the closure she needs then I think she'll have been brough back from the brink of pnd. I love MN, you ladies and the support you provide really do make a difference to people's lives.

DebiTheScot · 26/06/2009 14:07

that's realy good carrie hopefuly now your friend will get an appointment quickly and she'll be able to enjoy her life and her baby.

And got fingers crossed for you for the house.

Meglet · 26/06/2009 14:43

DD pinches me, and it reminds me to trim her nails, ouch.

Pacita · 26/06/2009 15:15

Hello ladies, I have had the most horrid night for a long time. Diego's sleep has been deteriorating lately (I knew the sleeping through wouldn't last). Last night was the culmination, when he woke up EVERY HOUR from midnight till 7. why oh why? teething? hot? perhaps because he's a bit snotty from nursery? Today I am exhausted and he is on a non-stop whingeathon. I've lost the will to live.

DG that's so great about your sis! When is she on Telly? Let me know what hte pediatric nurse has to say about non sleeping babies. I know that in Diego's case it's not lack of food because he puts away an amazing amount of grub.

This week has been pretty tiring. I worked 2 days and had a job interview in a company I really fancy. I mentioned working 3 days a week and they did not seem faced by it. Fingers crossed, eh?

Ponymum · 26/06/2009 20:46

Oooo, carriebo, how exciting!

Pacita so sorry about the night waking problems. Fingers crossed for a better night tonight.

So excited!! I have just booked the hotel for a trip to London in a few weeks' time. We are going to the theatre (seeing Waiting for Godot) and will get a babysitter to come to the hotel to look after DD. OMG, the big city!! What will I wear??!!

Meglet · 26/06/2009 21:17

DD has a new habit, she is grinding her teeth. It is the most awful sound, i can see us falling out over it .

ponymum How lovely going to the theatre! I haven't been to london in 3 years since i had ds, but am going in a couple of weeks to drag the dc's to the national gallery [mean educational mummy] . My mum is coming too so it should be fairly painless.

good luck with the job search digital.

Sunshinemummy · 26/06/2009 21:36

Digi have you seen your facebook? I think we have a mutual friend!

Debs75 · 26/06/2009 22:09

Robyn likes to nip my boobs when I am holding her, she slips her hand down my cleavage and then grabs the side of one boob, usually when she is hungry.

Have had some really bad nights, a culmination of heat, teething and a low fever. Last night it was 1.30 before I could get her to feed to sleep. When I tried at 0pm, 10pm, 11pm she was getting very agitated and flinging herself around then sobbng at me. There was no temperature or spots or neck stiffness etc. but it had got to the point where i was ready to take her to hospital when she just latched on and fell asleep.
Woke up this morning not too bad but within an hour had a temp so has been on the calpol which is helping, she is asleep now (fingers crossed)

Ponymum Not sure but think it was you who said you can make a chicken stretch for 4 meals. We have just got a huge chicken and I want to use the carcass to make soup but have no idea what to do. I have stripped all the leftover meat off, apart from the really greasy meat underneath (yuk) so waht do I do now?

Ponymum · 27/06/2009 12:50

Hi debs75 - have only just seen your message. If you want to make soup I suggest you make a tasty stock from the carcass, then use this stock to make a soup incorporating the bits of meat you have put to one side.

To make stock:

  1. Firstly, is the carcass cooked? i.e. did you roast the whole chicken? If not, put the carcass in a little oven dish with tin foil over and pop in a hot oven for 40 mins or so. If already cooked ignore this step.
  2. Break up the carcass and put it into a very large pot. (The greasy jelly-like meat will add much flavour to the stock, but pull off the really fatty skin if you prefer.) Cover generously with cold water.
  3. Add any or all of the following - note they can be very roughly chopped and don't really need to be peeled as they they will be removed at the end of the stock making.
Onions, garlic, carrots, celery, plus any other sad looking vegetables or offcuts that you would otehrwise throw away, e.g. leeks.
  1. Add a very generous grind of salt and pepper along with herbs like bay leaf, sage, parsley, rosemary, thyme.
  2. Put a lid on and bring to a slow boil on the hob, then put the heat right down and simmer slowly for 1 to 3 hours.
  3. Allow to cool down then strain the liquid and throw away all the solids. I do this in two stages - firstly through a colander to get rid of the bulky stuff, then through a sieve. (If you want a clear stock, scoop the scum off the top during cooking, and sieve through fine muslin - not necessary for soup IMHO.)
  4. If you end up with more stock than you need for the soup, put the rest in the freezer and use for future souops, casseroles, cous cous etc.

To make soup:
There are loads of recipes and the sky is the limit! Basically you want to heat the stock in a pot with the shredded chicken you put to one side before. Other bits to add can be cooked in the stock to absorb the falvour, e.g. if you are adding noodles, etc. Important step is to taste carefully for seasoning as it usually needs salt and pepper.
Possibilities for flavours to add include:

  1. Chicken noodle soup - add broken up fine pasta, and sweetcorn if you wish.
  2. Chicken and white bean - add white beans (usually need to be soaked over night before cooking) plus finely shredded cabbage if you like.
  3. Chilli chicken - add finely sliced chillies, plus ginger, spring onions, coriander etc.
  4. Thai style - use a few spoonfuls of curry paste and maybe some coconut cream added at the end.
etc. (If none of the above appeal you tell me what flavours you like and I'll see if I can think of something.)

Oooo, I love cooking! You are lucky I don't know where you live as I would be round in a flash and taking over your kitchen by now!

carriebo how did the house viewing go?

StarlightMcKenzie · 27/06/2009 15:45

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Ponymum · 27/06/2009 17:48

Hee hee hee! That's hilarious, me write a cookbook. Although I have thought about writing a sort of chick lit tale with a food-obsessed character. Each chapter would feature a recipe related to what is going on in the story. I thought it was a brilliant idea, but then someone told me it had been done before. Grump!

There are some really good books by Donna Hay pretty much like you describe, i.e. what do I grab from the cupboard and how do it turn it into something yummy for the family in 15 mins? Plus, lots of 'How To..' sections so a beginner cook can impress with classic roast lamb or whatever. I definitely could not do it better than she has. But nice of you to suggest it!

Oh, and I love leeks. I think you know I didn't mean it the way I wrote it. See, I am such a brilliant writer that comprehension means nothing to me.

StarlightMcKenzie · 27/06/2009 18:33

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 27/06/2009 18:33

Does anyone else take their lo on the back of a bike?

M seems to enjoy it, but spends the whole time trying to get his helmet off. I was wondering if he'll get used to it and leave it alone eventually, or if anyone has any great distraction tips. Although I thought the bike ride would be a distraction in itself!

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DebiTheScot · 27/06/2009 19:48

I've taken ds2 out on the bike iltmimi. You just have to be careful at this age as their heads/neck aren't strong enough to hold the weight of a helmet for very long. I've only had him on it for 20mins max so far. The bike ride is enough of a distraction for ds2 to leave his helmet so no tips sorry. He cries when you put it on but stops as soon as you move.

ninja · 27/06/2009 20:14

Planning to get a bike seat for M, but I think I'll try and get a front one at first.

Ponymum · 28/06/2009 15:21

My AF has arrived!
But I don't have a mooncup - what do I do?

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 28/06/2009 18:18

No Mooncup Pony? How very dare you

We've put ds on the bike again today. We're hoping time will get him used to his helmet!

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Debs75 · 28/06/2009 20:55

Thanks Ponymum will definitely do that with the next chicken we get. My stupid cat got hold of the carcass when I was seeing to robyn so I had to throw it away. It was a huge free range one as well which was reduced to £4 as had to be used that day, we had only eaten from one half.
I do enjoy cooking and used to make lovely soups and pasta sauces when at weight watchers. And i can bake wonderful cakes and scones. Think that's the reason I didn't lose that much weight. I just kinda fell out of it due to lack of time and ridiculously tiny kitchen.

Robyn has had a viral throat infection. I took her to the emergency dr and he said her throat was all inflamed but that she could fight it with painkilers. She had been incredibly grumpy and hot and tired but is finally starting to feel better. She has spent most of the last few days asleep or feeding.