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Jan 09' Dribbling, drooling, swaying and babbling...thats just the mamas....

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stripeywoollenhat · 12/04/2009 11:51

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treedelivery · 22/04/2009 22:18

Am thinking milk intolerance. Arse. She will grow out of it I'm sure, I hope, but I'd really like some help for her in the meantime iyswim? Have founf consultant who is paeds with allergy speciality so that might be good.

Def on for a brew!! How exciting! We could compare fluffy bums! Will check out when I'm next around those parts - its hour and half away from here too, and any excuse to go!

missjackson · 22/04/2009 22:18

ps- just clicked on your link Lenni - they are GORGEOUS...

LenniEd · 22/04/2009 22:22

DH washes them! But we wash them when DS gets in bed at 7 and hang them in front of the rayburn til morning when they are dry and lovely. And yes, they are gorgeous.

Tree - yay! How fab!

LenniEd · 22/04/2009 22:25

Oh, and MissJ - sometimes I think that about DD's name but everyone who ever passes comment loves it and apart from a few groans from family when she was born people don't seem to blink really when I tell them her name.

And you have Waitrose in Wales

EachPeachPearMum · 22/04/2009 22:29

dog for bongo! Go for it- have only heard good things- mostly on here... go look on the camping threads. I have only ever seen 1 in real life though- and I think I was fraeking the owners out by trying to peer in - they had the boot open and were putting their toddler into car seat so they prob just thought I am paedophile or something

stripeywoollenhat · 22/04/2009 22:54

itti bittis ordered...

tree that you have to push so hard when lo is having such a tough time, really hope consultant can help

missj - think nye is a lovely name

fym, at peeing incident

at cost of uniforms, sending c to a school that doesn't have them (but will no doubt be fleeced for other things instead)

dog, no advice on car, still trying to talk myself into learning to drive....

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EachPeachPearMum · 22/04/2009 23:06

Lenni - I just added you in fb- what year did you graduate? I was at m/cr too

elkiedee · 23/04/2009 00:59

EPPM, I was at Manchester University (rather a long time ago!)

EachPeachPearMum · 23/04/2009 05:08

Me too! grad 1996....

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stripeywoollenhat · 23/04/2009 09:27

books - you shouldn't even remotely feel like you've failed her; you will both be absolutely fine. you know now and you are dealing with it. guilt is a totally pointless emotion - people who should feel it very rarely do and the people who do feel it are almost always just pointlessly putting themselves through the ringer because they are decent human beings.

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tinkisenjoyingthesun · 23/04/2009 09:46

rray - wii fit sounds and looks good
i enjoyed aerobics last night was 8-9pm legs bums and tums do loads of abdominal excercises etc

tree - poor you -
my dd1 started on 25th centie and ended up off bottom under red of 0.4 centile saw paedatrician and agreed we were both small and all fine. saw him till she was 2 years old. thenb once she turned one year old started going up centiles again is now@ the top of the red 2nd centile.

bracken started on the 75th centile ( very big baby for my size) is nowimbetween 25th and 9th centile. they arent expecting much weight gain as dd1 didnt

they are both fussy

i shouldnt worry it is good that u r seeing a consultant regarding reflux

tinkisenjoyingthesun · 23/04/2009 09:48

books - them gaining weight is a stress isnt it i would try not to worry as long as they seem content and happy and doing all the milestones and drinking well.

tinkisenjoyingthesun · 23/04/2009 09:49

waiting in for dd1s little tikes sand and watertable today could arrive between now and 7pm my mum bought it for her

MsSparkle · 23/04/2009 10:22

Morning, i find it hard to keep up with this thread!

Tree i have read your posts and understand your dd has lost lots of weight but don't quite understnad why?>>thick emotion

MsSparkle · 23/04/2009 10:27

Books you haven't failed your dd, if she is all fine and well in her development then you must be doing everything good

stripey i like your words on guilt! Very true.

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treedelivery · 23/04/2009 10:54

Books - hope your ok. Hope today it doesn't seem as bad. Remember to breathe!

If she is well, and doing ok, hang on to that. Just let her feed and feed and have a babymoon! That will up your supply - even if you have no supply issue, that will make you feel better to see floods of the stuff, and silence the demons you are starving her. YOU ARE NOT [repeat 1000 times]
What are her nappies like? Even with ff this is her weight, so it can't be not having enough milk can it?
Have you a bf councillor running a group nearby? Or you could start a thread calling for tiktok who is very knowledgable, or any of the bf councillors.

Mine is doing the same. And rememebr, she has gained weight, not lost it. So thats good isn't it?
Hope you're ok.

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treedelivery · 23/04/2009 11:14

Oh Books. Bless you.

If you happy going onto formula then you go girl. But leave your guilt here with me and I'll look after it for you.

If you are going to formula becasue you are guilty and gutted and are going to feel bad for ages, the maybe get some futher advice. Totally no one ever enywhere ever is going to think you should have noticed. I promise you that. That is guilt and stress making you feel so panicky [I think?]

I will start a thread myself and just ask for advice if you are too tired with it all. Then you could review tonight what you want to do. You could follow it and email me with specific questions! We could go all '24' undercover agents

The bf helplines are brill, I've rung many times and they are mums who will really try to give you advice. I found them good as if they didn't know they said so.

You sound like you have worked really really hard you should be applauded.
But whatever you decide - I hope you can one day see that your dd is doing great and that is down to you. Really.

P.S. YOu shouldn't ever feel really really full as an established feeder - that is a sign of well balanced supply and demand.

treedelivery · 23/04/2009 12:21

Oh Books - hope I haven't made you feel worse with my attempt to offer support. Like I say - you do what ever works for you - and try unburden as much guilt as you can because it weighs a tonne. Big bar of green and blacks at ya!

moosemama · 23/04/2009 12:52

Hi

Finding it impossible to catch up on the thread but have skip read a bit.

Tree good on you for sticking to your guns and getting a referral. I really hope your appointment comes through quickly and you get some answers and solutions for poor little H. If you are continuing dairy free I can heartily recommend Tescos own brownie traybake, they are 2 for £1.00 at the moment and I discovered completely by chance that they are dairy free. They are also lovely and crispy on top with gorgeous gooey choccy underneath. Mmmmm! (Just at half of one actually! )

Dog Bongos, yep all good stuff. We looked at getting one as the maintenance on a 30 odd year old VW is getting too much for us, but when it came to it the VW bond was just too ingrained! Are you thinking of getting one with a bed in the lift up roof? That's what we thought we'd do, us and babes in the big bed made up of the back seats and the terrible twosome darling boys in the loft so-to-speak. You can buy a safety net to stop them falling out and they love it up there. Only bad things I've heard about them is the petrol consumption isn't great on some of them and the insurance costs can be high on some models. They are sometimes called Friendees and the Ford Freda is exactly the same vehicle but not imported so worth looking at as we.

There are a couple of online clubs:

bongofury
bongo technical pages
some reviews of bongos
honest john review
bongo sales and conversions in cornwall

Its worth checking out lots of different sites for them as the interior layouts can be quite different.

Books not feeling too hot so don't really have the words today, but wanted to add my support and say you are a great Mum and have nothing to feel guilty about.

Right am going to slope off again now. I'm assuming I am anaemic - again, as I feel so weak I can barely lift my head/arms/legs and couldn't get out of bed to do the school run this morning. Stayed in bed with DD in crib until 11.45 then only made it to the sofa. I've run out of floradix as well, and the only was I can get some more is by catching the bus into town, which clearly I am not well enough to do. Itchy, stingy rash is back again too, but then it always seems worse when I'm tired. On top of that DD has been out of sorts since her jabs on Tuesday, lots of yukky nappies (of the all through the clothes and up to the neck variety) yesterday and really, really clingy, I had to take her out of the buggy and carry her when I collected the boys yesterday as she kept wailing, which for a baby famed for never crying is definitely not normal. She seems a bit brighter this morning though so hopefully she's through the worst of it now.

Typically DH is at a meeting out of town today and has left me with no bread and no milk for coffee - just because I cant get to the shop. Mum is driving again now though, so may call her and see if she can do a quick grocery drop.

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