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December 2006- where they've grown so much we spend more time talking about our lives than our children

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Indith · 20/08/2008 20:53

Well that and our pregnancies and other non-dec '06 children

Tis a good thing I feel.

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jabberwocky · 23/10/2008 21:58

re-reading "my" post that is

Elibean · 23/10/2008 22:22

No high about your post, Jabber, makes perfect sense

I think its true re genetics, I was rubbish at tooth brushing as a child and I hardly have any fillings now - dh, who was a brushing fiend and had a much less sugary diet, has loads!

Lennied, dd1 turned head down and I was allowed to go to 39 weeks at which point my bp went up and I had an induction which failed, then a cs: dd had disengaged, bobbed sideways back to her comfort zone. With dd2, they were anxious my bp might go up again plus the consultant just 'had a feeling' it was better to get her out at 38 weeks (she went head down, then kept turning and bobbing around just like her sister). I trusted her, so we went ahead - and the placenta was very odd, with vessels going through the membranes etc, so consultant's hunch was right. So in the end, to cut long winded story shorter, transverse position wasn't the actual reason for c-sections...but yes, its true, they won't risk you going into labour with a transverse babe, in case of cord injuries I think.

Did they talk to you about trying to turn him/her if they didn't turn on their own? It really is early days though, I think MWs just like to put in the fact that consultant will have to be involved to get women used to the idea...it does get some getting used to, or at least it did for me. I know you won't not worry, being pg especially, but really is early days - I know loads of people who had transverse babies who turned!

Castles, really great news re your friend - congrats to her! It does work sometimes (and I should know!) and when it does its just wonderful

Also, doubly glad because it means you got some good news - think you were due some

Indith · 24/10/2008 10:41

Congrats to your friend Castles

Mine is head well down Not quite sure how it is managing these spectacular diagonal stretch effect then Oh well.

My MW is retiring so I met the new one yesterday who seemed very nice but the old one is something special so it is a big shame to know that she won't be seeing out my birth.

Waved ds off this morning He will have a fab time with my parents I know, he was so excited to see them this morning but I'm going to miss him so much! Still, I shall be having a great time in Munich.

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LenniEd · 24/10/2008 16:12

Oooh, Indith have a lovely time. We went last year for the Xmas market and it was a lovely city. Loads to see, and very pretty. Freezing though so take lots of warm clothes. But then being a fellow northern-dweller you should be used to the cold

LenniEd · 24/10/2008 16:13

Oooohh, there they are

Heee Heee

BTW, have learnt to knit. Thought I better find something to do with myself....

LenniEd · 24/10/2008 16:18

No Eli, didn't mention trying to turn him round... but a lady on my A/N classes last time round had a transverse baby and they didn't offer her ECV, although they did offer another lady it who had a breech baby. Something to do with higher risk of uterine rupture iirc, but not sure if that was cos baby transverse or some other reason. From what the breech woman told me it wasn't pleasant anyhow so not sure if I'd want it... but that's a long way off yet anyhow. As it happens both of them ended up with c/s but like you position wasn't the primary reason for either of them. Both babies turned, so there is hope.

Right, better go... not meant to be here..

Indith · 24/10/2008 16:57

at the Christmas market Lennied. Dh is actually going for work when it is on but I won't be allowed to fly then.

We went to Munich together when he was studying in Germany and I was working in Moscow, it was somewhere we could both get too fairly painlessly so has lots of good memories Am a little worried about the cold though since nobody seems to make warm jumpers in maternity! I've been diggin out my old collection of uni hoodies that I lived in when pg with ds.

What the hell did I do all day before ds? The house is so quiet and clean.....

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accessorizequeen · 24/10/2008 21:39

Xmas market in Munich. Sigh. Sounds sooo wonderful, I am at that stage just a little where I dream of having a life again and going out in the evening. I want to see so many movies coming out and just can't (stamps foot).

Lennied, hope parcel arrived & they fit!Got your cheque today thanks,will mail you about picking up the mb next week?

Ev, sorry AoA, how did today go??

eli, hope dh is finally on the mend properly this week.

jabber, is counselling etc still going as well?

Had first parent's consultation yesterday for school (all of 5 minutes for which I was v.nearly late thanks to my bloodsucking, sorry hungry little dt's). DS1 is not exactly a star, I must admit. Can't recognize 6-10, knows only half the phonics, won't join in, thinks he's an expert on everything but apparently has excellent general knowledge hhmm]!

aq toddles off to bed in hopes of actual sleep...

accessorizequeen · 24/10/2008 21:42

And castles (sorry despite your admonishments still thinking of you ) enjoy your half-term

LenniEd · 24/10/2008 22:22

AQ - parcel arrived, thank you very very much. Will email you tomorrow, been meaning to for a few days.

Night all, have a good weekend

AnneOfAvonlea · 24/10/2008 22:41

AQ - we had a good day thanks. A shirt visit to relative this morning. 1 hour was max could manage. Happy & sad. Then we took the girls out (pics on my FB profile)

AnneOfAvonlea · 24/10/2008 22:41

short, even

Olihan · 24/10/2008 23:27

LeeniEd - your dd and my ds2 share a birthday. I didn't realise! Ds1 is 31st Dec so I have similar excellent timing .

Have to go to bed, will catch up with everyone else tomorrow .

jabberwocky · 26/10/2008 00:44

AQ, I think often of you saying how much it helped you to your surprise as I am in the same boat. It has actually worked out amazingly well and dh has an appt tomorrow to see about some AD's (another ) It's really sweet of you to think of that in the midst of twindom! Can't even imagine how busy you must be right now.

Ds2 seems to be headed (or arrived even) at the terrible twos with a vengeance. It's hard to believe that my sunny little angel boy can throw these massive tantrums

For those of us with sensitive children - Anne and maybe AQ's ds1? - ds1 has started a listening therapy program. It's supposed to be a really cutting edge thing and I think I'm seeing some results. Of course, we're not getting in the second session every day so maybe it will take twice as long

am liking the new smileys

jabberwocky · 26/10/2008 00:45

oh rats [hangry} forgot all my h's!!!

AnneOfAvonlea · 26/10/2008 07:00

at Jabber's smileys. We've noticed quite a difference in DD11 since she started school. She is still super-sensitive but she will actually take a joke the way it is intended now which is good. She seems to have made a lot of friends but it doesnt take much for her to get upset by something someone said. She seems less affected by clothes now than she was but her sense of smell is still a constant.

AnneOfAvonlea · 26/10/2008 07:01

[hschock] Of course I meant DD1 not ELEVEN.

jabberwocky · 26/10/2008 13:56

That's great that she is adapting well to school. We have been pleasantly surprised at overall how well ds1 is doing. that said, he is still "different" from the other children in many ways. At parent-teacher conference the teacher said he will frequently get upset at something in a story and will go sit at a table by himself. I'm just glad she is so willing to work with him.

LOL at dd11

MARGOsBeenPlayingWithMyNooNoo · 26/10/2008 16:52

Anne - Do you live in a shoe?

MARGOsBeenPlayingWithMyNooNoo · 26/10/2008 16:53

or are you Angelina Jolie?

BradPitt · 26/10/2008 16:56

Hey! I'd been wondering what my DW had been up to.

AnneOfAvonlea · 26/10/2008 17:17

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LenniEd · 26/10/2008 19:43

mad as hatters the lot of you!!

LenniEd · 26/10/2008 20:05

Oli - that hadn't dawned on me either, although have to say I'm still hoping not to complete a matching set Bubs still not moved though...

Why does it take me so much concentration just to add an h in front of the smilies?? Soon I'll be one of those people who just can't cope with change

Jabber - am so so pleased to hear that things are going so well. And glad that your DH is dealing with some other issues too.

Olihan · 26/10/2008 21:55

One of my friends was transverse with her dd until over 38 weeks iirc. I think the baby moved the day before her cs was scheduled. So there is hope .

Mind you, both my cousins were transverse and my aunt delivered them vaginally (horrendously long labours, mind). This was back in the 70's. Can you imagine anyone being allowed to do that these days?

AQ, you continue to amaze me. Parents' Evening? How did you manage that? Don't worry about ds1, it's early days yet, lots of children will be in a similar place.

Indith, hope you're having fun with DH and not missing ds too much!

Jabber, great news . Are you feeling a bit more positive about him?

AoA, LOL at 11dds . Can you imagine?

Hooray for half term - ds1 and dd really need it, they are so shattered. We have nothing planned, just so they can recover .