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December 2007. Laughing, sitting, rolling, whatever next - sleep perhaps?

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Wizzska · 02/04/2008 10:42

Hello ladies, will you join me here?

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Bouncingturtle · 10/04/2008 16:29

Caz as about convincing as me

Took Daniel to my friends, and she got an actual chuckle out of him He has had the non-verbal laugh a few weeks but this was a chuckle and he did it twice!!!

Wizzska · 10/04/2008 18:11

Caz10, re: America, we've got friends in NY and also in Raleigh in North Carolina so will probably try to go to both.

Suey, its always a problem isn't it when you get a beauty treatment. Sometimes you can get people to come round to your house to do treatments and haircuts. I thought about doing that when all my antinatal class ladies came over. We could all get our nails done or eyebrows or something.

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macdoodle · 10/04/2008 19:41

Suey you won't win on the MMR thread I bowed out ages ago - it is one of those very emotional topics and no scientific argument will win/sway it just seems to make them angrier...I always swear not to get involved when they surface on MN then get dragged in and annoyed and just lurk ....you tried

Wizzska · 10/04/2008 19:42

Have just put DS down to sleep. Decided to let him cry himself off this time even if his dummy fell out. Lots of wailing and there would have been gnashing of teeth if he had any for about 5 mins, then sleep. I hope I can keep this up. Will try it for daytime naps and bedtime at first, but can't really at night because of downstairs neighbours. Hope this will make his nights better. Fingers crossed.

Bouncing, the laughing is lovely isn't it. DS usually laughs when we tickle him or pull faces or something, but today we definately had a spontaneous one when my mum took him out of his car seat. One of my top fave things to do these days is blow raspberries on his tummy when I'm changing his nappy, it makes him giggle.

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macdoodle · 10/04/2008 19:42

Suey again £55 for a brazilian bloody hell I know its London but mine is less than £20 and she loves seeing DD2 (in fact I even BF her when she did my legs last time)...

macdoodle · 10/04/2008 19:44

The laughing and giggling is good isn't it - Lil smiles at everyone and they all comment on her hair and skin ...loving her soooo much and feeling so happy to have her - nearly didn't get pregnant then nearly lost her - feel soooo lucky

Bouncingturtle · 10/04/2008 20:18

He did it again! I had him in my lap and was tickling and pulling silly faces at him and he giggled again! It is so fab

I have had such a good day with him!

becklespeckle · 10/04/2008 20:27

Hi all! I?m with you on the aches and pains thing! Particularly my hands. I have had some problems with my hands since having DS1 but since DD was born I have had pins and needles in my fingers most of the time. I suspect I have a trapped nerve in my neck so will be off to see the chiropractor at some point. Apparently you can?t do that while you are having physiotherapy though so can?t go yet, am starting physio next week for the pain in my pelvis. I am still in a lot of pain if I walk any distance or if I have my legs open for any amount of time (not good for DH! ).

Evie is turning into a little wriggler and no longer stays where I put her! She rolls onto her side and then arches her back and somehow manages to turn herself around and move around the floor a fair bit! She also keeps trying to pull herself forward when she is in her bouncy chair ? strong lady! I also love listening to her, she ?chats? a lot but also likes to make singing noises. at those of you getting giggles! We are still at the big silent laugh stage!

Bedtime for her is usually around 10pm, she will often nap at around 7.30 and then feed between 8.30 and 10 (depending on the frequency of feeds during the day) and then I put her to bed awake and she settles herself with her thumb. Sometimes she doesn?t wake from her nap for her last feed and then I dream feed her and put her to bed asleep. She is still in my room in her cot at the moment and will be until 6 months (or longer if her room is not ready ? the joys of living with a builder!). Sympathies to all those with bad nights , although both my DSs would settle with a dummy they did not use to wake for it in the night, I guess I breed heavy sleepers!

Cazzy, my Evie also sucks her bottom lip over her gums and she is incredibly dribbly! No signs of teeth yet though!

Caz, I definitely worry a lot and about everything like you do! Not a major stress out but like a constant babble in the background IYKWIM? No idea about the sleeping through at night but like Louise?s LO, DD was heavy at birth although she is slowly dropping through the centiles now. I do think though that unfortunately it is down to the individual baby and there is not much we can do about it.

Caz & Louise, I also give DD a little comfort blanket toy to go to sleep with as she likes to hold fabric, she often holds her clothes or tries to get her covers up to her face so I feel it is better. I do take it from her once she is asleep though just in case.

Awen, poor Samuel, hope his ears get better soon.

Ambi, if you try dropping that last feed there is a chance LO will wake up in the night instead but if you don?t mind that then give it a try. I was scared to drop DDs last feed/dream feed in case she woke up a lot but she was fine. If you find she is waking at night you could always go back to the dream feed.

Buzzy, what a smart DD you have! Boast away! Ouch for your mole removals though, hope they are not too sore! Are they being tested? I had one removed from under my arm last year, was very sore but thankfully nothing was wrong with it.

macdoodle · 10/04/2008 20:50

Thanks for the support BT

macdoodle · 10/04/2008 20:57

I have asked MN to pull my thread BT am afraid someone who knows my BF will see it and would hate to upset her

Bouncingturtle · 10/04/2008 21:10

Probably for the best. Sorry you got such a rough ride

Bouncingturtle · 10/04/2008 21:11

Probably for the best. Sorry you got such a rough ride

macdoodle · 10/04/2008 21:20

(macdoodle scurries to warmth of PN thread where she feels safe)...
Thing is BT - I knew I was being unreasonable was just upset ....and I accepted that and tried to explain and apologise now it has just detriorated with everyone coming over to slag off my DD1 when she is actually a lovely girl (if a bit loud and headstrong) and actually loves her friend and I am far from pushy mum and very fond of BF DD and worried about her as well.....sorry to everyone for hijack just feel safe here and being crucified elsewhere

Louise76 · 10/04/2008 21:26

Hello all

Feeling a bit miserable today as I have an ear infection and it is bloody sore!! I went to the doctor and she gave me antibiotics but I really don't want to take them as I had antibiotics for a UTI when dd was 2 weeks old and they really upset her. The doctor said I could try taking the maximum dose of paracetamol and 400mg ibuprofen for a couple of days and only take the antibiotics if that doesn't work. I've done that today but it hasn't been easy.

I have been given amoxycillin (sp?) Has anyone taken this whilst bf?

I'm off to bed with the last does of my paracetamol & ibuprofen and a hot water bottle to lie on

Wizzska · 10/04/2008 21:29

Louise - yes, I had particular antibiotic at the hospital after CS and also when I had mastitis, it had no adverse effects on DS and it signalled the end of my bf woes.

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Wizzska · 10/04/2008 21:31

Mac, Bouncing, what on earth happened on that other thread? Come back into the fold here and we'll all be nice to you.

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macdoodle · 10/04/2008 21:35

Louise take the amoxycillin it shouldn't affect LO but if it does will only be loose poos - will be better than poorly sore mummy feel better soon earche is horrid try hot water bottle held behind ear (odd I know but it helps wrap it in something first)....

suey2 · 10/04/2008 22:08

thanks for the support macdoodle I totally missed your thread, but i can totally understand your scurrying back to this one! (as i am too) I have never been accused of being a troll before!

Oh and i know 55 squid is serious dosh for a brazilian, but they did it so much better than other people i have tried.

(suey sighs and collapses back into her comfy chair)

buzzybee · 11/04/2008 05:40

Awen, I don't have her full assessment report back yet so am only guessing on reading age. She turned 6 last Friday and we are currently reading "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" although some of the words are a bit hard for her. I'd say about 8/9?

The "One Day School" is actually completely separate from her normal school - and is run for all kids in the region who fall into this category. So they go there 1 day per week and continue at their regular school the other 4 days. It seems to work well.

DD2 has been sleeping at nights really well for at least 6 weeks but the last week has started waking at 4am...could be she's cold as the weather has cooled down, or could be growth spurt/hunger. Whatever - its a bit of a shock to the system

Oh and meant to comment re hair - yes loads coming out. But then hardly had any loss at all while pregnant.

BouncingTurtle · 11/04/2008 08:07

Mac - hope you are better today.

It seems to me there is a hardcore of Mners who hate people who have naturally high achieving dcs - looked at all the nastiness that often goes on G&T threads. But without the high achievers we wouldn't have top scientists or doctors or lawyers or musicians and artists.
Sadly not all children are equal (I'm excluding SN kids because that's a different issue - many have their own wonderful, special talents) some will excel in some areas, but not in others, some are just naturally good at everything they do.
Don't let them make you feel bad because your dd is someone whom excels at what she does. Be proud you have brought up a confident, wonderful girl, and I noted that you are doing your best to teach her about compassion and thoughtfulness to others. She is going to be a wonderful young lady someday.
Buzzy - I was considered an advance reader, I read the "My Naughty Little Sister" books when I was 7, and "The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe" when i was 8. So your dd is doing fabulously - keep encouraging her! Books are amazing (saying the person whose dining room is wall-to-wall with bookshelves, all full!).

BouncingTurtle · 11/04/2008 08:10

Hair loss - the hormone that stimulates natural hair loss is suppressed in pregnancy - hence the masses lost afterwards!

DS woke up at 1am and 3am this morning, but I rebelled when he woke up at 5am, and told him to go back to sleep apparently dh gave him his dodie too. But I guess he wasn't that hungry as he then slept til past 7am and was full of smiles when he woke up!

buzzybee · 11/04/2008 08:23

Thanks BT (and everyone else!)
I was also a fairly advanced reader and have been encouraging her as I know what a wonderful gift enjoyment of a good book is.
I don't remember ewxactly what I read when but read loads including Enid Blyton, Anne of Green Gables, Joan Aitken, Roald Dahl, Noel Streatfield, Narnia etc etc
I think the key factor that caused her to score so highly was her exceptional memory.

I didn't see your thread MacD but hope you don't feel too bad. (and Suey too! I am a firm believer in the importance of vaccinations but it IS an emotive topic).

Louise76 · 11/04/2008 08:37

Morning,I'm intrigued by the nasty threads elsewhere on mn... I have to admit that I don't stray far past this one and the breast/bottlefeeding one. I thought we were all supposed to be supporting each other on here?!

Thanks for the advice, Wizz and Macdoodle. I woke up in pain at 3 am and decided to take the amoxycillin. Hopefully dd will be OK. You're right - I have to feel better so that I can look after her.

suey2 · 11/04/2008 08:47

had another go, macdoo, had to stick up for myself! But i think i have said it all now, so will bow out. So your thread was about G&T? Well, don't you know that you are just not allowed to have a G&T child on MN!

Oh, i am glad we have this thread, eh?

claraquitetirednow · 11/04/2008 09:47

Well done Suey, I don't have time to read all the thread but if I have got the gist right you are standing up to some of the MN nutters who don't believe in vaccinating their children? There are some people with fairly extreme views on this site and as often they are the ones who shout loudest, no-one dares stand up to them.

Well, we started with a bit of baby rice yesterday and oh dear, last night she woke for an extra feed (fed at 10, midnight and 2.30am). Bugger. I really don't want to formula feed at night, but want to give up breastfeeding soon. Oh why don't babies ever do as they are told!!!

Btw, I loved reading as a child too - seems to be a common theme here! I could read before I went to school as I learnt alongside my older brother, and had to be put into a special class when I was about 6-8 as was so far advanced of the other children (mind you most of them were American who are notoriously thick). (Sorry that'll probably get me thrown off MN for life). Buzzy, I read a lot of those books you list, I also loved Watership Down, and 101 Dalmations.