In my mind it was pretty common knowledge that someone should be holding a new born after they have a smoke - I think the guidelines say 30mins and to remove smoking jackets?
I mentioned something about this to some family last night over dinner and they looked at me like I was crazy and going to be “one of those” mums”. They so easily dismissed the information about SIDS.
Not sure what I’m hoping for here, maybe reassurance that I’m not being a pain in the arse/ unreasonable/ crazy?