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dal21 · 17/09/2007 08:26

Hi ladies - cannot see a thread for the sept ladies who have popped. Thought I would start one (hope I havent been totally blind and missed one already set up)

we can share our trials and tribulations of our LO's here!

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TwitmonstEr · 09/10/2007 18:11

lol, I could go on. And on.
pmsl [almost literally, but not quite] at hammer, read it to my mum, who also laughed alot.
Thank you for the birthday wishes, apparently I will be celebrating on Saturday, rather like the Queen lol.

We had an unsettled evening once every one was in bed, he had been awake alot earlier and was knackered but too tired to sleep. Its really hard not to just let them sleep with you, and the odd occasion is ok, but they are sneaky little buggers so try not to make a habit of it [unless you are co-sleeping anyway]
After all that he finally went down in his carrycot at 11ish and slept til 430/5.

PurpleLostPrincess · 09/10/2007 18:15

Hammer, not insensitive at all, no need to apologise! We've all got our different challenges that we're up against and they've all got their pro's and cons - at least I have a guarantee at the moment that theres only wee in Cerys's nappies! Hence why I also change her on the bed at night - your night got me chuckling, you poor thing!

Happy belated birthday to you too sophus xx I've woken up with Cerys in my arms a few times too so I've taken to placing a few pillows strategically in case it happens again!

Toadstool, your DD's are gorgeous!

dal - glad you got to catch up on some sleep! How are things with DH?

edie - it crossed my mind to start clenching a few weeks ago but I have to admit I've not been doing it half as much as I should!

Well, my cold is easing off now thank goodness - never thought I'd have to master the art of blowing my nose with one hand!

So glad to hear that all babies have up and down days - I find it hard to figure out if Cerys is crying because of something serious (to do with her bag or something) or if she's just having an off day. I think I'm getting to know her cries now but its taking time. She has a new cry which sounds like a little birdie, kind of a high squeak - we've figured out its her 'tired' cry and she looks so sweet when she does it!

We've got the nursery nurse coming tomorrow to weigh Cerys and I'm looking forward to it as I'm sure she has gained weight. She was 8lb at birth and went right down to 6lb 13ozs at one point. Last week she was 7lb 4ozs so it'll be interesting to see what she is now - they don't expect her to put on weight at the rate of normal babies but I'm hoping to blow their expectations out of the water!

Love to all - any reply from hopey by the way?

Hugs

PLP xxx

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 09/10/2007 18:48

and yes, my pants are worn outside my trousers. How did you know?

But aren't we all super in our own ways
lol at me being a claire raynoralike.
{is that who I mean?}

PurpleLostPrincess · 09/10/2007 18:53

OK, here it is being as I never got the chance to record it before - I've copied this to both threads... (sorry to randomly throw this in but I've been meaning to do it for ages!).

(warning - long post)

So, I'd been on mn all day (discovered Hopey and I both have a love for Christopher Reeves btw - I'll always remember that because I got all emotional!). I was having a few strong bh's but didn't twig they could have been something! We were just sitting down to X-Factor and I had just made all the sandwiches for the finger food when I felt a pop in my bump - felt like somebody snapped a twig or something! Realised my waters had broken so rang the ward. It had blood in it so they said to get up there asap. I managed to get up the stairs without too much of a gush and was sitting on the toilet removing wet clothing while DH stood on the stairs asking what he should do. He got some surgical gloves on to help gather my wet clothes and stood on the landing asking the kids to get some carrier bags - they thought I was having the baby on the bathroom floor bless them!

Mum arrived and we set off for the hospital using a plastic tablecloth to protect her leather seats just incase (not a christmas one though ). I started to get tightenings as we pulled up. Got into one of the rooms when I had a massive gush and they were all running around pressing buttons and all sorts because it had lots of blood in it! They did a quick scan to check baby wasn't breach, examined me, then wheeled me into a delivery room - I was on g&e by this point and wasn't dilated. They put a canular in my left wrist that was really painful and akward but I managed to hold the g&e thing with it. That stupid blood pressure thing kept blowing up too hard on my right arm and it really hurt because of my carpal tunnel so I told the nurse to 'get that f*king thing off my arm' which she promptly did (bearing in mind, I NEVER swear in front of my mum!). They were intending to examine me at 1am but I INSISTED they examine me beforehand as I was sure I was dilated. When the (crappy) nurse told me I was only 3cms I screamed out "B**OCKS, that can't be right" and was furious with her! I was paranoid about needing the toilet as I remembered that when I had DD1, the sensation was very similar to thinking I was going to wet myself - they had to keep unhooking me from the monitor to let me go to for a wee. The nurse kept telling me to lie on my side but I kept telling her I couldn't move - I don't think she'd even heard of spd tbh!! When she told me to put my heels together for an examination, I screamed at her that my pelvis was going to snap in two and to shut up!!!

Finally got some pethadine at some point (had lost all track of time by then!) and I remember telling my mum that I hadn't been stoned for ages . I then asked her if she was there when I was born . I kept ringing up DH, first time to tell him he'd love the g&e and that I loved him; second time to tell him to come down there so I could kick him in the balls!

Throughout all of this, I was giving mum a list of things that needed to be done/cleaned in the house - I truly didn't expect to have the baby 3 weeks early and was in a panic because nothing was ready!!!

The rest is history - Cerys arrived at 5.34am and according to mum it took about 8 pushes to get her out. DH was there within 5/10 minutes. I did tear but only 1 inch apparently so it didn't need stitching.

I'm now having a little weep as I love thinking about when she was born. No matter what has happened since then, nobody can take that away from me. Am I the only one who goes over it in their heads? Just keen to know if I'm a bit weird or not?

PurpleLostPrincess · 09/10/2007 18:54

Yes, I think its clare raynor!?

I could just tell you're an outsidie knicker wearer

dal21 · 09/10/2007 19:00

Hi

Have heard back from both holly and hopey. Both are doing ok. will send them both your thoughts and positive vibes.

CCPink - am not shattered but then I think I am cheating as was at my mums thurs - sun and she took ryan in with her. did changes/ winding and I went straight back to sleep after feeding. am heading to hers again this thurs for 2 nights for more of the same. . i couldnt stay in bed feeding, I would fall asleep - between feeding and winding, can be up for 45 mins - lots of trashy tv can be watched in that length of time. never knew they have re runs of the OC in the early hours of the morning.

PLP - my DH is fab! loving being a dad, today is our anniversary of our first date. we were reminiscing! good luck with the weigh in tomorrow.

re the co sleeping, ryan has come into bed with me a few times. i surround us with pillows-and at least we both sleep when he is restless. there seems to be no reason when he needs this; plenty of times he settles in the amby with no problems!

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dal21 · 09/10/2007 19:05

xposts plp - was interrupted midtype by crying baby who needed nappy change and is now happily feeding away.
lol at call to your dh and at comments to your mum. i don't massively replay delivery - but then there wasnt much to remember - my consultant arrived, 90 secs later ryan was on my chest - now THAT magical moment i will never forget!

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PurpleLostPrincess · 09/10/2007 19:17

Awww, glad hopey and holly are ok, send them our love

Yes, it really was a magical moment wasn't it!?! I never got that with DS and DD1, they were carted off for one reason or another, so I'll treasure all the more - gives me goosebumps and makes me teary just thinking about it! (can you tell I'm having an emotional day today?! )

amyclaramum · 09/10/2007 21:44

Hello all ! Happy Birthday to Twit and Sophus - hope you get birthday cards soon.Its my DD2 'S 6th birthday tomorrow and all the cards from the relies are stuck in the post - she thinks the postman is really mean !

lol at the poo nightmare Hammer! How funny about our DD's having same names ! BTW my wallpaper is lovely - newly decorated Laura Ashley number in a lovely shade of duck egg blue ! - just my DD3 doesn't like it !

love and hugs to HIWBB AND EVERYONE ELSE especially anyone feeling overwhelmed by it all at the moment xxx

MrsMar · 10/10/2007 08:14

Morning everyone... I'm taking advantage of a precious quiet time. At five o'clock this morning I discovered how amazing my sling is at getting Luca off to sleep. Why didn't I realise this before? After being puked on three times and trying to get him back to sleep for an hour after his 3am feed, I gave up, put him in the sling and did last nights washing up... hey presto, asleep! Him, not me that is! I'm now wide awake and he's away with the fairies.. typical!

LLL sorry to hear you've been having problems. I hope things improve soon. Take care of yourself, give yourself time to allow the ad's to start working again. I know it always takes my sister a few weeks for things to settle again when she's had to stop taking them during pregnancy.

Kinki - thanks for thinking of me Bfing going well I think... Luca's going to be weighed again on Thursday so that's the litmus test! He gained 4oz last week but the hv has said he must have regained his birth weight by this week or we'll have to start topping up. I'm feeding him like a christmas turkey now! Sorry to hear you're having problems with your dp. I hope you can find a solution soon.

Hammerheadshark - FIL behaved themselves very well, he wasn't staying with us, so that did help. He took his gf sightseeing around London most of the time, but even so, what tiny attempts at a routine for Luca's feeding got thrown in to touch again. Trying to start from scratch again. I'm no expert, I wish I was! LOL at your poo nightmare!! Puts my puke nightmare to shame... it's only all over the duvet, pillow, my pyjamas and hair.

Twit - happy birthday for yesterday!! I hope the wedding plans are going well. How exciting, I love a wedding! Are you having a halloween theme??

PLP - I hope cerys is well. It's so for you and your dh to have to go through this, and your poor dd ! I thought I was having my first period the other day, but as it was only three weeks after my cs the hv said it was more like to be a bit more post partum bleeding restarting. Sometimes if I've had a day with lots of feeding i get a bit of brownish blood, so I guess the bfing makes me contract a bit more again, and therefore bleed a bit again. I love your story of cerys' birth. LOL at your stoned ramblings to your mum! I do go over Luca's birth in my head quite a lot, but like dal it isn't anywhere as near as exciting. It's more the spinal block that I remember and the horrible 5 minute wait I had to see him while they cleaned and dressed him (despite me saying I was happy to see him covered in goo!)

Dal - I get up and feed at night, only cos I get back ache doing it in bed as I can't sit upright enough... I go in to the living room and watch comedy reruns on Virgin on demand. Currently working my way through smack the pony! It makes feeds go much faster I find too, if I feed in bed I get soooo sleepy, I give up too soon and pull poor Luca off before he's finished! I must admit I only change him if it's bothering him or it's obviously a really full nappy. I'm terrible aren't I? I just like to keep him as sleepy as possible so he'll go back to sleep easily. Changing him involves screaming the place down (him not me, although sometimes I'm tempted!)

Righto I'm off to change my puke soaked bedding and do another feed. Have a great day everyone xxx

dal21 · 10/10/2007 08:59

Morning all

amyclaramum - your wallpaper sounds lovely!

MrsM - glad I am not the only one who gets up and watches tv. agree that it makes the feed go faster and stops me from feeling sleepy mid feed.

re the settling - ryan is now big enough for the baby bjorn sitter and he loves it - hoorah!

right - baby crying, gotta run. have great days everyone. to those still feeling it hard going.

PLP - let us know how cerys weigh in goes

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kinki · 10/10/2007 12:58

Twit, congratulations for your wedding! Don't know how you're managing to organise a wedding just now, I'm trying to organise my dad's 80th birthday party next week and that's bad enough. Good luck and I hope you have a lovely day! Oh and happy birthday for yesterday. Sorry none of us were on when you were telling us your news, typical isn't it. Happy birthday to Sophus too.

Plp, my ds1 (7) has been a little insecure about me loving him anymore, and he keeps wanting to know who my favourite is. Its hard spreading yourself round isn't it? He has been quite badly behaved lately too, and getting into trouble with his teacher for not doing work at school. I'm sure its all about pushing and testing the boundraries with him. I'll be thinking of you and dd on sat night when x-factor is on - hope you both enjoy it!

Hammer, your pooey story is a classic! Moral of the story - take notice of those warning farts!

We've just got back from Liam's 6 week check. I thought it was just going to be a formality and that everything would be ok. Most of it was, but it seems that there may be a problem because he hasn't smiled yet. I tried to point out that he was only supposed to be born 2 weeks ago, and won't that mean that the milestones will be a bit delayed. Possibly, he said, but he would've thought he would be smiling by now. . I'm not bothered at all about it, I firmly believe all kiddies do everything at their own pace. I've had one kid who was the first to do everything, and one who was the last. Ultimately there's no difference in them. But the dr wants to review him if he hasn't smiled in the next couple of weeks.

Dh is still sleeping downstairs so I'm doing all the work at night. Most nights Liam doesn't settle after 3ish, till about 6. He's working longer hours too, so quite often I don't see him till very late, last night 11pm. I'm lucky in that I don't usually need much sleep, but its beginning to add up a bit. I'm very of you all who have your mums to help out (envious in a good, happy way, because I know my mum would be the same if she was still around ). Tomorrow my PIL are coming to visit. It'll be the first time they have come to see Liam. They only live 25 miles away. She said she didn't want to visit sooner as it would affect me establishing routines.

PurpleLostPrincess · 10/10/2007 15:17

Just a quick one before I pick the kids up from school - Cerys has put on a massive 6ozs in the last ten days!!!! She now weighs a wopping 7lbs 10ozs - I'm soo proud of her!!!!

kinki - if there's anything I've learnt more clearly in the last few weeks, its that you know your baby better than anybody else and that (as you've said) they all develop at their own rate! I'm sure you'll be getting smiles from Liam when he's good and ready and you'll enjoy them just as much regardless of when they start to happen! That flipping doctor needs slapping!!

I'll pop back in later, ((hugs)) to all!!!

PLP

xxx

dal21 · 10/10/2007 15:44

Hoorah PLP - well done! you must be so chuffed. excellent news!

Kinki - agree with PLP, that doc needs a kicking. Every baby is different and develops at their own rate on certain things. I too am in a different bedroom at night from DH - until Ryan gets a little more settled. He has fairly full on 14 hour days and i dont think it is fair to have him waking every 2-3 hrs and then going to work. It's not ideal, but hopefully Ryan will keep going 4-6 hours and then we can get back to normal.

Something that has really helped me is to let DH give Ryan a bottle of EBM for the late feed at night. Ryan can take in up to 5fl. oz from the bottle and sleeps for much longer (longest is 5 hr 45 mins). Its ideal as Ryan stays used to feeding from a bottle, DH gets some time with him and the other day, DH and I went to the cinema whilst i left my mum with baby and bottle - felt like such a treat. Highly recommend trying it.

Also - a huge thanks to whoever recommended putting the hot water bottle in the cot before settling the baby in at night - have done that also and it works a treat! great idea,

Has anyone gone to breastfeeding cafes? I still havent made it to my local one. am toying about heading there tomorrow morning - I really should get out and start socialising. I am still really enjoying being cocooned with my LO all day. Does that make me odd?

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MrsFish · 10/10/2007 15:59

Copied from Sept thread save typing it all again, in case anyone missed it

We got home from hospital on monday night, they were so busy and understaffed we weren't discharged until 7.45pm, I waited most of the day for the paedetrician to check Ben to give him the all clear.

Well, what a few days... I spent thursday afternoon doing last minute cleaning and washing etc, then settled down to a nice dinner and relaxing evening intending to get a good nights sleep for friday. Me and dh were just lying in bed having a little chat before sleep when at 10:50 I had a big popping sensation, it was so severe I jumped and even dh heard it,he was 'what was that?' my waters didn't go straight away, I just lay in bed for 5 mins wondering what to do, then got up to the loo and the waters started trickling and I got a few period pain aches which lasted a few seconds but were quite mild, seeing as this was how Sam started we didn't hang around too much longer, we phoned the babysitter who was on a night out and she managed to get a taxi, and get to us within 20 mins which was great. We were in the car and on the way to hospital by 11.30pm.

Then started labouring whilst waiting to be checked out, the surgeon on duty didn't believe I was breech even though I had told him I only had the scan confirmed 10 hours earlier, he then did an internal which bloody hurt like hell, he must have shoved his whole hand up there shock then my waters really went, but I had to put wet trousers on again to walk across to the delivery suite where he preceded to scan me again to confirm the breech angry

Theatre was already being used so I had to wait an hour before I went in, by which time I was contracting every 5 mins and it was getting to the stage where gas and air just weren't cutting it hmm everyone then kept telling me that they don't like breech people going into labour... well excuse me but it wasn't my fault they were too busy to do it straight away hmm it took them a while to then put the epidural in because i was having constant contractions, but blimey the relief when it finally worked was amazing, no more pain, but how weird to be numb from the boobs down Oh and they put the catheter in before the epidural shock it wasn't that bad actually, just a bit uncomfortable.

Was then wheeled into theatre and the deed done, I couldn't believe how quick it actually all happened once they got going, I was a little miffed that it was an emergency in the end though, because they wouldn't let me see him being born, and I didn't get skin to skin contact, he was cleaned up and checked and then given to dh to hold whilst I was being stitched up. I was then wheeled into a ward at 3am that morning, got no sleep at all that night. In fact since thursday morning up until sunday night I only managed about 10 hours kip altogether and was so exhausted monday night it was untrue.

I started off bf for the first 24 hours, but became so sore so quick and I was just too tired to cope with the extra pain of that on top of the cs that I admit I gave up and have been ff him since. I feel so much happier having made that choice, only problem is my boobs are like Pam Anderson and are rock hard and painful, I have had 72 hours of painful boobs, so I am expecting them to get better soon.

DH did the night feeds on monday night, so I managed a good six hours sleep and feel so much better for it. My mum came yesterday and did last nights feeds and I managed a 2hr stretch and a 5 hr stretch of sleep, so feel so much better today.

Mw has just been again, and did the heel prick test on Ben, and also weighed him.... he is 5 days old and hasn't lost an ounce in weight... in fact h has put on 3 and a half ounces and now weighs 8 pound 15 and a half greedy boy. Mind you he is putting away between 3 and 4 ounces of milk each feed and feeding approx every 3-4 hours. Not settling too well between though.

Right just need to give him a\ feed now, and will then put a link to some pictures

dal21 · 10/10/2007 16:14

Hey MrsF - thanks for posting your story. After all that waiting, your LO wasnt hanging around was he? Sorry it didnt all go as you wanted it too; but you sound great as does your LO - fab news on the weight gain. Looking forward to seeing the pics and great to hear from you again!

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MrsFish · 10/10/2007 16:37

Pictures here

kelmcd · 10/10/2007 17:29

Good afternoon all!! Just read PLP and MrsFish's birth stories and I too always think about my labour so thought i would share my experience with you too
Well, my DH and I decided to do some last minute shopping the night before my parents arrived from australia, wondering around the supermarket I was egtting the odd tightening, enough to make me stop but nothing regular, got home sat down and everthing settled. Then by about 1am they were coming evry 10mins and keeping me awake, DH kept asking if i was ok, i kept telling him to go back to sleep which he duly did!! I phoned my midwife at 7am, was told to take paracetamol, have a bath and eat!! Then at 8am mum and dad arrived - what a relief!! went to the hospital at 2pm, was 2-3cms so decided to use the pool. The pool was great until Arben decided to go to the posterior position i cant believe how quickly the pain got worse, literally from one contraction to the next, i was inconsolable! Examined again, at 7.30pm, only 3-4cms, so decided to have an epidural -pure bliss!!! Plodded along til 4am by which stage I was really quite unwell, had a high temp, rigours and completely out of it, Arben was also getting very distressed, his heart rate was 190-200bpm before he was born He had to have some fetal blood samples to see how distressed he was, absolutely horrible, was decided that he had to be delivered there and then so thankfully as i was 10cms they did a ventouse delivery. It only took a couple of pushes to get hime out and as soon as he was born i felt so much better, temp went down, stopped shaking etc. It was all totally worth it, perfect timing for mum and dad plus DH never fainted once i am so proud of him.
There you go, sorry for being a long post but wanted to share with you my different birthing experince

MrsMar · 10/10/2007 19:47

mrsf, you have such a gorgeous boy!!! great pictures!

thanks for posting birth stories, not having felt a contraction i do feel i've missed out so its great to hear everyone's experiences!

LoopyLouLisa · 10/10/2007 20:14

Hi everyone,

thank you for all your support. today hasn't been so bad and i just wated to tell you about it instead of moaning all the time.

I went to toddler group today with a friend who i had confided in about my concerns over ds1's behaviour. I feel a bit mean saying it but it reassured me greatly when it was her ds being naughty today and my ds1 was (almost) an angel. we also had a very but really quite funny poop mishap while we were there. lo was sick over her babygro and when i was changing her she pooped all over her vest. guess who forgot to restock the changing bag this morning?! oh dear, my bad must do better next time had to tramsport dd home half-naked (but well swaddled in blankets).

thoughts and massive hugs to anyone else having a hard time and love to you all

LLL xx

HammerHeadShark · 11/10/2007 10:11

Morning all

Just a quickie while waiting for our Ocado delivery to arrive (we are treating ourselves this week ) NB. they have an offer on Ben & Jerry's ice cream - two tubs for a fiver - potentially important information for all women who have recently given birth. We have had online shopping the past few weeks and it is fab - DH doesn't drive so usually I do the shopping but am loving having everything delivered to the door and [lazy icon]!

PLP - fantastic news about Cerys' weight gain, you must be so proud of her, that's a brilliant gain, pat on the back to clever Purple and Cerys

kinki - your gp sounds like a bit of a twat about the smiling thing - glad you have the sense to take no notice of him. Doesn't 6 weeks sound on the early side for "real" smiles anyway, even for a not prem baby? I guess you perhaps didn't get the chance to discuss your early discharge and ignoring of your medical problems amongst the twattishness? Hope visit with in-laws went well, though can't understand how they could keep away from your 3 yummy boys for that long . Sorry to hear you are doing it all virtually solo at the moment with your DH working long hours - hope he can give you a mega break at the weekend so you can catch up on some sooozing.

Glad to hear Hopey and Holly doing ok

Twit, Sophus and amyclaramum's DD2 - hope you all had fantastic birthdays and got plently of presents and spoiling!

Loving the birth stories, Purple your's made me laugh especially! Mine very boring this time but slightly better last time. Was booked in for an elective section with the DTs as one had stopped growing and my consultant thought she would get very distressed during labour and I was in hospital for the last 2 weeks with crazy blood pressure anyway. Woke in the early hours of the morning just 6 hours before my section was booked in, thinking I had wet the hospital bed then realised what was going on when I stood up and the floor was flooded. Called the MW who started trying to rush me to the labour ward saying "there's meconium on the floor" but when I peered down I realised it was black bean sauce from the chinese DH had brought in as "last supper" treat. Had almost an argument with the Mw with her going "No its meconium" and me going "No its black bean sauce, I spilt it myself" before she chilled out and believed me. Duly waddled up to labour ward with the plan that I would wait til the planned section in the morning - soon realised that was not going to happen as filthy contractions started and I was 5 cm and on scanning they found one of the naughty DTs had managed to turn breech at 38 weeks having been head down the day before so they decided to hurry the section along. Almost forgot about DH at home in his bed til the MW said "Do you need us to call anyone to be with you" so he arrived just as they were putting in my spinal, which was really hard to stay still for while having contractions, but felt much more mellow when it was in. Shortly after they pulled out DT1 who remained asleep during the whole thing (she has always been more laid back) then DT2 upside down by her foot scowling and furious (about the same now!). When they handed them to me and DH I think that's the first time I really realised we had TWO babies!

So much for my quick post - ice cream still not here but Millie peckish so better go.

Have a good one x

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 11/10/2007 17:51

lol, we are all dressing up for it, skeletons and witches lol. Actually its no big deal, we shall wear normal clothes and have two witnesses, job done. too many arguments waiting to happen if we invite family.
I'm glad someone else is [whispers, looking around shiftily] ffing. with him sticking his farking tongue tongue on the roof of his mouth all the time, I was never likely to. have expressed as much as I can, so he gets two bm feeds a day, but ah well.

I am however using washable nappies again now, I couldn't believe how much extra rubbish we were putting out. And the smell...
Are we doing birth stories? Have I done mine? Can't remember. Are you interested?

ccpink · 12/10/2007 18:47

twit - quick question - how much does ryan weigh now as i was told to wait til emilia bigger to use my 'real' nappies? sorry to be so short - stirring baby
has everyone ran off today?? have you all met up without me?

ccpink · 12/10/2007 18:49

ps twit i'm doing same as you expressing and ff not whispering though!

canadianmum · 12/10/2007 19:11

I have tried to have a quick catch up but must admit defeat! My mum has been visiting since Monday and I just don't get a chance to check mn as we are too busy chatting and catching up. Tomorrow my father and stepmum arrive for a week so will be busy busy busy but in a good way.

Can't believe Anna is now 3 wks old. I am enjoying her so much, as is DH, although tonight will be his first night in bed with the two of us, should be interesting .

I think she had a little cold but seems to be over it now. She is a great feeder and seems to be getting chubbier by the day. It has been bliss to have my mum round to take her for walks so I can have a nap in the afternoon.

Someone mentioned that their baby is settled one day and much more unsettled on other days and I have definitely noticed that pattern too. Seems to be one sleepy day followed by an unsettled day with more crying.

Dal - does ryan like the amby? I have tried anna several times but not sure she likes it and she seems happy in the moses basket beside the bed. I wonder if it will turn out to be a waste of money as anna still prefers being on her side????

Hello to you all and sorry I haven't time to read every post, will try to get back on track soon. These early weeks seem to be flying by...................