My dad came round earlier. Had asked what nath wanted for his birthday so i told him a few things, he bought him one of those thomas night light/torch things for £15. Then we took dog out, kids took bikes/scooters and i was telling my dad maia needs new bike so he offered to buy her a bike for her bday pressie which not for 3 months but will get it early for her so sher got it in summer. Which is lovely but thats 15quid on nathan and £50/60 on maia! And asked how she is in the sun cos he's just got back from greece and thinking next year it'd be nice to take maia for a week. Which again is really nice but what about nathan. FFS what is it with my family that they only interested in maia?!
Really upsetting me. I told my mum that nathan would be upset if she had m for the night and not n and she seemed surprised and said oh she wouldnt want that she wouldnt have her then. I said well you could always have both she said hmm i suppose i could but didnt sound keen so i told her to think about it. Had it really not occured to her that a 4 yr old boy would be upset if his grandma invited his sister over for the night but not him?!!!