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April 2007 - Where sleep and time alone are just a dim and distant memory......

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EllieK · 28/05/2007 23:40

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EllieK · 01/06/2007 11:14

Katy, please miss, i'm sorry miss, I'll put my hand up and ask permission to be absent next time miss

been a bit low, when i asked Justin to move out it was because I felt hemmed in by him and was getting very depressed. now that I have Joe and I'm having to see Justin every week it's making me feel claustrophobic. I know I don't have any choice tho as I don't want to stop Joe seeing his father.

it's strange, I get on so well with Matthew's dad that I could never understand women who didn't let ex's see children even when the ex was desperate to (unless like Pesha's he's unreliable). this time round i can totally understand because i'd love to tell him where to go and never see him again

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EllieK · 01/06/2007 11:16

feeling a bit better now, helped by Andy's parents taking M to the suffolk show and keeping him overnight.

and i put a dress and heels on yesterday so felt much more like my old self, only with bigger, more jiggly norks

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zazas · 01/06/2007 11:19

Hello - that was a big catch up

Loved the first dress CapTDip - the expensive one of course!

I also have decided not to sell my matenity clothes - just in case..... This baby is such a dream it is hard to imagine not having another one. Having said that my DS has just rubbed my arms and said "oh look at this beautiful wobbly bit Mummy!" - maybe I need to get back in shape here and forget about another baby!

It is lovely not rushing off to school this week but entertaining other DC's is full on - we are off to the library now and having lunch out - beautiful day here and we live in the far NorthWest of England - so we don't say that very often!

Had to laugh at your description emmymummy - feed / eat / rock / feed / change - yep sums up a day in our household too

Won't be leaving the house just yet - DS in reply to my question earlier - 'had he had breakfast' - said yes (DP was up with the kids and usually feeds them) - now he has just told me that was yesterday - he hasn't had it today - 11.15 and I haven't fed my kid !!!

CaptainDippySuperBoobs · 01/06/2007 11:31

Bless your DS and the "Beautiful Wobbly Bit", zazas!!

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} to you Ellie - you are being so strong - I admire you so much!

Pesha · 01/06/2007 11:34

Ellie I have bigger, more jiggly everything!! And i know what you mean, dd is only seeing her dad once a month now but I hate having to see him and talk to him and having her talk about how great he is all the time but now he seems to have got his act together I know it would be wrong to stop him. He's still being a prick though, seems like he's telling me what i want o hear but then when he's got maia doing whatever he wants And she's crying about being left at school again and just very clingy at the mo, which I know prob has something to do with new baby but is alot to do with him too. She had opportunity to go bath and west show with my dad today but said she would miss me too much so isnt going, she has never been like that before Sorry got carried away again there.

Nutty - sorry bout your back and drs being so crap. Ive had bad back since horse riding accident as a child and have to say chiropractors did so much good for it. But I only went as a teenager when my mum paid cos it is so expensive. Hope you can get to see physio but if not and you do have to pay chiro at least it should be worth it.

EllieK · 01/06/2007 11:55

zazas

you already have enough for a 5-a-side football team, do you need a sub too?

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liath · 01/06/2007 12:05

Dd being very insecure too, cried all the way to nursery today - made me feel like crap mum. Just had a long chat with my mum so feel better but I think the new baby has come between me and dd more than I anticipated .

zazas · 01/06/2007 12:14

It is the 7 aside rugby we are aiming for - being from NZ and all that

By the way - feel for you dealing with your ex - just wanted to tell you that Ellie.

Really must go - baby dressed in some blue and looks like a boy - kids have just told me! She has got pink on as well!

Sexonknackeredlegs · 01/06/2007 12:47

Morning, or should I say afternoon!!

Ellie, sorry you are feeling low hun.

As for the rest of you... thinking about more!! My mat clothes are on sale on ebay!!

Hope all are well. Typing with 1 hand here.

Had a good night after crap evening. Dh home soon so hope to go and have lunch out, and eat at the same time!!

CaptainDippySuperBoobs · 01/06/2007 13:32

Pleeeeease - someone - take my older children aay ....... Argh!

Right off back downstairs to tidy up & get ready for the PM.

"See" you later, lovely ladies....

Zazas ... a women after my own heart .....I'd LOVE to have a HUGE family!!

oooggs · 01/06/2007 14:30

SOSKL - my mat clothes are in a pile to be sorted to sell I have already started putting newborn stuff on ebay

claricebean · 01/06/2007 15:13

Hey everyone, glad to hear so many of you are thinking about more. I can definitely recommend four . Also makes me happy that I can finally say my family is complete and feel happy about that. I never thought DH would agree to 4 and was so sure myself that that was how many I wanted. Now I feel absolutely blessed. And his worry that after 4 I'd just want more and more hasn't materialised. Even though Ruby is a dream baby, as all mine have been, I am packaging up the newborn stuff for my sister with a happy heart. . But I think the sight of a tiny one will always make me feel a bit broody.

Right, off to change DS's nappy. Oh joy.

elkiedee · 01/06/2007 15:22

Have just had time for the first time today to check posts on this thread. Drop in weighing session today, Danny sprayed the area around himself with his normal impeccable timing, and then when I went to grab something to mop up with, an older woman who I think was probably the grandmother of the baby next to me stood between me and my Danny, who was fed up and screaming at this point - the clinic worker tried to ask her nicely to move out my way a bit and she very briefly did, then stepped straight back. I wouldn't have minded but all she seemed to be doing was holding out a cardi, the baby's mother was putting on the important clothes herself. Such rudeness.

Aah well, he had put on a little more weight even since Wednesday, so hopefully that will be noted by someone and they'll be happy. And the next of these clinics the health visitor called me and asked me to go and see her at 10, so I should avoid the queue and the melee in that room next time, and after that I think I will look for alternatives to going every fortnight, it was a bit of a headache. If he has another medical appt the same week, he surely doesn't need to go to these as well.

Off now to progress a little further with the task of documenting Danny's existence in the world - registering with the GP or finding out how, getting photos taken for a passport etc etc.

Sorry you're feeling down Ellen, hope all's going well for people more generally.

I will have to start packing Danny's newborn clothes which he will outgrow in a matter of days up in a reasonably organised way so that I can find them if I have a second baby, or if I don't so that I can pass them on or sell them. I have been given the vast majority of clothes and by others, as mix of new baby gifts and bagloads from people who've finished having babies, so when it's time to part with them I feel I should pass them on or donate them via Freecycle to a charity or other place that can use them (hospital ward, refugee centre, whatever).

Eddas · 01/06/2007 17:02

HELP NEEDED PURRRRLLLLEEEEASE
www.mumsnet.com/Talk?rn=35267&topicid=2430&threadid=332728&redir=35267

Pinions · 01/06/2007 17:29

HI LAYDEEEZ.

Well all is well in the pinions house, baby waht can i say still wakes about 5 times a night but hey.

Prouder and prouder of myself on the exercise front, did 20 lengths swimming today just can't seem to get enough exercise at the mo, long may it continue .

Had all my hair chopped too, but why is is that you can never do it as good yourself as the hairdresser does? Speaking of which shes now 12 weeks pregnant and EXTREMELY ill with MS which reminds me - DEFINITELY NO MORE KIDS!

Can relate to all of you though, feeling slightly unsure about listing all maternity clothes (just in case).

Are we all gluttons for punishment or something?????????

Thats all for now, "c" u guys later x

CaptainDippySuperBoobs · 01/06/2007 18:46

Gosh I am tired!! Going out to Book Group tonight, so need to give myself a great big slap round the face ..... Also neeeeeed to tidy house, esp spare room as friend is coming to stay tomorrow.

YvieE · 01/06/2007 18:58

Hi Ladies

CD - absolutely love the first dress. Wonder if DP will splurge abit on me for my birthday in a few weeks

Just going to ummand ahh at the monsson website and then catch up

Sexonknackeredlegs · 01/06/2007 20:42

Hi ladies, can't believe you lot talking about having more. Mine are both going up for adoption! NOT REALLY!!??

Having a terrible time with Becky at the moment. She is really aggressive with dh and I, and blows hot and cold within seconds. We feel at a bit of a loss. I can only assume it is to do with K being on the scene, although she adores Katie.
K is being a pita as well - not settling etc.

Can I ask the BOTTLE FEEDING ladies another question.

Who is using Aptamil Extra, and what made you decide that your baby was extra hungry?

K seems starving, but we don't want to increase the volume of liquid and are therefore thinking Aptamil Extra is the way forward.

Hope everyone is ok.

CD, Book Club eh?? Sounds good.Long gone are the days I had the time to read!

Love to everyone.

Eddas · 01/06/2007 20:48

SOKL, i was using aptamil extra with Harry but have just changed back to the normal one as he had very smelly poo and seemed to be uncomfortable(crying more and not being as calm as normal).

My friend also said her HV said that hungry baby food is a bit of a joke as all they do is switch over some of the ingredients, ie use more of some things and less of the others. I looked at the tins and she is right. Not sure what difference that makes, must fill them up for longer

I changed Harry onto the extra as he always seemed hungry. But i didn't notice that he had less feeds or wanted them less often whilst on it. So when he seemed uncomfortable over the last week i decided to change him back. Anyway i'm sure that hasn't helped much

Eddas · 01/06/2007 20:50

Sorry just want to add that even though i'm not sure it made much difference with Harry it may do with Katie. It might be worth a try, you can always change back

EllieK · 01/06/2007 20:50

now that's much better, just a few posts to catch up on

found out today that Stephen is seeing someone, that's feeling helped my state of mind

still, can't dwell on it so off to a friends

xx

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Sexonknackeredlegs · 01/06/2007 20:54

Eddas, thank you.

Also, how many ounces is Harry having per feed? Do you give him the same each time, and finally, how long is he going between feeds?

Thanks hun. Can't remember a thing from when B was this age!

Sexonknackeredlegs · 01/06/2007 20:55

Oh Ellie, you poor wee lamb. Bugger men, get a vibrator . I have had a glass of wine - apologies. x

Sexonknackeredlegs · 01/06/2007 20:56

Eddas, me again. Poo obsessed. What is Harry's poo like?

Sexonknackeredlegs · 01/06/2007 21:01

Where is everyone????