thanks for the kind messages. Well initially there was little support. Only medical person we saw was the stoma nurse BUT I have pushed and pushed and it seems that we have been missed and we should have been supported by many many more people. Now we have a hv (arranged by myself) to weigh him weekly as I want to ensure he is thriving and a paediatric nurse weekly. Seems our gp wasn't aware what he had been through till I went last week to discuss his 6-8 weeks check and vaccinations (yup he was 12 weeks and it seems was lost in this system as well..) Madness that things can get so lost iykwim.
My mum can't stop praising us and say she doesn't know how we cope as we are not just being parents BUT also ds's nurse...ie changing stoma bags etc etc. Not the best of roles tbh atm BUT hey ho. I will remind him when he's about to get married . No No I don't intend to be one of THOSE mil....!!!
Northstar, don't worry about your dd being in a cot...dd is also still in a cot, not potty trained OH..........AND............Also has a dummy . We try and limit it to the car and her cot (usually places where she will sleep) as she loves it so much BUT tbh I don't care. I can honestly say she won't be 21 and still in a cot with a dummy lol..!!!
May look at introducing the potty in the summer, a cot in the summer and may send her dummies to santa...Think she will be old enough to realise the changes and to understand them by then. I really don't want to rock the boat with her iykwim..She still sleeps 7pm-9am and has a 2 hour nap in the afternoon...I know, I know we are very lucky BUT given how ds is atm we appreciate it so much and its a god send.
Any one's lo potty trained yet..? Any tips for when I try and start it..?? tbh im dreading it.
Happy 2nd birthday btw to you lo OonaghBhuna, how did the party go..?
We have also got dd a trike from elc. She has caught a glimpse of it in storage as I have been trying to put it together over the last week and she keeps pointing to where its stored and saying what sounds like bike..!! How the hell do they know these things...she amazes me but remembering things that we have probably said only once..