Thanks all. We have a jumperoo (£30 second hand bargain on gumtree) but haven't really put her in it properly, other than to check it was vaguely the right size! Will give it a whirl. Feeling better for 6 hours sleep today.
altered I wash with a touch of Surcare at 40 whether it says so or not. Pooey nappies need washing liquid, I can't see any way to get them clean otherwise. I do use tiny amounts (less than 1/4 cap), so she doesn't get soap residue next to her skin, and so far, so good. Could you try a laundry ball if you don't want to flout the instructions try soap?
felix it's hard when things are such a slog to get to, isn't it? Do any of your NCT pals drive? Would you be comfortable asking for a lift now and then? I only just passed my test (a year ago) so am really conscious of what it's like to be without a car, and usually remember to offer, but I think people forget v fast and won't offer. I'm sure someone would be happy to help occasionally if asked. Also, look up which local cafés are breastfeeding friendly, the ones which are around here are rammed solid with mums and babies. It's easy to admire a random baby and start a conversation that way!
toby heh! that is delightful. Aren't babies so precious 