Hello, and thanks for the link back to the thread duck. It just disappeared, and I couldn't find it in searches either. Weird. Hopefully it's not the universe's way of telling me to spend less time on MN 
Tallulah yay for doing policy for government! And am laughing out loud at 'show me your boobies'. Hilarious.
A isn't that headstrong, but I can tell already that L is, even at 9 months. She's much harder to be deterred when she wants something, and already her and her brother are fighting over toys! I didn't realise that started quite so soon ...
Engels Maybe we need to be harder on A's night waking based on your experience! What we're doing now isn't working as he's still up at least once. Sigh. I felt sorry for a lady at a baby group I was at recently with a 6 month old who asked at what age did A sleep through, and I had to be honest and say he still doesn't, at almost 3! L isn't so bad though.
I hope your DH is ok re the diabetes - I grew up with a sister with type 1 so know a fair bit about it. Not anymore she's older, but when she was younger in her early 20s it was always alcohol that made things worse. And hope the blood pressure is better! Pregnancy is tiring ...
Mrs another Frozen household here! Although A finds the snow monster very scary, although it does help with teeth brushing since telling him that the snow monster lost his from not brushing them ...
Cheshire oooh splitting parental leave - we did that with A and it worked really well! And I'm going back to work in Sept for at least a month for the redundancy to take effect, and have decided not to stay if given the choice. I think at this stage of my life I'd be silly not to take the payout and have a summer home with the kids, then try and find something else later. Although may regret that if I don't find a job later of course ..
Waves to everyone else and sorry for such a mammoth post thesis