sorry, I've only skim read due to a nightmare bedtime and still plenty to do before I can go to bed myself.
detective That is awful. I cannot believe they can say that. Hopefully the Union will prove to be of some use.
bedtime has fallen apart here. I had it down to a tee - story to DD1 whilst giving N her bottle, Kiss DD1 goodnight and leave, sit with N while she settles herself to sleep eventually
Now - DD1 bounces off the walls while I attempt to read her a story, N too busy rolling round the room and laughing at her sister to be interested in her bottle, kiss DD1 good night and leave the room, DD1 screams the place down while I give N her bottle, N refuses to settle because DD1 is still tantruming, DP abandons all hope of a peaceful evening and comes to put N down, I go to DD1 and she prattles away about life the universe and everything until she realises I really am going to sit in silence til she goes to sleep, DD1 goes to sleep. 2 hours after we came up to bed.
time for plan B. I have no plan b, but I need to come up with something before tomorrow night as I definitely won no awards for parenting tonight 