Izzy therein lies your answer. Fucking dairy. Join the club. And get a px for Nutrimigen before he is 7 months. Just to get used to it. Fucking intolerances. Explains the skin too.
Horsey yes J does the whole cough until you puke routine usually within minutes of getting washed and changed. They cannot cough up very effectively and if they are prone to swallow then it builds up in their stomach and needs shifting. That would explain the first bottle puke as it builds up overnight. Fucking colds!
DH has just witnessed snot sucking. I was too shy to use my mouth so it was not as nice for J. DH looked really quite traumatised.
A lot of my problems with DH not doing much is that I do not let him do much relating to J especially. He did bottles once and did them wrong. He got upset. He dressed J and did it wrong so he got upset. He put J for a nap and did it wrong. He even took him for a walk wrong at 4 days old as forgot the fucking rain cover. He might do things wrong on purpose though.
J is unsettled tonight. Poor little thing. I can see a night on the sofa for me again.