Yes YW we had one of those days too. Rare, but lovely. Where I think I've got the hang of this parenting thing.
Tomorrow, I am alone with the two. Of course, that will be time it all goes tits up. 
I am trying to have a bath with O before his bedtime. It isn't going well. The boiler just told me to fuck off.

pass Don't worry, when you are in the thick of it, it is very very hard to see the wood for the trees. I frequently have to write down what is happening, and take on others suggestions, which often give the solution.
Pidj It will all get easier. DH will get healthier and fitter, babypidj will get older, and life will not stay this hard. Finances will get better. And the weather will soon fuck off. Sorry if this misses the point completely. I don't want to ignore.