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December 2012: This too shall pass, this too shall pass

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HoneyMumandSon · 10/03/2013 05:10

keep repeating the mantra...

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interwebmum · 11/03/2013 16:50

Hello everyone,
we've been away so I haven't been keeping up with events lately. I hope you are all doing well and babies are happy and healthy.

Sorry to hear that the weather is bad in England. Fortunately the snow is finally starting to melt here so I can get down the road with the pushchair at last!

A is sleeping pretty well and otherwise good, but I have been a little Shock that she seems to have developed two new cries. There's the 'complaining/ranting' cry and then the 'angry' cry. Today she seemed to be properly shouting and cross. I wasn't sure what to do in the end, so I left her to it for a few minutes while I made a cup of tea and when I came back she was asleep. Can a 3 month old have a tantrum????? Surely that stuff starts later?

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IsThatTrue · 11/03/2013 16:57

Stacks that was my DH and considering I'm working a 30 hr week (from home) bringing home almost as much as he does and looking after ds2 all day (cooking cleaning school runs washing ironing all appointments blah blah blah) you'd think a card of appreciation wouldn't be too much to ask. Not that I mind doing any of that. He helps whenever with whatever I want but in slightly control freaky about how stuff is done in the house. I just wish he showed more appreciation, especially as I know he does appreciate it! Lol bloody man!

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utopian99 · 11/03/2013 17:48

My card was 'from' Ds, but Dh had disguised his handwriting and written thanks for the milk, which made me laugh. Grin

O's going through a wonder weeks leap - exciting seeing the developments but he's feeding All The Time and really fidgety..

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SpottyTeacakes · 11/03/2013 18:02

After being awake since 12 it's now he decides to fall asleep Hmm I keep reading threads saying they generally need a nap 90 minutes after waking... It's been six hours!

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MaMaPo · 11/03/2013 18:08

Spotty, better late than never! Was he in a grumpy overtired mood?

Utopian, I think we might be just out of the leap bit - maybe still in a growth spurt though, it's hard to tell which is which. What developments are you noticing? C is much more able to be definite about what she does and doesn't like, which is nice.

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SpottyTeacakes · 11/03/2013 18:14

Nope he was fine just sitting there watching the world go by! Just got to work out what to do about bedtime now.... Might give it until half six then take him upstairs for play/bath/feed and hopefully he'll drop off normal time!

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HoneyMumandSon · 11/03/2013 18:43

Dash was in a fowl mood all afternoon and screamed so much he brought himself out in a rash. I calmed him and he crashed out on my chest at about 4.30 and has been there since - shows no signs of waking. Should I bath/change clothes etc and do normal bedtime routine or should I just leave it tonight and try and transfer him to his basket.

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WillYouDoTheFandango · 11/03/2013 18:54

I'd give him til bedtime and if still asleep transfer him straight to basket. That'll probably wake him up anyway!

Poosplosion here! Full strip including socks and a bath required. Thankfully DP was back from work to fill the bath and hold out a nappy bag for pooey clothes!

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utopian99 · 11/03/2013 19:17

mama lots of fist sucking/bubble blowing and also clearly tracking objects and starting to reach for things - although only in a very vague 'reach'ing way..?

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interwebmum · 11/03/2013 19:25

I just got back from the physio after having something called 're-education of the perineum'. Does this exist in the UK? Are any of you doing it?
I'd never heard of it before moving to France. You put a sort of sensor up the youknowwhat and then have to squeeze the muscles and watch a graph on a screen that shows you how hard you're squeezing. You have to try to hit little targets on the screen by squeezing hard. It's like playing a video game with your private parts! It was pretty bizzare. Apparently it stops you suffering from incontinence later in life. Confused

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SpottyTeacakes · 11/03/2013 19:41

Hmm Wonder if you can buy an adaptation for the Wii Grin

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WillYouDoTheFandango · 11/03/2013 19:45

I don't think so interweb. If you have problems you can get referred but my docs said they won't even refer tipi for physio until youre 12 w postpartum. Did you get extra competitive? Grin

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EggsMichelle · 11/03/2013 20:07

Wii Pelvic Floor, I want it!

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ISpyPlumPie · 11/03/2013 21:19

Noticed a bit of a change in N today too. He's been awake for most of the day, but not really getting grumpy or seeming over-tired. The big thing is how he's reacting to noise - twice today he's got upset at noises he's previously been fine with (a toy xylophone and DS1 screaming mid-tantrum - though that can drive me to tears to be fair Grin). He settled quickly both times though.

Also, when I brought him into the bathroom ready for his bath he got really excited - kicking his legs, grinning and chuckling - while he was still on the mat being undressed as though he knew what was coming next, as he absolutely loves being in the water. That's probably a bit daft and psb (is there such a thing as being precious second born?!) but he definitely seems to be more aware of what's going on overall.

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WLmum · 11/03/2013 21:22

stacks good point well made re the Mother's Day cards! Like you, I know DH appreciates what I do but he is just a bit shit about actually thinking about it and forward planning.

Both dd1&2 were like your ds and wanted carrying like that all the time. Dd3 likes it too but so far it's not a problem. Try talking to him in the mirror if you want a bit more 'face to face'. Although its a pain in the arm/back for you, he will be getting enough stimulation, and it will all change in time.

I had some 'interesting' physio after nightmare birth with dd1 where I played a similar game but the probe was in another orrifice! Unfortunately my physio had no sense of humour and everytime I tried to lighten the mood with a flippant joke she would respond in all seriousness. It was hideous in every way!

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WLmum · 11/03/2013 21:25

Not at all psb ispy. T has started to jump and get upset by noises that previously didn't bother her. Just our babies growing up!

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MaMaPo · 11/03/2013 22:21

Ispy and WL, C is also more sensitive now - cries more at things like waking up, and is easily calmed. She also loves experimenting with her hands, starting to bat at and reach for things. She's also starting to enjoy repetition.

Can I have everyone's fx that she takes the bottle tonight, after refusing last night? Ta!

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SpottyTeacakes · 12/03/2013 00:42

Four hours forty minutes.... Although for the past half an hour ds has been sucking his thumb so loudly I'm surprised he didn't wake the neighbours Grin

Mamapo hoping c took the bottle and you're fast asleep!

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halesball · 12/03/2013 00:47

FX that your asleep now Mama and that your DD is taking a bottle off DP.

WL and Ispy H is doing more recently shes pulling her toys upto her face to inspect them more closely (and also to taste them ha). She had a daisy duck comforted which she grabs and always manages to get the beak in her mouth somehow. But like you said Ispy she seems to suddenly hate loud noise and gets really upset by it.

Well me and DP are barely speaking he showed up at half 3 with a card and wait for it, a card and Easter Egg! His theory was that i would enjoy the egg more. But anyway he then told me he had to leave at 4 because he wanted to watch the match at home! When i asked why he bothered coming round he stormed out. He text me today like nothing happened i'm afraid he can do one till i have a apologyConfused

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SpottyTeacakes · 12/03/2013 00:48

Ooo also re the weather loads of people I know took hours to get home, hilly roads everywhere absolute carnage because our council didn't grit the roads, I mean seriously?! Even I knew it was going to freeze!

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SeymoreInOz · 12/03/2013 00:54

Interweb That sounds very french like a good idea. I've been a bit lazy with kegels but weirdly my pelvic floor is in much better shape this time than it was after DC2.

MaMa How did you get on? DS started refusing bottles after he had a week off when the steriliser broke. I thought it was the milton, it wasn't. I tried moving up to stage 2 teats last night but no joy. DH is back from Melbourne tonight so I'm going to get him to try the medela calma teat, DS just roots for the breast if I offer him a bottle. Fingers crossed.

I had DS weighed today. At 14 weeks he is 18lb 6oz - the same size as the average 7 month old boy!! I have been given the green light to offer him baby rice in 2 weeks time, if he's not ready he will spit it out. I am feeding round the clock now and he seems to be hungrier at night. I might hold fire on the easter eggs though daydream! Grin

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Secondsop · 12/03/2013 01:41

interwebmum that pelvic floor game sounds hilarious! Did anyone else bother with perineum stretching before birth? I didn't; I did tear but to be honest I'm not convinced that the tear was worse than doing the perineum stretching.

We have solved the green poo mystery! It's the formula. I gave little Z a couple of Aptamil feeds yesterday as it seems to be a lighter milk than a-26 and I thought Z might take more of it in the heat, and Lo and behold the poos after that were yellow, and also smelt far less - like his old poos in the UK.

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halesball · 12/03/2013 03:09

Seconds yay for yellow poo Grin i didn't do the perineal massage either. I ended up with an episiotomy anyway so glad i didn't.

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MaMaPo · 12/03/2013 03:13

Hooray, she took the bottle! Good girl. Teach me to be all complacent about anything related to this baby. I'm v glad about that but ready for her to do some longer stretches again - she had been going 4-5 hours,BMW we're back to 3 on the dot.

Hales, that's rubbish. Does he really not know how childish he's being? at least you have chocolate

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SpottyTeacakes · 12/03/2013 03:14

Argh ds just pooed! He hasn't pooed at night for a couple of months!

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