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December 2012 - the fourth trimester is nearly over

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MaMaPo · 21/02/2013 02:29

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Stacks · 24/02/2013 11:45

I've had a couple of terrible nights. DS has been fine, waking consistently at 2:30, 4:30 and 7:30 (first time it's been consistent times even though inconsistent bed times). However, I've got a bad cough, so firstly I keep waking DS up when he drops off on the breast or in with me in bed. When I manage to hold in my coughs long enough that he gets to sleep, I Jen spend ages coughing. Really getting tired with it now, luckily docs are open tomorrow so I'll go beg for drugs. The pharmacy refused to sell me any.

We've got loads of snow again today, though still managed to get out to swimming (just). DS did his first submersion today and took it all in his stride. Very proud mummy. I think I'll start taking him swimming outside of classes soon.

I can't remember names due to lack of sleep. However I hope the cousin is found soon, must be very stressful. Also, to the mum finding it hard today, try and get a break if you can, and also give yourself a break - you're a wonderful mum, babies cry sometimes and it's ok. They know you love them, you're there for them, just keep cuddling.

DS had a real tantrum last night. Just screaming for no apparent reason. After trying for ages I finally got him to accept the breast and fall asleep - when I spilt cold juice all over his face and terrified him. Trying to dry his face quickly terrified him even more. I felt awful he was crying so hard and obviously panicking. I was crying too and was so angry with myself for doing something so stupid. The first traumatic thing in his life :( I'm nearly in tears again just thinking about it.

utopian99 · 24/02/2013 11:46

willyou I was on the induction ward but went into labour naturally before they got the drugs into me. Was there for a few hours before I got sent to delivery but it progressed pdq so they bought me mobile gas and air - I was trying so hard not to make a noise for the sake of not freaking out the ladies waiting for drugs to work and kept apologising according to dh to all who'd listen..

Also guildford local ladies I'd be v up for a meet once we move down! Any day after Easter...

SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 11:51

Stacks hope you feel better soon, don't worry about the juice I spilt rice on ds's head the other day Grin

Utopian I was 6cm with contractions 7 in 10 on the ward and they still wouldn't let me have gas and air! I was mooing though

Eggs any news on your dh's cousin?

WillYouDoTheFandango · 24/02/2013 12:12

There wasn't a specific induction ward just an antenatal one so I was with people who'd had a bleed, preeclampsia or hyperemesis.

Hope you feel better soon Stacks. I dropped a banana skin on DS's head the other day. He was shocked to say the least!

Secondsop · 24/02/2013 14:14

willyou I was on an induction ward but they didnt believe I was in labour after the gel until I almost gave birth there and then, so I couldn't help making lots of noise, and i made the 5 year old son of the woman in the next cubicle cry.

SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 14:17

Grin Seconds

Ds has been really squirmy the past couple of days when feeding, even at night, any ideas? He does it when he first latches and after let down

WillYouDoTheFandango · 24/02/2013 15:21

Ha Seconds well that'll learn them. Hopefully that little boy also learned an important lesson about the importance of contraception!

halesball · 24/02/2013 15:41

Spotty maybe check his mouth for signs of thrush, also double check your breasts for any abnormalities. If neither of them maybe he's coming down with something. Swaddling my LO when she gets like that helps.

I wasn't induced but when i went into the 1st stage of labour i couldn't wee so was admitted to antenatal for observation (and regular catheters) . 4 women on the ward gave birth overnight on the antenatal, without their DP's present because delivery suite was full and it was ward policy to send partners home at 9 o'clock.Hmm

SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 15:46

Thanks hales ill keep an eye on his mouth.

That's awful about your hospital. I'm lucky that at my hospital they just have one ward for pre/post natal and partners are able to stay the whole time. Other partners were advised go go home, dp wasn't though for some reason good job though as I started labouring fairly quickly. Labour ward was closed most the time for the whole two and a half weeks we were in, it was one in one out kind of thing. The midwives said there was a bit of a baby boom, must have been the same across the country!

IsThatTrue · 24/02/2013 16:15

stacks last night I put DS down for some tummy time and as his arms were behind him I tried to move them both in front so he could push himself up. But as I tried to do that he moved his head and properly face planted into the floor. It looked like it really hurt. And DH and 2 of his mates were there to witness is. I made him better with booby.

So don't worry about some juice, you could be a much worse mummy like me Grin

WillYouDoTheFandango · 24/02/2013 17:49

Oh Hales that would be awful! My DP was sent home but seeing as my labour lasted from 3pm-4pm the next day he was there in plenty of time after my 6:30am heavy breathing phone call!

MaMaPo · 24/02/2013 18:05

Thanks for the kind words Stacks (I was yesterday's pathetic mum!). Didn't end up goin out last night - too cold and I was too tired but we had friends over for takeaway which was lovely. Little miss slept well and we have had a relaxing day.

Something weird though - we decided to walk into town to do some shopping and on te way she really cracked it, started crying and getting really hoarse. We turned around, ready to abandon ship, and she gulped, stopped crying and fell asleep for 3 hours! We went into town, had cocktails and burgers for lunch, did some shopping and got home before she woke up. Amazing. Anyone else's little ones cry themselves into such calmness? It really took me aback.

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SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 18:13

Ds sometimes has a big old cry before he zonks out, I know many will disagree but I really do think that some babies need that cry before they fall asleep, obviously that's completely different to letting them CIO which I wouldn't do Smile

SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 18:14

Oh and glad you've had a better day Smile

HoneyMumandSon · 24/02/2013 19:29

Ok, D managed to do a poo that exploded out of the top at the front of the nappy but missed the inside of the back (the usual place to find poo) and was all over his front. How on earth was that achieved?

SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 19:35

The boy's got skills Honey Wink

WillYouDoTheFandango · 24/02/2013 19:47

Impressed Honey

DS has been screaming the house down since I shocked him awake jumping at the walking dead! We've calmed him down and put him in bed but he's having nightmares now Sad

halesball · 24/02/2013 19:49

Haha honey sounds intriguing.

Glad your having a better day Mama.

Stacks hope you are feeling better now.

The hospital i was in had 18 births the on the 6th and Heidi was born at 1am on the 7th. The staff just couldn't cope. If i hadn't of had the birth experience i had, i wouldn't of believed it was true. I think thats the reason even thinking of another baby scares me. And those 4 poor women who actually gave birth without their DP's i bet they feel robbed.

Barbeasty · 24/02/2013 19:58

A's got back into the habit of having a huge cry at around 8pm before falling asleep while I stand and rock him.

Stacks just wait until you have a stroppy toddler. Those submersions can be worryingly therapeutic...

I haven't left A as such so far, but DH takes him and DD to church every week (with MIL so he has help!) so I get about 2hrs peace each week. Brought to a rapid end when hungry DS gets back.

utopian99 · 24/02/2013 20:53

Dh just took Ds for a nappy change and without any provocation he started screaming as if he was being tortured. Dh had done nothing out of the ordinary in any way - it really scared both of us, he sounded in real pain but for no reason we could work out, and now he's back to normal evening fussing. Any ideas?

WLmum · 24/02/2013 21:05

stacks I have dropped lots of bits of food on dd, including rice in her ear, but felt awful when I dropped a biscuit crumb in dd1s eye!

utopian dd did exactly the same yesterday. Normally she likes having her nappy changed and that's when we get the best smiles but yesterday she really howled, it was very upsetting. She was very unsettled last night but seems ok today.

If we're heading out in the car seat or pram dd will always have a good cry before we get going as she doesn't like being stationary in either but soon falls asleep as we get moving. I have heard that some babies do need to cry for a bit to release tension and then relax and fall asleep. What's CIO spotty?

MaMaPo · 24/02/2013 21:47

OK, so basically babies are weird!

Ugh - just took ages to get C to sleep, including 3 failed attempts in the cot. I think this tells me she isn't yet ready to put herself to sleep yet!

I agree WL, she's usually grumpy/squally in the pram before we get going and then calms down. But today, she was initially OK and then completely lost it after we got underway - she really sounded like she was in pain.

Right, I'm exhausted. Time to go to bed and let my husband do the 11-12 feed. Hopefully can get a good few hours.

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MaMaPo · 24/02/2013 22:03

I jinxed it - she's awake again. Grr.

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SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 23:31

CIO = cry it out. I didn't want anyone to think that's what I meant!

Eugh 2 1/2 hours and first wake up.

SpottyTeacakes · 24/02/2013 23:37

Oh no 3 hours, same as always Smile eyes to bleary to read the time properly!