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November 2012 - the birthplosion (thanks Peaky)

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StuntNun · 13/11/2012 09:56

Previous post-natal thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/postnatal_clubs/1579907-November-2012-babies-are-here-at-last

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ShellyBobbs · 16/11/2012 16:12

Oh yes, had the weigh in today aswell, I was so ready for an argument. Tommy was within the 7% rubbish they quote so I was spared the lecture. He's only lost 3oz but he is a non-stop feeder Grin

I had a phone call from Sure Start on Wednesday from a breast feeding group. She just wanted to invite me to the local breastfeeding support group, I was very impressed and will go when hubby goes back to work.

YellowWellies · 16/11/2012 16:20

J is swaddled - we got the same advice - it's fine in a thin cotton swaddle and m'eh as a species we've been doing it to our young for hundreds of years. He sleeps muuuuuuuuch better swaddled and doesn't twat himself in the face and our room is chilly think 16-17C so I'm not worrying about it.

blonderthanred · 16/11/2012 16:43

I've got the big muslins for swaddling but I don't seem to be doing it right, he always wriggles free!

Passmethecrisps · 16/11/2012 17:08

We swaddle Penelope when she has finished her late feed as she seems to settle much faster. The hospital was so warm but each midwife would wrap her up in layers and layers!

horsey I think I have an eating machine on my hands. The midwife reckoned she should be taking between 60 and 90 ml per feed. That is a rough guide according to her weight. She probably doesn't get anywhere near 120ml in actual fact as she dribbles and spits.

I am very happy with my new breast pump. Pretty tough going though - feed for an hour then settle down like a cow. I will keep going as long as I can and keep trying LO every day.

I am currently stretched out on the sofa with LO snoozing in her pram. My house looks like a bomb has hit it. Can't even watch the telly as the pram is right in front of it.

In TMI news, stitches are pretty tender. I need to get over myself and agree to let the midwife take a look when she comes tomorrow. Pooing was a bit of a difficulty and I am now sporting my very first pile. What a grown up I am!

Passmethecrisps · 16/11/2012 17:11

Oh, and I will ask about how long to feed her on the bottle. I have never heard this before but defo worth asking.

I am inspired by the story of picking up breast feeding weeks after birth. I will keep giving her a go. Despite feeling I did the right thing, it does make me tear up a big when she roots round for my breast while pushing the bottle away. If only she could be given instructions!

NervousAt20 · 16/11/2012 17:12

Congratulations belgrano

Sorry I haven't name checked properly

Little one has been really unsettled again today, basically awake from 10am with a couple of 10min power naps, nothing settles her but my boob, we went in the car which normally sends her off to sleep and she cried abit then quite until the car stopped Sad I'm completely shattered and just want to cry, I feel like my milk just isn't good enough for her because she seems so unsettled and now I'm abit pissed off with DP so that's not helping my mood! Oh and I still have dinner to prepare and cook

StuntNun · 16/11/2012 17:31

Hello post-natal ladies I'm allowed to officially join you now. James Andrew was born at 23:03 yesterday at 6lb 14oz despite being a week late. We had pitched up at the hospital the night before for a check up as baby had gone mental for a while, moving and kicking every which way. They did a trace which was fine and I was somewhat patronisingly reassured that lots if movement was good, only reduced movement was a concern. Fast forward yo yesterday morning, I was woken by a contraction and when I went to the loo there was blood on my pad. Good, I thought, a bloody show. But then I passed a blood clot so I phoned the hospital and they said that was probably part of the show. But a bit later I passed another clot and there was fresh blood in the pad. So I phoned again in a bit of a panic and they said to go in. I was still contracting at intervals from 2.5 to 6 minutes which of course slowed right down as soon as we got to hospital. They did another trace which was fine and when they did an exam about 11 I was only 2cm dilated but they found my waters had broken at some point. So I was told I'd be kept in because of the blood and put on the drip after 24 hours if I hadn't gone into established labour.

Cue pacing the corridors and sitting on the fitness ball for hours, with contractions coming every 5 minutes but quite mild ones. After six they decided to do another trace but this showed decelerations following every contraction. When they did another exam I was still 2cm dilated which was quite irritating. When I mentioned that I was still bleeding fresh blood (they thought the blood was more show) then they decided to do a scan. This showed blood pooling behind the placenta which explained the terrible backaches I had been having. So off to theatre for a section we went! The anaesthetist decided to do a general anaesthetic. Apparently they were just in time because baby opened his bowels just before they got to him so he was clearly in distress. Unfortunately for my DH (I was still out of it at this point) baby got a big dose of drugs and had to go into the incubator for extra oxygen for the first hour or more so poor DH didn't even get baby cuddles for a long time.

So we were unfortunate enough to have a placental abruption but fortunate in that baby James was delivered in good health and is doing well in his first day. It wasn't the planned and expected VBAC but he was really in danger so his safe arrival is all that matters to me. It does mean that if we have a fourth child it will have to be an ELCS but we'll cross that bridge when if we come to it! Grin

And that's my birth story.

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ShellyBobbs · 16/11/2012 17:34

Wow Stunt, thank goodness you're both OK, how are you feeling now? Congratulations again.

YellowWellies · 16/11/2012 17:50

Wow stunt you've done such an amazing job getting him here safely - well done Mrs x

PetiteRaleuse · 16/11/2012 18:01

Congratulations Stunt - what a scary experience, good luck with the recovery over the next few days. Rest up and update us when you feel up to it.

ValiumQueen · 16/11/2012 18:05

So glad you are both ok. Big hug for your DH too. That must have been very scary for him.

ValiumQueen · 16/11/2012 18:06

^^ that was for stunt. Baby brain.

Passmethecrisps · 16/11/2012 18:11

stunt that sounds incredibly scary. You must have been pretty frantic - or at least I know that I would have been for sure!

I am delighted that baby James got here in one piece - he is cute as a wee button as well.

Passmethecrisps · 16/11/2012 18:12

nervous this might not be terribly helpful but could you send DH for takeaway? It sounds completely exhausting and you need some time to recover a bit. You can't do everything

YellowWellies · 16/11/2012 18:22

Words of wisdom from pass go on DH go and get a takeaway. We're having fish and chips tonight as neither of us can be arsed to cook!

Passmethecrisps · 16/11/2012 18:29

My DH has just come in saying "right, I have a question for your mumsnetters"

Basically, he told me he did a fart in the car and it smelled like LO's poo. He is wondering if he is having sympathy farts. He assures me he has not been drinking the expressed milk.

Chunkychicken · 16/11/2012 18:31

Congratulations Stunt. That must have been so scary but proves Mum really can tell when something is wrong. I hope you are both no worse for it soon.

Chunkychicken · 16/11/2012 18:33

Congrats belgrano.

Titsalinabumsquash · 16/11/2012 19:00

Another nightmare day with J, he just cries non stop! We think its a wind/tummy ache problem, he drags his knees up and makes a real high pitched scream. We've been trying infacol but DP thinks it makes things worse.
Not really sure what to try next.

Evilwater · 16/11/2012 19:17

tits- infacol does take time to work, have you tired the different ways to burp? Someone surgested cooled boiled water to get up the wind, gtbaby recommended fennel water. Have you thought about changing the nipple on the bottle if your part bottle feeding?
I'm so sorry to hear about the screaming, I know what it's like.

stunt Wow.

Baby evil is now 6 weeks today, and has slept all day. I gues ill see you all on the night feed thread.

Evil

Evilwater · 16/11/2012 19:27

Forgot to add, my I let me LO eat as much or as little as he likes. Sometimes he has 6-5oz other times 3oz.

Oh and STILL no car. Hopefully it will be fixed, next week.
Evil

Thechick · 16/11/2012 19:35

passme LO was in scbu for 16 days and i just wanted him out so agreed to the bottle feeding and planned to sort out bf when we got home. I was expressing all the while and offering the boob as often as possible. I have a few issues with supply but I'm taking fenugreek and he is ebf as of 3 days ago and before then it was bf during the day and he was ff at night since about 2 weeks ago and he's almost 6 weeks

DesperateHousewife21 · 16/11/2012 19:37

stunt congratulations on the safe arrival of baby James, what an ordeal but so pleased he came out safe and sound in the end :)

Dixiebell · 16/11/2012 20:09

Wrt routines, with DS I didn't feel comfortable putting him upstairs to sleep in the evenings until he was at least 8 weeks. It just felt strange, so he slept in Moses basket in lounge with us until then, and then we'd take him up when we went to bed. He's a v good sleeper now, and always has been, rarely wakes in the night. I wouldn't stress about getting a routine in place quickly just for the sake of it, just do what suits you.

StuntNun · 16/11/2012 21:23

Thanks everyone, it was quite an experience but everything went smoothly and he was promptly evicted when problems arose. I had a similar birth with DS1 but much more traumatic and came a lot closer to disaster. DS2 on the other hand was a piece of cake!

I'm having a bit of a hard time with the pain and worrying about the first bowel movement Blush but James is feeding well for long periods so hopefully my milk will come in while my nipples are still intact. DH, DS1 and DS2 are all very taken with him. I was all lovey dovey last night saying he was the handsomest baby in the world and everything, when I realised I was on a syntocin drip! It's amazing what those hormones actually do to you.

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