I have no idea what is going on BC but you do have my support and some hugs.
No 3rd here, I am truly in perimenopause with weird periods and mood swings so we would have to be lucky to hit the right time anyway! I am too old tired and I am not having a 3rd CS. I know in the UK they go beyond that but most countries in the world think 2 are enough for the mother health.
Back home school start tomorrow for DD1. Still melting a bit, we had 44C this week end
. A bit cooler now... waiting for automn to come!
NK and SR, a friend of mine have a very clever little girl with pee problems too, she made her clean everything (wipe the floor, take her clothes to the laundry, get new clothes, put them on...), she soon decided that to pee in the toilet was less bother.