Bodeccia does it look like this?, if so, it's a bleb or milk blister. There's advice on dealing with it on the site or kellymom or does it happen after a feed and then eventually turn back to normal? That might be vasospasm? Red triangle sounds like a blocked duct, yes.
Ugh, reflux, it's so rubbish. Poor babies.
cupcake - can you settle him on his tummy and then switch onto his back?
Or have either of you investigated a sleep wedge to elevate his head above tummy? I've raised the head end of DD's bassinet in an attempt to help although tbh it doesn't seem to do anything
tostaky good on you getting onto the GP, hope the gaviscon is starting to make a difference? or do you think you'll be getting that referral?
Harecare, I definitely don't have the hang of DD yet. I made the mistake of looking at some link to Dunstan baby language, which is supposed to show different baby sounds meaning differet things and then drove myself mad trying to hear DD's. I've come to the conclusion that she doesn't speak the same language.
Catsy - sorry to hear it all turned a bit custardy after such a lovely start! DD3 may well get more efficient quite soon, DD definitely feeds more quickly now at 7 weeks and has been for a while. The getting harder to settle thing might not be the mastitis, it could just been the general fussiness that seems to kick in around the two-week mark and continues on. Is it this week that your DH has gone back to work? Hope it's going ok, I found that the prospect of doing it all myself was actually worse than that reality. Although I expect with CFS you're going to need to watch your energy carefully, I'm pretty exhausted at the end of the day - literally drained. Hard decision about whether to give up BFing to help care for everyone, but you do what you have to do. I'm sure you'll make the best decision for whole family.
Fussy evenings and cluster feeders - one thing to check on is that the baby isn't overtired? we've found that when DD gets v tired she also gets v sucky and wants to nurse but using a pacifier, swaddling and shushing works better to let her get to sleep. If she's really hungry she won't settle, so there's no risk of supply/weight issues, and it helps to avoid that sore tummy/feed/cry cycle that she got into a couple of times. Of course cluster feeding does also happen. I think DD does a bit of a cluster in the mornings now as she's going longer in the night.
We've been getting some decent stretches of sleep recently, normally from about 9pm to 4:30AM - that's her sleeping, I've been heading to bed around 10:30 once I've waited to see whether she's going to wake or not. We're not on a routine or anything but I try to keep my eye on feed and sleep times - so time since last feed (she typically wants another feed around 3hrs) and time since she woke (she typically starts fussing and needs to be helped off to sleep about 1 1/4 to 1 1/2 hrs awake time). Of course it all goes out the window if I have to get her into the car to get DS to daycare or if she vomits up a feed - then neither she nor I seem to be able to work out what she wants.
Re: house/organisation. I have been trying to sew some basic fleece curtains to help insulate the windows. It has taken me nearly 3 weeks to 1. Clear the dining table, 2. Find the sewing machine and transfer it to the table, 3. Measure windows and calculate fabric required, 4. Buy fabric. I still haven't actually cut the fabric or sewed the curtains. And tomorrow is the last of DS's daycare days for this week.
I have a form I was supposed to fill out BEFORE DD was born that still isn't done. I can't even decide which day to increase DS's daycare to, and I'm in serious need of a haircut. I can almost guarantee that it will be another 6 weeks before I get one.
I count it a good day if I have got myself up, showered, dressed, DS fed three meals and two snacks, one load of washing in machine and another out on the line, and the dishwasher emptied and re-stacked once in a day. It's a bonus if I've got something organised for our dinner. Sigh. I can't quite work out how it's going to get better, I suppose once she starts going to bed a bit earlier it might.