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Feb 2010 - turning two and turning heads

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BigBadBear · 10/02/2012 12:33

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PenguinArmy · 07/03/2012 21:57

Funny thing was that just before I read your post I was thinking about that fact I don't stuff vegetables. (New book is the River Cottage veg cookbook)

InmaculadaConcepcion · 07/03/2012 22:02

Shirley Conran said "Life's too short to stuff a mushroom" and she's got a point. That said, I did make stuffed mushrooms once and they were delicious. I don't recall them being too faffy either.

River Cottage Veg sounds good...I rather fancy the Hugh Infernley Witters veg one, too - lots of good reviews of that one....

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 08/03/2012 04:42

Some Thanks for you all lovely ladies on the international women's day (and mother's day in Romania).

PA I did understand 17 stuffed nappies. Life definitely too short for stuffing mushrooms but they are good if well made...
The best stuffed pepper I ate was from the armenian grand mother of one of my childhood friend, all veg. too, just rice and herbs and some magic ingredient

BigBadBear · 08/03/2012 09:31

BG sounds like a busy day, not helped by a series of unfortunate incidents. Hope you are feeling better now.

survival good to hear you got flowers. Maybe you should also try for a new ipad, just to test how bad he's really feeling?!

IC maybe the bad poos are the last of the bug leaving her system? How are you feeling, by the way? Are you blooming?! Great news on your DH's job :)

SB I don't see how an emergency dummy can cause night terrors. I think they often resolve on their own as quickly as they start, so fongers crossed it happens soon for you.

PA glad you are better too, and had a good day. Slightly Shock at 17 nappies.

All good here. I'm definitely feeling less tired, though still not right. I think I've not really been taking very good care of myself, but less work and some jolliness (I've lined up quite a few lunches with friends now I have less work on) is helping!

And talking of jolliness, I went to a great play place yesterday. There was a playroom (with lots of toys and books, rather than soft play) with big comfy sofas, and the staff bring you nice tea or coffee and toast. There's an attached cafe that serves very nice food and treatment rooms upstairs, and you can either go with a friend and use the play room for free (though it isn't very expensive anyway - cheaper than local soft play places) and do some reciprocal childcare, or there's a cheap and lovely creche. I'm going to go a lot, I think, as I can see DD2 outgrowing it in a year or so. Very well thought out and really well executed.

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 08/03/2012 14:19

Happy IWD Sisters and fellow FEB 2010 mums!

Freshly baked ginger dark chocolate cookies?!!

I feel fine, thanks BBB. Vaguely blooming, I think, although until the amnio business is out of the way I'm not quite ready to fully enjoy T2.

Well, DD was much better this morning and obviously hungry at breakfast time. But once again, she's faded somewhat and lost most of her appetite for lunch and is very tired again.

I really hope she shakes it off soon.

StoneBaby · 08/03/2012 19:57

IC hugs and I hope your DD is feeling better.

BBB great news that you are relaxing and enjoying some 'me' time.

PA I did read 17 nappies - is that for 1 day? I miss using our BG but DS bum can't cope with them as he gets terrible skin reactions.

I hope all the sick mums are starting to feel better Thanks and a Brew

StoneBaby · 08/03/2012 20:00

BBB sorry I expalin myself badly. I don't think DS is having night terrors because of the dummy but he now knows that if he doesn't settle back quickly he will get it and he now asks for it when I go in his room to comfort him Saying that he woke up (crying) last night and ressetle by himself within 5mn.

And just to let oyu know... It's full moon tonight (good luck Wine)

StoneBaby · 08/03/2012 20:25

IC I thought you may be interested in this I join this bi-langual challenge to see if there's any tips to help with raising DS OPOL and if you go on the language forums, people share resources linked to their language. It may be useful with your DD and her Spanish. They're also on FB

PenguinArmy · 08/03/2012 20:38

yep, in one day. DH forgot to put DS in a disposable for night which meant his skin flared up which requires at most 2 hourly changes to get on top of. Plus both of them kept filling their nappies just after I'd changed them.

DD was really clingy today which is unlike her, also very tired but generally seems mostly on the mend.

Sounds like most of us on nearly back to full strength

InmaculadaConcepcion · 08/03/2012 20:42

Ooh, thanks for that SB!
And clearly your hugs and hopes did the trick, as after a monster sleep (she didn't wake until 15.45) DD rallied again as the afternoon wore on, ate a bit more supper than she has done the last few days, kept it down and seemed virtually back to normal by bedtime. Here's hoping!

Yes PA, even the washable nappy specialists based in our area say disposables are often better for overnight. Makes me feel less guilty about using them, anyway....!

StoneBaby · 08/03/2012 21:08

DS night reusable nappies used to be stuffed with 5 inserts (4 of them were bamboo) to try to keep the leaks away. Also the vest's extenders are good as they help the vest not to put too much pressure on the nappy.

IC fx that she's on the mend

PenguinArmy · 08/03/2012 21:19

he doesn't leak but his skin does react and not like DD did. Hers was due to nappy contents, his is like a contact rash. His neck is troublesome as well, but that's due to him being sick still. My mum made a comment that my eczema started what his looks like, but things seem to be sustainable so am keeping for future. Would be a shame if I had to stop using them but a night disposable makes a huge difference.

IC they do have their place, would have nice for this morning's nappy as next door gave her some milk containing sweets before I could interject.

SurvivalOfTheUnfittest · 08/03/2012 21:51

IC Congrats to MrIC!! That's good going. Fancy telling me which area of your locality, even if not the school itself? (And is it secondary?) As the thread's vomit expert Hmm, do stick to very bland food for DD for several more days and little and often is also recommended. We used to stay off dairy for about 7-10 days after a vomit fest -little did we know how close to correct for our boys we were!! You need to concentrate on getting fluids in, rather than worrying about the food and be assured, DD's weight will pile back on as she'll likely have a massive 'catch up' once she is feeling better. Guess the same goes for the grown ups!! Personally, I'm eating but still not hungry and not fancying food (a very bad sign for me!!)

BBB Glad to hear you are starting to feel better. The place you found yesterday sounds great. Think you deserve a few of the treatments Smile After hearing that a friend of DH has just split with his wife, having grown apart after 8 years of marriage, has made DH and I sit up and consider what we need to do to safeguard our relationship. As you know, we've had a hard time in the last 22 months and, with little family help, we need to take care I think. Often I find myself grinding through stuff, rather than enjoying it. I know we all feel like it at times, but I am really keen to try and work with DH to ensure that we get snippets of regular time together to remind ourselves why we got together in the first place (and to get an ipad BBB - not a bad idea Grin).

Accepts Flowers and wishes you all a happy day too. I've had a busy Thursday with the boys. I always start it (my only full day each week with both, when I do the 12 hour shift, as DH goes to football after work and gets home as the boys are settling in bed) with such enthusiasm and high hopes and am usually yelling by about 10a.m! Today, DS1 'read' sories to DS2 at the table after breakfast for the first time. I wish I'd videoed it - it was so cute. DS2 sat on the potty and told me, "Mummy, I did monster poo!" and indeed he had, and then we went to a friend's house for play and lunch which was a little fraught but lovely. Even had the stew in the slow cooker for tea by 9a.m, which was prety good going for me!

PA I can't imagine trying to use reusable nappies with my two when they were small. I take my hat off to you! Changing 17 disposable nappies would seem a lot, let alone knowing that they all needed washing and re-stuffing (with or without mushrooms Grin!!)

BG your day sounds pretty grim. Hope you feel better soon. I worked 4 days a week for a month last year and it was hard going. Three days is pretty manageable (and keeps me sane), but it's never easy. If I'm going to my office first thing, I get there and feel like I've done a day's work before I've started. If I'm going straight to a school, I check my clothes for snot trails and then down half a can of diet coke to get myself on track!! And the days when one or both wake in a strop or don't fancy a day of childcare are seriously hard. I hate the guilt of leaving a crying child - still brings a lump to my throat when it happens (now luckily rare -although we've just heard that DS2 will be starting nursery after Easter. Seriously hoping that having DS1 available to see him will help him settle faster than DS1 did).

Have been sleeping in separate rooms this week to try and avoid sharing the bugs with DH. He has the monitors and the boys have been sleeping well (although DS2 woke for 30 mins as I was going to sleep last night, so a bit of a late one, and an hour awake the night before that I dealt with). With that in mind SB, I'm stuffing my fingers in my ears about the full moon - keep it over in Guernsey if you don't mind!!

BabyGiraffes · 09/03/2012 09:31

Dd2 is too literal and grown up for her own good! I asked her if she could get me a cup of tea and instead of getting her plastic tea set she went downstairs and somehow managed to get a cup off the counter and brought that up to meGrin . Bless her, trying to look after me. I told her I am not well and she has already brought me her favourite cuddly toy and some books Smile. I still have some bug or other , feel very weak and achy and can't get warm, and will never understand how I made it though a committee meeting (1-9pm!!!) yesterday. So today is going to be a quiet day even if it means liberal use of iplayer. Just as well dd2 likes to potterSmile

BabyGiraffes · 09/03/2012 09:54

IC Fab news on your dh. From what I have see and heard he would be a real asset to any school, so I am not surprised they recognised his dedication!

Survival I agree with you that three days is a good compromise. I read somewhere a long time ago that it may be quite impossible to do three things well at the same time: work full time, bring up children, and have a good relationship with your partner. Something always has to give and cutting hours down to three days would be my preferred sacrifice.

InmaculadaConcepcion · 09/03/2012 13:19

Thanks for the congrats for DH, BG that's a lovely thing to say Smile
Survival I'll pm you the details of the school....

BG sorry you're still feeling off colour. You too Survival I hope you both get over your bugs pronto.

DD was fine by bedtime last night after her monster sleep and is much more energetic today and demanding food, which is all good. She got more tired more quickly than pre-illness at luncthtime, but that's not surprising given that she hasn't eaten properly for several days.
Thanks for the advice from a vomit pro, Survival!! TBH, for now, I'm just going with DD's own food preferences - I know when I'm ill, I tend to fancy eating certain things and they are usually the things I can best keep down. DD is noticeably eating fewer dairy products, so I think her body is telling her to go easy on those for the time being. Dried fruit and potato gnocchi seem to be her preferred foods at the moment.

PenguinArmy · 09/03/2012 16:03

I sent an email to that company and lot a reply. I completely understand why I wasn't what they needed (they are very low on 'man' power atm and need someone with experience at driving a project forward) I'm obviously still a bit sad as I have to face the prospect of actual job hunting. He was really nice said I could keep in touch and offered to keep an eye out for suitable jobs.

PenguinArmy · 09/03/2012 16:05

also to wake or not to wake the 2.5 hr nap? She didn't wake until 9:30 this morning sounding rather chesty. Feel I should leave her if she is ill.

BabyGiraffes · 09/03/2012 20:03

PA how is your dd? Sounds like she needed the sleepSad

InmaculadaConcepcion · 09/03/2012 20:24

Aw, bad luck PA, sorry they couldn't put some work your way.
I think I'm inclined to let 'em sleep if they're poorly. It's probably one of the best things they can do to aid their recovery. Your poor old DD, I hope she comes through it soon. It's been one thing after another, hasn't it?

PenguinArmy · 09/03/2012 21:17

I left her, she slept 3.5 hrs in the end and still went to bed at 7:30 really tired. Glad I followed my instinct and it was right.

I've just sent my CV off to a large company. My deadline was always to start looking properly in April so still got some time yet. I think I will do a load of looking around when the ILs are next here, get some use out of their visit.

Time for a shower

BabyGiraffes · 10/03/2012 09:28

PA hope she's a bit better this morning. Why do children always get worse towards the weekend? Sad

PenguinArmy · 10/03/2012 15:26

She loads better, woke up at 6am with loads of energy. She only needed resettling the once as well.

Now to get Nigel back to normal.

How are you doing now BG?

InmaculadaConcepcion · 10/03/2012 16:18

Good to hear your DD has rallied, PA.

Well, I've come down with the flipping bug now. Thus far it's taken the form of making me feel weak and wibbly with twisting, bubbling guts and eyebrow-raising sessions on the loo.
In my case, I'm glad it waited for the weekend as it means I can stay in bed while DH takes charge of DD.
A friend of mine had what sound like the same bug and hers lasted about three days. Given that DD's lasted a full week, I hope my adult system can get shot of it rather quicker. Bah.

BabyGiraffes · 10/03/2012 17:21

Oh that's rubbish IC Sad. Hope you can make the most of the weekend and get lots of rest.