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BigBadBear · 23/07/2011 15:46

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LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 31/08/2011 11:46

bethy HI! I hope that the study goes well and makes you feel more secure/find a solution.

BBB I was thinking exactly the same after we came back! so much dirty laundry!

my baby is at school! in uniform!

BG DD1's shoes were 89 Euros Shock she has problems with her feet and need some properly fitted, I never minded the price if it fitted, but getting a certain colour + the fit is ridiculous! The worse is that she will probably have the same pair every year now on! (well they are not exactly the right colour either but close enough Grin)

PA good luck with the move. Don't worry about your DD she will be fine, actually she will probably adapt better/quicker than you!
We moved when DD1 was 7 months, 15 months, 3 years, 4 years and she has been fine with all of them.

Bg 18 months check-up! oups! I have to check my check-up got completely swamped with holidays and DD1's school. For sure she is not going to win a prize for her language.

scones I completely get your sister it is hard to start again, but then they are lovely!
BC hope you are filling better. My 2nd was worse too (sicker, more tired... and I didn't have a toddler to look after). Take care and rest (sneak naps when you can where ever you are)

StoneBaby · 31/08/2011 19:00

mous I hope her first day went fine. Shock about the price of shoes!!

DS staid home again today, but the fever went by the start of the afternoon and tonight he was back to his usual self. He got some spots on his belly, legs, elbows and chin and I am hoping it's just his eczema and not chickenpox

I normally do a washing machine everyday! DS is back on reusables for the moment and the washes are going to increase to one/day and 2 at weekends.

We don't get an 18 months check over here, our next (and last I think) is at 2 years. I really need to take DS to the HV clinic to get him weigh and measure but he gets so upset that I can't be bothered Blush

SconesForTea · 31/08/2011 22:17

Whoops I meant to say hi bethy nice to see you back too. And hi to you too Mous haven't heard from you in a while. Shock Shock Shock at the cost of DD1's shoes!

BabyGiraffes · 01/09/2011 08:30

Hi mous how did she like it? What language does she speak at school? And how long is her school day? Sorry for being curious... I have resigned myself to dd1 starting school at barely 4 years old, but I am still not happy with the long days 8.45 to 3.15. (I started at 6 1/2 and always, up to A level equivalent, finished at 1.10! Mind you, our first lesson started 7.45...)

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 01/09/2011 11:28

Hi BG, She spoke mainly romanian with a friend from kindergarden who is in the same class Hmm
It is supposed to be all english (apart from romanian lessons), 8h15 till 15h.

"It's boring" "too easy" Hmm and "not enough time outside", "lunch was very nice" re-Hmm (lunchbox with homemade sandwishes Confused), "I don't want to go tomorrow", " I don't have to keep quiet in class, children have important things to say too" Hmm Shock

Not a good start, I hope she settles soon! I will let a few weeks and see if she is still bored, I thought the math was a bit easy for year 2, I send her with the revision book 1st day, instead of Book 1, it did make sense to me Blush [bad mum emoticon].
I will be second-guessing myself for a long time!

Oh! yeah the lazy german Wink, I had school from 8h30 till 16h sometime 18h and was ShockGrin at the german day while on exchange there (it didn't start at 7.45 either).

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 01/09/2011 11:33

4 is too early for school, but I do think that reception is infact a lot like kindergarden (but they should drop the reading so early though).
scones the shoes are not even special www.startriteshoes.com/checkout/cart/ but it might be cheaper to buy them in the UK next time.

SB I hope your DS is better.

BabyGiraffes · 01/09/2011 13:08

Hehehe, lazy Germans, I like that. Well, it worked for me and got me a good 'Abitur' and three degrees... I can't have missed out too much by spending only a small part and not my entire childhood in classrooms. Instead in the afternoons I went cycling, horse riding, played with friends etc. On the flip side, my mum never went back to work after having children... You can't easily hold down a job when a primary school child may only have two or three lessons a day on some days and is finished by 10.15! I do wonder though whether in the Uk the long day has less to do with educating children and more to do with providing free childcare for working parents...

StoneBaby · 01/09/2011 19:13

mous FX she'll get use to school. I also started school at 4 and the days were from 8.30am til 4.30pm (if I remember well) until A level. School over here starts at 5yo (or on the academic year children turn 5).

DS has been in bed for now 40mn and I just realised that the chatting noise I am hearing are now the neighbours (or in my head Grin ) but him! Shock Blush
He is ''cured' - he became better yesterday afternoon and woke up this morning without any temperature so he went to nursery, me to work and DH carried on sleeping (he works night shift at the moment). And we all had a good day. The nursery staff are so pleased with his eating or on how well he eats that they keep telling me that they wish all the others children will eat like him Grin

bethy forgot to say 'hi'. Go to an indoor playground... you'll probably find a sickish child to give germs to your DS2. more seriously, I hope the sleep study will give you some answers and solutions. FX

BigBadBear · 02/09/2011 09:21

stone so pleased your DS is better.

beth good luck with the sleep study.

mous loved the photos of your DD1 going to school. Slightly aghast at the price of shoes...

Also aghast at morning-only school, BG! My DD1 starts in a couple of weeks and is soooo excited. In fact, when she found out it was September yesterday, she asked if she could go straightaway.

scones how is your DD?

bear how are you feeling? I remember both my early pgs being quite hard as I felt quite sick and tired, yet you can't tell anyone why. Relieved those days are over for me.

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BabyGiraffes · 02/09/2011 14:56

When is your dd starting BBB? Do they do a staggered intake? My dd1 is starting on Tuesday and seems to take it in her stride...

dd2 is getting incredibly cheeky now and seems to know she can get away with a lot because she's so cute. Having said that, I gave her a rather severe haircut yesterday Shock so she'll have to wear a hat until her fringe grows back a little.... So much for trying to save money (but honestly, £10 for trimming a toddler's fringe!?)

bethylou · 02/09/2011 22:48

Okay, I think I've caught up...

Thanks for the good wishes. Interested to read the routines of all your little ones. Ours is completely different, depending on whether it is a work day or a home day. Geting two out of the house by 7:15 (DH and DS1) and then DS2 and I by *:15 will be interesting again next week. Today they slept until 8:15, but DS2 was up for three hours in the night, having randomly been sick. He's not been his usual self today (has not requested any food and has only had two pieces of dried toast) but you wouldn't have known he'd been poorly overnight.

PA and Scones you'll be amazed how much quicker you can do things after a couple of weeks with two. With DS1 I used to think making baby group by 11a.m was an achievement in the early days. With DS2, I had DS1 at the childminder for 9am and was then in Sainsburys ten minutes later with DS2 at week 2!

DS2 has a new skill which is stuffing large pieces of veg up his nose so that you can't see them. So far we've had a piece of broccoli and a pea. Luckily, he can blow his nose so when I've covered the oher nostril, he has actually been able to blow them back down. He clearly doesn't enjoy the experience so you'd think he would have learnt after the first time, but no... However, he does eat: cucumber, tomatoes, raw carrot, pepper, cooked broccoli, cauli, parsnip, sweet potato, peas, sweetcorn (especially as corn on the cob), carrot, stir fry veg, etc.. and any fruit offered. He doesn't like avocado, tuna or eggs (in any form bizarrely) and has decided that bread is best thrown on the floor, raher than eaten at the mo.

Has anyone started thinking about Christmas? Our local ELC is closing so they're selling everything at least 20% off. I have managed to buy some sporty things for DS1 at very reduced prices. I'd recommend Orchard Toys (you can google them) for good early jigsaws etc.. that are attractive and last. Their games are good for DS1 now too. DS2 is loving jigsaws at the mo which is fab as it means he will actually sit still for up to 5 mins on his own Smile. They only have 2 pieces but he does enjoy a round of applause when he's done them!!

Anyway, enough of us..

BG glad the check up went well. (I'm loving this stage with DS2 as I was just trying to get through the days with DS1 at this point as I had morning sickness/tiredness)

SB It's lovely when the other half has some Daddy/son time and really enjoys it isn't it?

Laundry while we are away - I tend to get a cotage with a machine and do it as I go along. We go unironed once we're wearing clothes for a second time. I still seem to pack too much though!

BBB Glad you've managed to make a decision that hopefully will suit you and your girls re work. Must have been a very tricky decision and I hope it works out well for you. I do keep wondering if I should be at home more enjoying this time like everyone keeps telling me. I've enjoyed this holiday more than I thought I would.

Mous Hope your DH is still alive Smile (despite the razor incident) and I also am aghast at the cost of school shoes. £38 for a pair of Startrite size 5.5 here. He nearly lost one the other day and I was panicking!!

Good luck to the LOs starting school. I have another year before that, but I have several friends in your position and I can only imagine how wierd it must be sending them out into the wide world. Foundation in England is mostly play-based these days unless you get a really old-fashioned school. I love going to play with my 'littlies'!

Anyway, at risk of this being the longest post ever (but you have had about a month off from my rambles..). Night all.

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 07:12

Have only managed to lurk in the last week but at least have caught up on everything now! Work and weekends have been very busy recently so have pretty much fallen asleep after dinner. DD's routine on weekdays usually
8am wake up and BF till 830
Then I get up to get ready for work, she'll have some of my cereal with me while DH tries to wake himself up :)
9am I go to work while DH gives DD breakfast (boiled egg / porridge oats / toast / fruit) - we figured out that she doesn't get upset about me leaving in the mornings if she has food in front of her
Then the usual snack and lunch, outing sometimes etc
3-6pm is DD's nap after which she also has some milk or a small snack
630-7pm I get home and we hang out / i shower while DH makes dinner
8pm we have a family dinner
9pm I bathe her (usually involves DH having to chase us up the stairs)
10pm I put DD to bed (and more often than not fall asleep with her!)
otherwise I wake up sometime between 10pm and 7am for some couple time if DH is still up or me time if not
She's also going off veg - must be a developmental cycle thing
Bath times DD used to dislike water being poured over her but now I count down from 20 to 1 and she's fine with that, as she knows that when it gets to 1 the water stops.

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 07:14

Being inspired by betty to also try and do a good update :). Sorry lost track, have to have 2 windows open.

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 07:35

Mind no longer what it was.

Had to giggle at your description of your DS stuffing vege up his nose beth Not too sure about Christmas, thinking of starting a tradition that Christmas gifts need to be personal and homemade. Then stuff can be bought in the sales after! And then also do the same for bdays, or maybe have a meal out on bdays.
Haven't been brave enough to go on holiday yet as DD still only has 2 teeth (argh) so the most we've done is go out for the day, but luckily we've managed to visit London a few times now and most recently check out the dinosaur exhibition at NatHis museum and there was a great Thai festival near here last weekend so we managed to do our favourite thing which is eat. DD's developed a clear liking for rambutans, so we should plan for a trip back home to Malaysia at the end of the year.
Aghast is the perfect word to describe the feeling on cost of shoes! Cnsidering that they're only used for a couple of months. After spending £24 on a pair for DD that was used probably about 20times, we found a pair on sale for £7 so that's us sorted for September at least. Then on October it's time for some winter shoes.... Ghastly...

StoneBaby · 03/09/2011 07:38

Hi rainbow

BG it's free listing on ebay this weekend

DH is working all day today and tomorrow so DS and I will go out a lot, he gets obsess by the kitchen if we stay home which turn into tantrum as I don't give him food or don't let him in the kitchen.

StoneBaby · 03/09/2011 07:43

Shoes - DS has got a pair of Kickers bought in the sale last year, which will be his rain shoes, a pair of trainers from Next and we got a pair of snow boots as hand down (will be useful for Christmas as we're going to my parents and there should be snow). Also my mum buys him slippers as they are less expensive in France.

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 07:52

Weekend routine sort of similar except that DD normally naps for an hour only during the day and sleeps around 8pm.

Have picked up a new hobby or obsession which is share trading, now that have opened a trading ISA after thinking about it for a year and reading up on things. It actually does make a lot of sense! Especially with savings rates down to nearly 0%. Though so far have only managed to lose £100.
Language-wise DD has a clear preference for English from me, though she will tolerate Mandarin from DH. She been known to shake her head at me when I speak Mandarin to her, and she tends to repeat English words rather than Mandarin ones. Not unique unfortunately, the other day in town I overhead a mum speaking to her kids in mandarin and the kids answering consistently in English!
A thought for those about to encounter life with 2DCs -just think how much easier you have it compared to those with 5!!
Brief pause here, need to go for anearly haircut, will continue later!

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 07:53

Hi SB! Glad to hear your DS is better!

BigBadBear · 03/09/2011 08:17

Interesting to hear about your language experiences with your dd, rainbow. My parents spoke english, punjabi and hindi to me when I was young, and I always answered in english. To this day, I understand a lot of punjabi and hindi but shamefully speak none at all.

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StoneBaby · 03/09/2011 11:56

DS says hi or bye to me but I answer back in French. However he says 'chaussure' (shoes) (it sounds more like saussure) when wriggling his feet to put his shoes on, so there is hope Grin

InmaculadaConcepcion · 03/09/2011 12:14

Hello everyone, I'm back!

DH and I were slightly daunted about our holiday, thinking that staying in various unfamiliar and not necessarily toddler-friendly homes would be less than relaxing, but actually it was fine.
DD had one night when she woke and needed a bit of sleep-training to go back (DH patting her and gently telling her to lie down in her cot and go back to sleep a few times - we were in the same room) but otherwise slept through, thankfully. She loved hanging out with her numerous cousins and they were great about playing with her, despite the closest in age being five. The weather was pretty good and we visited the beach a few times. DD was deeply unimpressed by the sea, but thought the giant sand pit was rather splendid. She ate quite well, although wasn't too grabbed by Cornish pasty (cheese and veg variety). She did, however, happily eat cooked carrots (as part of a kids veggie lasagna made by my DSis) and one or two other things she's usually dubious about.
She's also discovered the definite article, so everything is "THE....." - I heard her cutely saying "The bunny....the cot....the bunny....etc." over the monitor for a little while before going to sleep one night.

BG Re bilingualism: DD uses a lot of English and Spanish words interchangeably at the moment, especially for nouns. Some things she shows preference for one or the other "please" and "gracias" for example.
I had to Grin at your DD2's near miss with the self-tan...! And her gender role stereotyping!

Yep, Bc, we found an 20.00 bedtime was the best way to combat early waking. Some LOs don't need 12 hours sleep - DD will usually have between 10 and 11 hours overnight, usually closer to ten. I'm a bit envious of SB with her 12-hour sleeper - and BG, BBB!
Sorry to hear you're feeling crook, but it's probably a good omen for the pregnancy Smile

Hi rainbow - nice to hear from you!

I hope the sleep study yields some answers, bethy

Good luck with school, Mous! I couldn't believe the price of those shoes either, blimey...!!

Hey, BBB, how are things with DH?

Scones I'm glad to hear the teething is easing off. The canines were worst for DD, too.

We've now got ourselves sorted wrt immunisation schedules and it seems DD only needs one to get herself in synch with the British system - she's having it next week (I think it's a 'flu jab...? It has "infl." in its name)

No 18 month checks here either, but DD had one because she hadn't had any previously in this country.

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 16:39

I knew it would happen, just wrote a long post responding to everyone and it's gone. Grr....

Welcome back IC.

rainbowweaver · 03/09/2011 16:42

Off for a nap now with DD, and am determined to redo that post after I'm rested!

BabyGiraffes · 03/09/2011 16:59

dd2 has predictable problems with Hickery dickory dock and leaves out the l in clock Grin. I think I am quite immature but it makes me snigger every time...

Waving at everyone...

StoneBaby · 03/09/2011 20:15

Welcome back IC

rainbow can I ask you where you're from Blush? You say you speak Mandarin but you're planning a trip to Malaysia. (sorry i'm too curious)

BG Grin

DS is starting to be able to have later bedtime. Today was 7.30pm! as he enjoyed playing around.