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Identical twins. Vanishing twin - lost one at 7/8 weeks. Can anyone give me hope please?

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lovetodance · 13/01/2011 13:25

Hi all,
This is my first post prompted by a lot of worry. I've also posted this in the pregnancy topic, but thought I may also get some good advice here. I am 9+3 weeks pregnant. Due to having some spotting early on I have been for several scans (NHS and private). I have been told that one twin has a heartbeat and is spot on for growth, but that the other one has no heartbeat and is much smaller. The private consultant I saw last week said that it would probably be absorbed back into my body and should not result in a miscarriage in the majority of cases.
However, the previous scan on the NHS was more negative and I was told if my body recognised that one twin had died then both would be miscarried as they share the same placenta.
I have also worried myself silly because of all the research I have read that a vanishing twin (particularly a monchorionic twin) increases the likelihood of cerebral palsy and other neurological problems.
At the moment I'm waiting for a referral to a twin specialist on NHS.
Has anyone else been in this situation and had a healthy child? Any information or stories welcome, positive and negative as I just want the truth. Thank you.

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Goingspare · 13/01/2011 23:59

I've no idea, so am bumping this for you.

I hope it all works out for you.

lindsell · 14/01/2011 00:07

Hi, sorry you're going through this. A relative suffered something similar I don't know all the details but I do know she did not miscarry the twin that didn't develop properly and the remaining baby was healthy and is now a teenager and hasn't had any health problems Smile

Hope all goes well for you

GingerGlitterGoddess · 14/01/2011 00:23

Bumping for you

bellabelly · 14/01/2011 00:30

You might get some answers if you post on the multiples board click here

So sorry and hope you get some reassurance.

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