Fellatio I know people don't generally mean those like Riv and I
But you see some do
And how do we know who is who on ehre?
I was approached last wek by some old man and yelled at for having 4 kids on benefits to get a council house: I don't have a council house, never applied for one nd we were earning well when all 4 born. heck, the older 2 are older than tax credits anyway!
Soemone on ehre has said I belong in a workhouse; otehrs say that it's because we didn't plan well enough as youngsters- h no? Then how come we were fine before the redundancy, even with me as a carer? TC's yes but nothing else.
So maybe people like me and riv get edgy but whilst you don't mean us, plenty do. Plenty think that looking after kids like mine is a charity that cannot be afforde.
On anotherr thread- claimants only to be givrn a roof and food; no explanation on how we get ds1 to his SNU if he gets in, or collect ds3 from his if he is sick, without a car; or how dh gets to college where he is retraining.
Or how we would maintain ds2's cubs (quite important as we can't have friends in the house and he doesn't get to play out becuase ds1 gets upset and can't be allowed due to the asd etc etc)
The little things that maintain the boy's development to a level where maybe they will hold down a job (ds3 won't but ds1 may well, and ds2 dyspraxic so should but it will be tougher)