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Lifetime Social Housing Tenancies

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 07:46

Am I wrong or being unreasonable to think that this new policy that Labour are bringing in is very unfair?

I come from a poor-ish background (as in no one in my wider family has any money). However, my mum and Dad did fairly okay and managed to move up the property ladder (through sheer hard work and sacrifice). My dad died a few years ago and so now it’s just my mom. We never received any benefits - and now my DH and I live in a house and pay a high interest rate (thanks Truss) and I don’t know if we will ever pay off our house (if I am to have children and go part time), so we will need to downsize. We don’t qualify for any benefits either but we are in the squashed middle, so we really feel it when anything rises in cost and don’t get any help.

I feel really cross that someone can benefit from social housing for a lifetime, no matter how much they go on to earn, and then if they pass away, they can pass it down as an asset.

I have a friend who’s parents came to this country, got given social housing, their children paid it off (40% discount) and now they all get to keep a £650k house in London. It doesn’t seem fair to me at all. I feel really disillusioned living in the UK.

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IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 14:53

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:43

It will still be a lot lower than private rental or most with mortgages, so you did benefit from having low-cost rent. Yes, it may have been “full rent” for the HA, but I’m gonna bet it was not market rate.

It’s not the same level of stress as someone in a private rental or mortgaged property. These people have no cushion or safety net like those in SH/HA. The truth hurts I’m afraid, and many people are attacking me on this thread out of defence and “hurt feelings.” It’s just not the same game.

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I’m just interested why you feel you have a “level of stress” with owning? I ask kindly since you may be overstretched with your borrowing. If you had a decent deposit and can afford to overpay, you should be able to relax a little better about your situation. Btw the only people I know in social housing work full-time and I do know someone who used the government safety net to help with their mortgage so you should be able to access that too.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:57

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 14:53

I’m just interested why you feel you have a “level of stress” with owning? I ask kindly since you may be overstretched with your borrowing. If you had a decent deposit and can afford to overpay, you should be able to relax a little better about your situation. Btw the only people I know in social housing work full-time and I do know someone who used the government safety net to help with their mortgage so you should be able to access that too.

Just the cost of living, and everything else - I.e council tax, energy bills, fuel, food, professional registrations, commuting costs. We haven’t over-stretched. I’m tired of being blamed for buying a house and being accused of over-stretching.

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Itsnothealthy · 27/06/2025 14:57

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:31

None of your business 👋

But you just asked another poster how much her rent is ?

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 14:58

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:47

To be perfectly honest, I’m not entirely sure what relevance this has. It’s a garden. It’s communal. And it’s also optional. It’s a choice they made to spend doing it up. I’m sure they were able to save a lot quicker than those of us who have to pay private rental costs or mortgages. This is my point, it’s not the same game.

I actually feel quite detached from other people in the UK (and on this thread) I just cannot relate in any way - it’s a totally different world and economy.

Funny enough the relevance is that you asked why they couldn’t save and pay “like the rest of us” and I just informed you that they did pay the £10000 to move.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:00

Itsnothealthy · 27/06/2025 14:57

But you just asked another poster how much her rent is ?

Due to the context of our interaction. They said they lived in HA but paid full rent. Full rent in the context of what they’re saying is still going to be below market rate. It’s like people who receive benefits calling it “pay day” or “I’m being paid today.” No, it’s a benefit, and it’s not pay day.

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RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:00

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 14:58

Funny enough the relevance is that you asked why they couldn’t save and pay “like the rest of us” and I just informed you that they did pay the £10000 to move.

That’s great.

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LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:01

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:00

Due to the context of our interaction. They said they lived in HA but paid full rent. Full rent in the context of what they’re saying is still going to be below market rate. It’s like people who receive benefits calling it “pay day” or “I’m being paid today.” No, it’s a benefit, and it’s not pay day.

Seriously, what on earth are you on about? Confused

Are you suggesting that everyone who is in social housing gets their rent paid?

What a breathtakingly ignorant and innaccurate comment.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:01

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:00

That’s great.

If myself and my partner need to move, we have to pay loads in solicitors fees, stamp duty etc. so yes, we would also need to spend somewhat the same. That’s how much it costs to move. That is reality.

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RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:02

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:01

Seriously, what on earth are you on about? Confused

Are you suggesting that everyone who is in social housing gets their rent paid?

What a breathtakingly ignorant and innaccurate comment.

Err, obviously not.

The poster said they paid full rent in HA. Thats not going to be market rate private rental costs.

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LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:03

Itsnothealthy · 27/06/2025 14:57

But you just asked another poster how much her rent is ?

One rule for one, and one rule for another on this thread! OP can ask whatever she wants, but then gets salty when people ask her things.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:04

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:02

Err, obviously not.

The poster said they paid full rent in HA. Thats not going to be market rate private rental costs.

Yeah, of course HA rent is not as much as the private rent cost would be.

So what?

You are sounding like you won't be happy until everyone is struggling financially (like you appear to be - reading between the lines........)

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cloudyblueglass · 27/06/2025 15:05

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:02

Err, obviously not.

The poster said they paid full rent in HA. Thats not going to be market rate private rental costs.

Councils and housing associations aren’t profit making businesses - unlike many private landlords.

Council and HA tenants aren’t getting their roof
for ‘free’ any more than anyone else is.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:05

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:03

One rule for one, and one rule for another on this thread! OP can ask whatever she wants, but then gets salty when people ask her things.

Not really. It’s just not relevant to the thread 😊 What I pay monthly for my mortgage isn’t really necessary to the discussion about lifetime social housing tenancy. Sorry you can’t see that.
If you use the HMRC app, you can see a breakdown of the costs of where your tax goes.

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IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 15:06

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:57

Just the cost of living, and everything else - I.e council tax, energy bills, fuel, food, professional registrations, commuting costs. We haven’t over-stretched. I’m tired of being blamed for buying a house and being accused of over-stretching.

All I know of you is what you’ve described here so I’m not blaming you for anything!
Cost of living
Council tax
Energy bills
Fuel
Food
Professional registrations
Commuting costs…
All have to be paid whether home-owner or tenant. Two colleagues are 73 still working full-time NMW in a shop. One rents one owns. It’s shocking out there and not much better for me. Keep positive for the next generation, they’ll have it worse! Good luck.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:07

cloudyblueglass · 27/06/2025 15:05

Councils and housing associations aren’t profit making businesses - unlike many private landlords.

Council and HA tenants aren’t getting their roof
for ‘free’ any more than anyone else is.

I know this.

But it’s still not the same as someone not in SH as they likely won’t need to pay hefty deposits or extra charges and if they fall behind in rent, can get support.

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MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:08

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:01

Seriously, what on earth are you on about? Confused

Are you suggesting that everyone who is in social housing gets their rent paid?

What a breathtakingly ignorant and innaccurate comment.

It so is. I’m not allowed to comment further because apparently I’m a troll but the OP has an unhealthy obsession with other people’s circumstances and money. People in SH pay tax on their earnings the same as everyone else. Not all tenants are in receipt of benefit. The argument doesn’t seem to go beyond some sort of outdated, weird lack of knowledge around social housing. This kind of ignorance is usually based around some sort of jealousy and resentment of getting something for nothing that the misinformed think they’re missing out on.

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:08

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:16

But a housing association is affordable property. So how much was your full rent?

It was 52 quid less than the private rent at next door. I paid full rent.

That has got fuck all do with how hard we were working at our jobs? What point are you trying to prove here?

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:08

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:05

Not really. It’s just not relevant to the thread 😊 What I pay monthly for my mortgage isn’t really necessary to the discussion about lifetime social housing tenancy. Sorry you can’t see that.
If you use the HMRC app, you can see a breakdown of the costs of where your tax goes.

It is relevant though. You are hugely judging people in social housing for not paying exhorbitant rents for their homes, (and seemingly getting quite annoyed by it!) and demanding to know what people rents are, but you're saying 'mind your own business!' when people ask what your mortgage payment is.

Again reading between the lines, it's clear your mortgage payment is an amount that you are struggling with, and that is why you are projecting on this thread...

Itsnothealthy · 27/06/2025 15:08

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:02

Err, obviously not.

The poster said they paid full rent in HA. Thats not going to be market rate private rental costs.

But mortages are often cheaper than renting.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:09

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:04

Yeah, of course HA rent is not as much as the private rent cost would be.

So what?

You are sounding like you won't be happy until everyone is struggling financially (like you appear to be - reading between the lines........)

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And there we have it. So it’s not “full rent” in the same context.

I think I’m entitled to feeling bitter when literally so many people around me are getting hand outs, and I have to work to get anything myself!

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RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:09

Itsnothealthy · 27/06/2025 15:08

But mortages are often cheaper than renting.

Not always!

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MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:09

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:08

It is relevant though. You are hugely judging people in social housing for not paying exhorbitant rents for their homes, (and seemingly getting quite annoyed by it!) and demanding to know what people rents are, but you're saying 'mind your own business!' when people ask what your mortgage payment is.

Again reading between the lines, it's clear your mortgage payment is an amount that you are struggling with, and that is why you are projecting on this thread...

100 per cent

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:10

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:39

And I bet you’re just loving stirring on a thread as you’ve nothing better to do. Do you even have a job or a life, or do you just like to wind people up to pass the time? Again, nothing of substance to add to the discussion, simply a time-waster. You will be ignored.

Mate, you are not one to judge anyone for 'having nothing better to do' 😂

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:11

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:08

It is relevant though. You are hugely judging people in social housing for not paying exhorbitant rents for their homes, (and seemingly getting quite annoyed by it!) and demanding to know what people rents are, but you're saying 'mind your own business!' when people ask what your mortgage payment is.

Again reading between the lines, it's clear your mortgage payment is an amount that you are struggling with, and that is why you are projecting on this thread...

Not really. I think the course of this thread is being derailed now and some of you are just coming at me out of defence. It’s detracting from the discussion of the subject.

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MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:12

You melted yesterday because other posters didn’t agree with your outdated jealous views but you can’t seem to leave it alone