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Lifetime Social Housing Tenancies

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 07:46

Am I wrong or being unreasonable to think that this new policy that Labour are bringing in is very unfair?

I come from a poor-ish background (as in no one in my wider family has any money). However, my mum and Dad did fairly okay and managed to move up the property ladder (through sheer hard work and sacrifice). My dad died a few years ago and so now it’s just my mom. We never received any benefits - and now my DH and I live in a house and pay a high interest rate (thanks Truss) and I don’t know if we will ever pay off our house (if I am to have children and go part time), so we will need to downsize. We don’t qualify for any benefits either but we are in the squashed middle, so we really feel it when anything rises in cost and don’t get any help.

I feel really cross that someone can benefit from social housing for a lifetime, no matter how much they go on to earn, and then if they pass away, they can pass it down as an asset.

I have a friend who’s parents came to this country, got given social housing, their children paid it off (40% discount) and now they all get to keep a £650k house in London. It doesn’t seem fair to me at all. I feel really disillusioned living in the UK.

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K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:12

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:07

I know this.

But it’s still not the same as someone not in SH as they likely won’t need to pay hefty deposits or extra charges and if they fall behind in rent, can get support.

I had to fully redecorate, new flooring and carpets all the way through, new fencing, pay for someone to come and clear the garden, new fence panels. Do you know what I had to do to the house I purchased? Move my stuff in.

You obviously know Jack Shit

mylovedoesitgood · 27/06/2025 15:12

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:07

I know this.

But it’s still not the same as someone not in SH as they likely won’t need to pay hefty deposits or extra charges and if they fall behind in rent, can get support.

Also, if you’re a mortgage payer, the property repairs are all your responsibility. So add that to the level of stress mortgage payers face.

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:13

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:11

Not really. I think the course of this thread is being derailed now and some of you are just coming at me out of defence. It’s detracting from the discussion of the subject.

I honestly wish they'd left the laugh react

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 15:14

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:07

I know this.

But it’s still not the same as someone not in SH as they likely won’t need to pay hefty deposits or extra charges and if they fall behind in rent, can get support.

Hefty deposit of your own money so you can borrow less on a mortgage? Very sensible! 😂
Please enlighten us about the support for those falling behind in rent - do you mean a guarantor which only a small percentage of people would have?

mylovedoesitgood · 27/06/2025 15:16

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:11

Not really. I think the course of this thread is being derailed now and some of you are just coming at me out of defence. It’s detracting from the discussion of the subject.

Yes, it’s because they know their arguments are weak, so that’s what they have to do - deliberately derail the thread, it’s a classic (and boring) online forum tactic.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:20

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:09

And there we have it. So it’s not “full rent” in the same context.

I think I’m entitled to feeling bitter when literally so many people around me are getting hand outs, and I have to work to get anything myself!

Crack on with being bitter and angry, but it's not going to change anything. NO-ONE is going to give up their affordable, lifetime tenancies in social housing because you are struggling with your mortgage payments and you are angry that you are not in social housing. Even if people ARE earning more than they did when they got the social housing property, they would have to have rocks in their head to give it up.

As I said earlier, why do you and a few others on here deeply resent people so much - who are comfortable and happy with a social housing lifetime tenancy? How depressing to resent people so much for being happy and secure.

Blowing out someone else's candle, won't make your burn brighter you know.

And yes, many people ARE paying full rent in social housing. The exhoribitant and ludicrous amounts that many private landlords charge is skewing your judgement and your views. People in social housing pay a good amount for their property, not peanuts. Several people I know pay £650 to £700 a month for a 3 bed semi. Do you really think that is a shitty amount? A low rent? Do me a favour. That's LOADS for some people. As I said, it's the very high amounts for private rent that make social housing rents APPEAR low. They are not. So stop saying they are.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:22

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:20

Crack on with being bitter and angry, but it's not going to change anything. NO-ONE is going to give up their affordable, lifetime tenancies in social housing because you are struggling with your mortgage payments and you are angry that you are not in social housing. Even if people ARE earning more than they did when they got the social housing property, they would have to have rocks in their head to give it up.

As I said earlier, why do you and a few others on here deeply resent people so much - who are comfortable and happy with a social housing lifetime tenancy? How depressing to resent people so much for being happy and secure.

Blowing out someone else's candle, won't make your burn brighter you know.

And yes, many people ARE paying full rent in social housing. The exhoribitant and ludicrous amounts that many private landlords charge is skewing your judgement and your views. People in social housing pay a good amount for their property, not peanuts. Several people I know pay £650 to £700 a month for a 3 bed semi. Do you really think that is a shitty amount? A low rent? Do me a favour. That's LOADS for some people. As I said, it's the very high amounts for private rent that make social housing rents APPEAR low. They are not. So stop saying they are.

Perhaps you ought to put yourself in other people’s shoes for once — maybe then you might understand people’s very understanding bitterness and resentment towards people who quite literally get given things for free at the expense of other people. But I doubt you ever will.

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RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:25

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:20

Crack on with being bitter and angry, but it's not going to change anything. NO-ONE is going to give up their affordable, lifetime tenancies in social housing because you are struggling with your mortgage payments and you are angry that you are not in social housing. Even if people ARE earning more than they did when they got the social housing property, they would have to have rocks in their head to give it up.

As I said earlier, why do you and a few others on here deeply resent people so much - who are comfortable and happy with a social housing lifetime tenancy? How depressing to resent people so much for being happy and secure.

Blowing out someone else's candle, won't make your burn brighter you know.

And yes, many people ARE paying full rent in social housing. The exhoribitant and ludicrous amounts that many private landlords charge is skewing your judgement and your views. People in social housing pay a good amount for their property, not peanuts. Several people I know pay £650 to £700 a month for a 3 bed semi. Do you really think that is a shitty amount? A low rent? Do me a favour. That's LOADS for some people. As I said, it's the very high amounts for private rent that make social housing rents APPEAR low. They are not. So stop saying they are.

I don’t understand what you mean by shitty amount?

I just asked my DH, and he said, yeah £650 for a 3 bed semi is cheap. You are looking at £1300 min for a 3 bed semi down where I live in the private rental market.

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cloudyblueglass · 27/06/2025 15:26

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:07

I know this.

But it’s still not the same as someone not in SH as they likely won’t need to pay hefty deposits or extra charges and if they fall behind in rent, can get support.

You realise that mortgage payments are often on a par with what someone in an equivalent property with council or HA yes?

You truly do sound really bitter.

if you couldn’t afford your mortgage you shouldn’t have overstretched yourself.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:26

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:25

I don’t understand what you mean by shitty amount?

I just asked my DH, and he said, yeah £650 for a 3 bed semi is cheap. You are looking at £1300 min for a 3 bed semi down where I live in the private rental market.

Also this amount is not far off my mortgage - my mortgage is higher btw.

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RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:26

cloudyblueglass · 27/06/2025 15:26

You realise that mortgage payments are often on a par with what someone in an equivalent property with council or HA yes?

You truly do sound really bitter.

if you couldn’t afford your mortgage you shouldn’t have overstretched yourself.

No, they absolutely are not 😂 and it depends very much on how much you put down as a deposit and the length of term.

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MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:26

Social. Housing. Is. Not. Free.

MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:27

Private rent is £2,000 pm for a flat where I live.

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:28

mylovedoesitgood · 27/06/2025 15:16

Yes, it’s because they know their arguments are weak, so that’s what they have to do - deliberately derail the thread, it’s a classic (and boring) online forum tactic.

Ah so OP is only looking for people who agree to comment? Gotcha

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:28

MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:26

Social. Housing. Is. Not. Free.

I. Know. This. But. It. Is. Heavily. Subsidised. Thank you. To. Tax. Payers.

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IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/06/2025 15:28

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:22

Perhaps you ought to put yourself in other people’s shoes for once — maybe then you might understand people’s very understanding bitterness and resentment towards people who quite literally get given things for free at the expense of other people. But I doubt you ever will.

I think people are trying to explain it to you! Why are you so bitter about paying what you yourself called “a hefty deposit” then monthly payments (albeit with interest) towards owning your home?

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:29

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:22

Perhaps you ought to put yourself in other people’s shoes for once — maybe then you might understand people’s very understanding bitterness and resentment towards people who quite literally get given things for free at the expense of other people. But I doubt you ever will.

For free! Will the ignorance ever end

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:30

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:28

I. Know. This. But. It. Is. Heavily. Subsidised. Thank you. To. Tax. Payers.

Tax payers like... hmmm... I was whilst living in a pissing council house??

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:31

K0OLA1D · 27/06/2025 15:30

Tax payers like... hmmm... I was whilst living in a pissing council house??

Didn’t say you weren’t a tax payer. But council housing and housing association is still much cheaper. End of story. There’s nothing else to say really!

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Frequency · 27/06/2025 15:31

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 14:57

Just the cost of living, and everything else - I.e council tax, energy bills, fuel, food, professional registrations, commuting costs. We haven’t over-stretched. I’m tired of being blamed for buying a house and being accused of over-stretching.

I pay for all of those things except professional registrations/certifications because my employer pays for those for me. If I wanted extra certifications outside the scope of my role, I would need to pay for them, or are they now an extra service provided by social landlords?

If I phone my LL and tell them I'm a bit skint but really want a bacon sarnie, and also could they please pay for me to do a PRINCE2 certification, are they going to say yes?

And does anyone know how I get them to pay for my commuting costs because they're costing me a fortune atm?

mylovedoesitgood · 27/06/2025 15:32

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/06/2025 15:20

Crack on with being bitter and angry, but it's not going to change anything. NO-ONE is going to give up their affordable, lifetime tenancies in social housing because you are struggling with your mortgage payments and you are angry that you are not in social housing. Even if people ARE earning more than they did when they got the social housing property, they would have to have rocks in their head to give it up.

As I said earlier, why do you and a few others on here deeply resent people so much - who are comfortable and happy with a social housing lifetime tenancy? How depressing to resent people so much for being happy and secure.

Blowing out someone else's candle, won't make your burn brighter you know.

And yes, many people ARE paying full rent in social housing. The exhoribitant and ludicrous amounts that many private landlords charge is skewing your judgement and your views. People in social housing pay a good amount for their property, not peanuts. Several people I know pay £650 to £700 a month for a 3 bed semi. Do you really think that is a shitty amount? A low rent? Do me a favour. That's LOADS for some people. As I said, it's the very high amounts for private rent that make social housing rents APPEAR low. They are not. So stop saying they are.

I would have thought it was an obvious point, but I’ll make it anyway - the locations of properties is one reason why the properties are priced the way they are. Here in the north west, the private rent of a three bed semi detached house is about £1.3K per month and the council rent is roughly £900.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:32

Frequency · 27/06/2025 15:31

I pay for all of those things except professional registrations/certifications because my employer pays for those for me. If I wanted extra certifications outside the scope of my role, I would need to pay for them, or are they now an extra service provided by social landlords?

If I phone my LL and tell them I'm a bit skint but really want a bacon sarnie, and also could they please pay for me to do a PRINCE2 certification, are they going to say yes?

And does anyone know how I get them to pay for my commuting costs because they're costing me a fortune atm?

What exactly are you on about?! I literally just shared some of my costs.

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MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:33

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:28

I. Know. This. But. It. Is. Heavily. Subsidised. Thank you. To. Tax. Payers.

People who live in social housing are tax payers. Your argument is circular. If your life and circumstances aren’t happy then change them. Sniping at others and their good fortune to not have to pay sky high rent isn’t the way to go about it

MyKingdomForACat · 27/06/2025 15:33

Ps. Can you tell me where the subsidies are?

Frequency · 27/06/2025 15:34

RowsOfFlowers · 27/06/2025 15:32

What exactly are you on about?! I literally just shared some of my costs.

I'm not understanding why you having all the same expenses as a lot of social tenants is the tenants' fault? Or how kicking people out of their homes will make your situation any easier?