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Lifetime Social Housing Tenancies

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 07:46

Am I wrong or being unreasonable to think that this new policy that Labour are bringing in is very unfair?

I come from a poor-ish background (as in no one in my wider family has any money). However, my mum and Dad did fairly okay and managed to move up the property ladder (through sheer hard work and sacrifice). My dad died a few years ago and so now it’s just my mom. We never received any benefits - and now my DH and I live in a house and pay a high interest rate (thanks Truss) and I don’t know if we will ever pay off our house (if I am to have children and go part time), so we will need to downsize. We don’t qualify for any benefits either but we are in the squashed middle, so we really feel it when anything rises in cost and don’t get any help.

I feel really cross that someone can benefit from social housing for a lifetime, no matter how much they go on to earn, and then if they pass away, they can pass it down as an asset.

I have a friend who’s parents came to this country, got given social housing, their children paid it off (40% discount) and now they all get to keep a £650k house in London. It doesn’t seem fair to me at all. I feel really disillusioned living in the UK.

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OnlyDespairRemains · 26/06/2025 20:44

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:41

And judge them? Resent them? Go and stand outside their home with a pitchfork? For what good? Live your own bloody life.

I am living my own life, not letting other people tell me what I should or should not think.

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:44

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 20:40

You can say what you want, but as the creator of this thread - I can assure you that it wasn’t.

It doesn’t matter what I say though @K0OLA1D does it, because you’re never going to listen to me or agree, are you?

And neither are you going to listen or agree to anyone else, so why bother starting a thread that you know gets heated?

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:45

OnlyDespairRemains · 26/06/2025 20:44

I am living my own life, not letting other people tell me what I should or should not think.

What a poor way to spend it, worrying about people in social housing and whether or not they're 'worthy' of living there.

Frostiesflakes · 26/06/2025 20:48

OnlyDespairRemains · 26/06/2025 20:40

No, but if I happen to find them out, I have the right to an opinion about them.

And do what with that opinion
😂😂
anyone who has a social housing / council house with a secure tenancy would be bat shit crazy to give it up

for what to appease some peoples jealousy

my nephew just been added to his grans tenancy
lovely 2/3 bed victorian Terrace in a very popular wealthy student city
Probably worth around 400k easily
the rent is 490 a month 😂

on the open market you would easily be paying 1600 for a two bed maybe 1800 for a three bed

Hate the game not the players

Itsnothealthy · 26/06/2025 20:50

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 20:29

100%.

There are some very angry and vitriolic posters on this thread. You aren’t adding any balanced or well-meaning contributions, you are simply stirring up hate and insults towards anyone that dares disagrees with you.

We are all entitled to our own opinions without the need to be personally attacked or insulted.

I would hazard a guess that you are not critical of a system because it has or is working for you.

The argument “we are all entitled to secure housing” is kind of falling on deaf ears as well because that doesn’t solve the issue for those in insecure private rentals, or those paying a mortgage. I wouldn’t say having a mortgage is safe or secure as it depends on my health and my ability to work / have employment. The same goes for my partner. Yes, we will have an asset at the end, but we’ve a hell of a lot of stress, and interest to pay off. All whilst paying taxes.

Social housing or HA IS subsidised. I am allowed to say that and highlight that without it meaning that I am somehow jealous or throwing hate towards SH or HA tenants. It is simply a fact.

To the PP who said because I am a homeowner in the SE makes me privileged. Not really, I don’t outright own my home. All my savings went into a deposit for this place. If I lived in the private rental sector, I’d be even worse off, and wouldn’t be able to save. Buying a house was my only option really and all my family and support network live in SE. Plus my partner’s job is extremely niche to London.

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You just said you would have been worse of if you was in the private sector. But you want people in social housing to give you their tenancy and rent private?

OnlyDespairRemains · 26/06/2025 20:51

Frostiesflakes · 26/06/2025 20:48

And do what with that opinion
😂😂
anyone who has a social housing / council house with a secure tenancy would be bat shit crazy to give it up

for what to appease some peoples jealousy

my nephew just been added to his grans tenancy
lovely 2/3 bed victorian Terrace in a very popular wealthy student city
Probably worth around 400k easily
the rent is 490 a month 😂

on the open market you would easily be paying 1600 for a two bed maybe 1800 for a three bed

Hate the game not the players

Do what with it? Whatever I choose really, which will almost certainly be nothing other than holding it.

OnlyDespairRemains · 26/06/2025 20:51

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:45

What a poor way to spend it, worrying about people in social housing and whether or not they're 'worthy' of living there.

I do do other things as well.

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 20:53

At the heart of this thread is why do some people get the benefit of lifetime security - yet someone who is privately renting, or paying a mortgage doesn’t get the same level of security?

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Duckyfondant · 26/06/2025 20:53

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:42

That was your choice

What was? If I didn't see them every day, I'd still know they were there.

Although I must admit I did leave some low price social housing because I thought others might need it more. Sadly it doesn't pay to try and do the right thing.

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:57

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 20:53

At the heart of this thread is why do some people get the benefit of lifetime security - yet someone who is privately renting, or paying a mortgage doesn’t get the same level of security?

Why do you not understand that owning a house when you're 65 (normally the round about age) is a better option than continuing to rent until you DIE?

I gave my lifetime tenancy up for a mortgage. I would have been a fucking idiot to give it up because I was earning more money and rent privately instead

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:58

OnlyDespairRemains · 26/06/2025 20:51

I do do other things as well.

Good to hear.

Frostiesflakes · 26/06/2025 20:58

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 20:53

At the heart of this thread is why do some people get the benefit of lifetime security - yet someone who is privately renting, or paying a mortgage doesn’t get the same level of security?

Luck mainly

for a lot of people being born at the right time when social housing was plentiful and the RTB

I had social housing I bought mine years ago

I have no mortgage any more

my parents had a council house
bought it for peanuts under the RTB

When they passed away my son inherited half of it and used it to put down as a deposit on his house so he had a tiny mortgage and he will inherit again from his other grandparents shortly and also from me I expect eventually
Just Luck

no hard work or brains required

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:00

Frostiesflakes · 26/06/2025 20:48

And do what with that opinion
😂😂
anyone who has a social housing / council house with a secure tenancy would be bat shit crazy to give it up

for what to appease some peoples jealousy

my nephew just been added to his grans tenancy
lovely 2/3 bed victorian Terrace in a very popular wealthy student city
Probably worth around 400k easily
the rent is 490 a month 😂

on the open market you would easily be paying 1600 for a two bed maybe 1800 for a three bed

Hate the game not the players

My issue is not with people taking advantage of the system. If I were in that position, hell, I might too!

My argument is also that there are people out there who are in a really unfortunate and desperate position where they really really need somewhere to live, now won’t get it. And now your nephew is in a 2/3 social housing house that could’ve gone to a family fleeing domestic abuse…

Everyone who is disagreeing with me feels attacked because they are taking advantage of the system and are now getting defensive. You are unable to take criticism or comment that might cast you in a bad light.

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K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 21:02

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:00

My issue is not with people taking advantage of the system. If I were in that position, hell, I might too!

My argument is also that there are people out there who are in a really unfortunate and desperate position where they really really need somewhere to live, now won’t get it. And now your nephew is in a 2/3 social housing house that could’ve gone to a family fleeing domestic abuse…

Everyone who is disagreeing with me feels attacked because they are taking advantage of the system and are now getting defensive. You are unable to take criticism or comment that might cast you in a bad light.

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Have you read anything I've written. How am I feeling attacked because I GAVE UP my secure tenancy?

I am disagreeing with you because I think you are wrong and you are angry at the wrong people

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:04

Frostiesflakes · 26/06/2025 20:58

Luck mainly

for a lot of people being born at the right time when social housing was plentiful and the RTB

I had social housing I bought mine years ago

I have no mortgage any more

my parents had a council house
bought it for peanuts under the RTB

When they passed away my son inherited half of it and used it to put down as a deposit on his house so he had a tiny mortgage and he will inherit again from his other grandparents shortly and also from me I expect eventually
Just Luck

no hard work or brains required

And there we have it.

Thank you @Frostiesflakes for the brutal honesty.

No brains or hardwork required. And this is the unfairness. I’ll just be working my ass off to line the pockets of the next generation.

RTB was an absolute joke and at the root of a lot of our housing issues in this country. Sickening really.

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:09

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 20:57

Why do you not understand that owning a house when you're 65 (normally the round about age) is a better option than continuing to rent until you DIE?

I gave my lifetime tenancy up for a mortgage. I would have been a fucking idiot to give it up because I was earning more money and rent privately instead

So are you saying you gave up your social housing for a mortgage?

Yes I agree it wouldn’t have been wise to give it up to go and rent, but social housing is really for those on low income, that’s what I think anyway.

The whole situation is quite broken.

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:10

Duckyfondant · 26/06/2025 20:53

What was? If I didn't see them every day, I'd still know they were there.

Although I must admit I did leave some low price social housing because I thought others might need it more. Sadly it doesn't pay to try and do the right thing.

Bless you.

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Itsnothealthy · 26/06/2025 21:10

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 20:53

At the heart of this thread is why do some people get the benefit of lifetime security - yet someone who is privately renting, or paying a mortgage doesn’t get the same level of security?

But i was private renting that =2 evictions for me and years in temporary accommodation. Now im in social housing should I have to give that up at some point to go through the same thing over again?

You could private rent wait for eviction spend years in temporary accommodation. And get secure social housing that way? Social housing isn't just handed out you have to go through the system it's not pretty.

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:10

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 21:02

Have you read anything I've written. How am I feeling attacked because I GAVE UP my secure tenancy?

I am disagreeing with you because I think you are wrong and you are angry at the wrong people

Also that comment there wasn’t necessarily aimed at you @K0OLA1D

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juneny · 26/06/2025 21:11

You're consumed by jealously. People in council houses, people who manage to get pregnant, your poor brother.

Appreciate what you have and stop coveting what others have. You'll be happier

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:11

Itsnothealthy · 26/06/2025 21:10

But i was private renting that =2 evictions for me and years in temporary accommodation. Now im in social housing should I have to give that up at some point to go through the same thing over again?

You could private rent wait for eviction spend years in temporary accommodation. And get secure social housing that way? Social housing isn't just handed out you have to go through the system it's not pretty.

I know it’s not pretty, and I’m really sorry for your experience there.

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:12

I know someone who came to this country after marrying a UK citizen and she then broke up with him and went straight into social housing, no wait, nothing.

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K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 21:15

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:09

So are you saying you gave up your social housing for a mortgage?

Yes I agree it wouldn’t have been wise to give it up to go and rent, but social housing is really for those on low income, that’s what I think anyway.

The whole situation is quite broken.

Yes I am saying that. I live in HA housing from 18 to 29. Where we had managed to get enough for a deposit on our own home.

Not many people would remain in HA if that was the option given to them.

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:16

K0OLA1D · 26/06/2025 21:15

Yes I am saying that. I live in HA housing from 18 to 29. Where we had managed to get enough for a deposit on our own home.

Not many people would remain in HA if that was the option given to them.

Well done to you x

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Frequency · 26/06/2025 21:20

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 21:00

My issue is not with people taking advantage of the system. If I were in that position, hell, I might too!

My argument is also that there are people out there who are in a really unfortunate and desperate position where they really really need somewhere to live, now won’t get it. And now your nephew is in a 2/3 social housing house that could’ve gone to a family fleeing domestic abuse…

Everyone who is disagreeing with me feels attacked because they are taking advantage of the system and are now getting defensive. You are unable to take criticism or comment that might cast you in a bad light.

Edited

My town does not have a shortage of social housing. Believe it or not, London is not the start and end of the UK. There are other areas outside of London, there are even other cities Shock

The average wait for a council property in Newcastle is only 42 weeks; that is just the council, Newcastle also has several HAs. Some areas in Newcastle have an average waiting list of 10 weeks.