I was very upset that the last thread was pulled, Bellini. I was the OP and absurd as it might sound, I feel responsible for keeping a thread going when I've invested in it like that.
It went through a rocky evening, as you will remember, and so I took a little break to collect my thoughts. When I came back the next morning, ready to start again with fresh equilibrium, it was a mistake. Someone - NOT you - said something that set me off again. They actually said it in all innocence (they hadn't read the thread, just jumped in). Unfortunately, I've had two bereavements (immediate family) in a short time. One of those I've spoken about on these threads but the other I have not. It's too painful. That morning, I was going to pick up one set of ashes.
I am telling you this not to elicit sympathy but just to put things in context.
That's when I posted a message that I was still majorly pissed off and was taking another break. I don't really swear, Bellini, and my post was uncharacteristic behaviour but I hope you see now why it happened.
After that, all hell broke loose. The thread was pulled while I was out at the crematorium. It was very upsetting on top of an already upsetting day.
If, however, you can take a deep breath and start again, I'm sure I can do the same. So what do you say? Is it going to be handbags at dawn or so we have a truce? And if it's handbags at dawn, I'm going to start with a massive disadvantage. I hate the flaming things. That's why God invented pockets. 