Q: vesela "I'm British, we live in another EU country and from this year my daughter's going to be in the state school system here. Are we doing something wrong? Should I have stayed in my own country?"
If you and/or your partner are working, if you are paying your taxes, if your sole reasons for being in that country wasn't to benefit from a better funded social system than the one you had in the UK, i.e if you're putting in at least as much as you're taking out, then, no, I am sure you are a welcome, contributory, involved person in your community.
Using the UK- or any education system/public health services etc whilst choosing to live on welfare in council paid for accommodation, having deliberately emigrated here with the sole and express intention of doing just that is freeloading. Earning a minimum wage, but still calculatingly importing your entire family to have the shortfall in provision filled by the state, is freeloading.
There is nothing sacrosanct about 'education' that makes using it without contributing anything worthy of special consideration.
Q: Sequin "I am sure we will come back one day and pay our way to support ourselves and others less fortunate than us". That's good- just don't go assuming any of your taxes you pay will still be available to 'support you' should you need them if they've already been spent on welfare etc for mass, unlimited immigration!
FWIW I don't consider UKIP racist at all. They are merely putting voice to concerns a lot of people are feeling. I personally don't care if you're white, black or rainbow striped; Christian, animist or 'of no faith'. Come on in- providing that you have the ability and desire to very quickly become an involved, committed, contributory member of society, benefitting from the Rights afforded you here but also being 'made' to accept your responsibilities.
Where I live (in a leafy end of Eastleigh!) of the 4 houses I can see from my front window, here, 3 are lived in by 'incomers' or immigrants, if you like. None of the people are WASPs. But every morning, a string of cars pull out containing the working adults of the family, off to their professional jobs, their children come out and join mine to walk up to the school bus together. They all own their houses, they all own their BMWs (they're better off than us! ). No, we're not all popping into each other houses but we pass the time of day (which is one reason why I know they're concerned about Romania!), we lend lawn mowers.
I am not advocating this MC 'utopia' as 'the way to go' but it is an illustration of how we all get along just fine, regardless of race, colour or faith- why? Because we're all on the same page socially. They have 'bought into' the social contract (and possibly are far less likely to call on the public purse in times of need than I might be!- family pride, family pulling together to tide that person over etc) same as I have.
So this is not a racist issue, it is an issue of economy and straight forward 'What's fair'.
Final point: Who can blame a Romanian Roma from firing up the Trabant and setting off westwards, come the day??!