why do people need religion to begin with ?
All sorts of reasons from needing to try find order within a random world, to bring comfort at times of hardship or torment, to find a sense of place and community, out of fear/powerlessness/hopelessness, to bring meaning and purpose into humankind’s essentially meaningless and purposeless existence and probably lots more.
My DGPs left Lithuania during the pogroms . They followed the Torah to the letter out of sheer terror as to what else might befall them and their children if they failed to observe the law. They were riddled with anxiety and trauma when they eventually got to the Uk. I can totally get why their religion and community meant safety, protection and comfort.
My DPs were brought up going to synagogue, daily after school religious classes, prayers at home etc, but as soon as they could, both rebelled against the whole kit and kaboodle . My siblings and I were brought up without any religious instruction, no bar/batmizvahs or days off school for Jewish holidays and only went to synagogue for our DGPs funerals.
I feel very strongly culturally Jewish and proud of the adversity my family had to try overcome as best they could. I’ve read there is a genetic predisposition towards religiosity. Maybe my DPs and us are missing that gene. My DBs, all my cousins and nephews and nieces all have partners who aren’t Jewish and all of us are atheists.