AIBU then to think this was me?
On a previous thread, I alluded to having a problematic coworker I felt the need to shield myself from but it's actually a longer, more complicated tale than I explained.
Two women Linda and Kate, let's say, started with my company in the winter of last year.
Instinctively I disliked Linda, I got a vibe on day one, who I found cold, and domineering, essentially we are opposites as people and have nothing in common
Kate struck me as a bit intense, a bit in your face, a bit too eager to be your best friend, but seemed like a nice person all the same.
After starting here, they teamed up as a duo, and would often complete solo tasks together slowing everything down. I got a very strong vibe that neither liked me very much but attributed this to Linda who I knew disliked me influencing Kate who I had felt did. I definitely felt that Linda thought I had "ideas above my station" and was "stuck up"
Then something happened professionally to Kate, she was heavily criticised for something. I didn't know it had happened and wasn't involved. She became convinced that I was "behind it" and I endured a campaign of hostility from her for months until the truth came out.
Linda was never openly hostile BUT had form for slaying me behind my back. I also realised she was sabotaging my appointments and leave by recording them in the wrong dates and times.
Around this time I joined this thread and asked for protection help, I did a spell about sending any influences that "enemies" had sent my way back to them.
Linda, Kate and a third colleague Jane went on a trip together in the time I mentioned that she was off. Linda and Jane were injured in accident, Jane less seriously. Linda may not be coming back to work.
Kate is now quite servile towards me, which is somehow worse and I can't help but think that perhaps Linda was the true enemy after all, and I feel a bit spooked by it all.
I know it's stupid but AIBU to think ..... that I influenced here?