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Praying into 2016: a Christian prayer thread for the New Year

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Tuo · 01/01/2016 02:12

Happy New Year friends.

This thread is a safe space where anyone - regular, occasional visitor, lurker, committed Christian or waverer - is welcome to come and leave their prayers in the knowledge that they will be prayed for. No problem is too big or small to share here, and if you just want to come and say 'hi', that's fine too.

Looking back through our previous thread, we pray in particular for:

ALittleFaith - for good treatment for her anxiety; for better understanding from her boss; for the lovely Faithlet.

amberlight - for her work supporting people with autism, and for her and her family.

Anjelica27 - for her DS, who has mental health problems, and for Anjelica and her family.

BlackEyedSusan - for all that she has to juggle as a single mum, for her DC, and for her mum. Praying for a peaceful and happy 2016.

Dontbesilly - for her dad, who has been diagnosed with cancer, and for all who love and care for him; also for the medical team looking after him; for her DH's work situation; and for Don't's DDog who has a heart condition.

DutchOma - with gratitude for all she does to support people on this thread and elsewhere. Thinking of her especially as the anniversary of the loss of her beloved Bob approaches, in particular after the recent death of her brother as well. May she know God's closeness to her in her grief.

EdithSimcox - for her to be able to find ways to support and nurture her faith; and for understanding from her DP.

FaithLoveandHope - for clarity about what she wants (and what God wants) for her future.

HardyLeodicean - especially for her FIL.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece - for her to find comfort and joy in exploring her faith; also for a good recovery from heart surgery for her best friend's dad.

JugglingFromHereToThere - for her search for rewarding work, for health, and for comfort and strength for her and the rest of her family following the tragic death of her nephew.

Kaykat - following her divorce from an abusive ex; for happiness for her and for her DS.

legohurtswhenyoustandonit - for her to feel more at home and accepted by her church.

LifeofBriony - for her relationship with her DH; also for her DS going back to university after Christmas.

LightnessofBeing - for her new church, and for energy to cope with her punishing work schedule.

MadHairDay - for her health, especially in the cold, wet winter months which are always so hard on her lungs.

Pandora97 - as she starts a new job in a new town for the new year following difficult and stressful times relating to a court case in recent months.

passportmess (formerly known as QuietIsland) - for a colleague whose husband is very ill, and for a university friend who has been diagnosed with cancer.

PatchworkTurtle - for healing in her relationship.

PositiveAttitude - for her DD1, who is depressed, to get the support she needs; for her DD3 and her DH to work through their relationship issues; for PA's DH to find work that makes him happier, for PA's DMum to continue to be happy in her (relatively) new care home and for PA's DDad to cope with her being there. Above all, we pray for PA herself, who is always there for others when they need her, to be happy and fulfilled in 2016.

QoF - for courage when she is feeling anxious.

ScouseQueen - for a full recovery from recent illness.

SESthebrave - for her DH, who has been working abroad, and for SES, juggling everything at home; for her DS to find ways of communicating, rather than lashing out, when he is frustrated; and for her to feel appreciated for the work she does at her church.

TheRealGracePoole - for her ministry to women in her area.

weegiemum - giving thanks for an improvement in her DD1's (borderline) anorexia; praying for weegiemum's own health and for the Master's course which she has undertaken.

And, as always, prayers for anyone I've forgotten (with apologies), for all who lurk but don't post, for 'old-timers' who haven't posted recently, and for newbies who may not have posted yet.

A prayer of St Teresa of Avila

Let nothing disturb you.
Let nothing frighten you.
All things pass away:
God never changes.
Patience obtains all things.
Those who have God
Find they lack nothing;
God alone suffices. Amen

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IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 20/05/2016 08:32

Thank you Dutch x oh I hope so, God I hope so x

passportmess · 20/05/2016 13:55

Prayers for your friend and her baby I hope. Thinking and praying.

Get some rest Bes

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 20/05/2016 15:37

Baby's ok!!! She has to go back in two weeks for her actual NHS scan (she went private) but everything looks good

I have had a happy sob and I am bursting with happiness and gratitude for you all...you are a wonderful group of people on this thread xxxxx

Thank you from the bottom of my heart xxxxx

passportmess · 20/05/2016 15:51

Hurrah!!!!! Best news all week. I remember scans so stressful when I was pregnant. What great news.

Dutchoma · 20/05/2016 16:28

Thank God baby is ok.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/05/2016 18:01

fuck, fuck fuck. ds has just escalated his behaviour

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 20/05/2016 22:36

Thank you again xx

Tuo · 20/05/2016 23:29

That is wonderful news Hope. I am so pleased for your friend. Praying that all will now continue to go smoothly with the pregnancy.

BES prayers for fortitude...

A prayer of Julian of Norwich:

O God, of your goodness, give us yourself, for only in you do we have all. Amen.

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BlackeyedSusan · 21/05/2016 10:31

we are off to mothers for the day, including a trip to the supermarket. grumpy. pray for good journey as I maybe taking their dad and he is annoying.

QofF · 21/05/2016 21:41

Hi everyone - have been lurking and praying but been crazy busy. Anyway wanted to say hello and Hope - fantastic news Smile

BlackeyedSusan · 22/05/2016 00:09

home safe. ex is home too. he walked from here as we had the logistical problem of sleeping children, two flights of stairs and a car that needed to be put in the garage.

passportmess · 22/05/2016 00:19

Well done Bes - but you must be shattered. Wonderful Julian of Norwich prayer....

BlackeyedSusan · 22/05/2016 21:02

dd has a music exam tomorrow so prayers for her to play to the best of her ability would be good.

passportmess · 22/05/2016 22:09

Prayers here. I hope it goes well.

Aphie · 22/05/2016 22:28

So this is my first time here and I'm very much a waverer, I get a guilty conscience when I feel like I'm only reaching out during my own times of need but I'm really struggling with my MH at the moment and terrible health anxiety and I feel like I need others to pray with me to get through this period.

Dutchoma · 22/05/2016 22:44

Welcome Aphie, I hope we can be a help and support to you. How can you visualise God's love for you? It's getting late, try and get some rest.

Tuo · 22/05/2016 23:15

Welcome Aphie. Don't feel guilty: it's really natural to turn to God when you feel you need Him. You know that Footprints in the Sand poem? Well, sometimes I think that the reverse is also true, that God is with you all the time, but you only think about His being there for you at the times when your needs are greatest: that's when you turn to God explicitly to say 'Help me!'. It doesn't mean that the rest of the time you're on your own, though. And the trick, for me (returning to faith as an adult after a long time away from it) was to teach myself to remember that God was there all the time... and then to try to be aware of God (to talk to God and to feel God's presence) in the good times as well as the needy ones. Does that make sense?

Anyway, I am praying for you tonight; praying for you to feel stronger and braver and less anxious day by day. Please know that we are praying with you and virtually holding your hands.

BES prayers for you too, and for your DD. Glad you got back safely.

And prayers for all who post on this thread: and especially our lovely Oma, unfailingly there for others.

Here's a lovely bit of tonight's Compline service from the Northumbria Community, which I am posting for all of us on this thread.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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passportmess · 22/05/2016 23:37

Praying for calm for you Aphie. It's very hard when the worry is there and hard to switch off the thoughts. Be good to yourself. Others here are happy to pray with you and for you. Smile

LarrytheCucumber · 23/05/2016 06:03

I normally lurk on here, but I had a small victory yesterday. I went to church and sat through the whole service without crying. Smile.
You put that prayer in before Tuo and I put it on the back of our church newsletter. Thank you.
I have read a book called 'Still Emily' by Emily Owen. I found it really encouraging. One of the things she says is that there are always rainbows in the rain. I have started looking for small positives in every day. It might just be a smile from a stranger or a helpful checkout operator, or it might be a visit from a friend, but I try to thank God for small good things that happen instead of focusing on the big things that overwhelm me.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/05/2016 07:29

suffering from revenge of the privet hedge. top of right arm agony, but only if I move it in one direction.

welcome aphie

Dontbesilly · 23/05/2016 16:58

Hi to Lego, Aphie and Larry along with everyone else. I am holding you all in prayer and thought. So glad the baby boys scan went well and prayers for the rest of the pregnancy too. What an amazing friend you are to her, which must be such a comfort. Prayers for your mh Aphie, it can be so hard to find the strength to cope on a daily basis with mh issues and I pray for you for strength and peace. Larry, I really loved your positive post. We all need to take the time to look for the little positives life gives us all. We are often too preoccupied with life to notice them and are too quick to notice the negative stuff.

Tuo, I knew that it was school related. Glad you agreed with me lol as I feel like I am fighting a loosing battle with the school. A plus is the letter of response my sister kindly drafted out for me. Direct and to the point, in very few words and just erm, well, just properly put. She pointed out several things that all linked together and ended up with the problem again, for them to solve making it abundantly clear that I am not entering into more correspondence when the issue remains ignored, type of thing. Lots of lovely clever words Blush Hopefully things will get sorted out now.

Mum is quite frightened on occasion at home and confided to one of my dc that she sleeps with a knife, which I said is silly as in the highly unlikely event of an intruder, she would be giving them a weapon to use, plus mum is not a person who could ever wield a knife. Too kind and trusting and warm hearted. Noone has been to view lately, and the man interested in looking in the kitchen drawers wasn't interested in the end. Maybe mums drawers were not what he had in mind. If he had planned for another visit I may have put interesting things in the drawer, for my own entertainment you know Wink watching the reaction.

Mad, how are you? How are things going? Thanks for thinking of me x

Prayers bes for the music exam, hoping all went well.

Passport, any more thoughts on the possible new job and move yet?

I am off to plant some bedding plants now. Really I should be taking dd1 for a driving lesson in dh's car, but I am procrastinating and she is aware of this and enquires frequently if we can go now. It's a bit like the fear you get on the high and fast parts of a roller-coaster 🎢 and the stress is quite something too. To be fair dh's car is nothing like her instructors car and she's not used to it yet. Hopefully she won't swerve for pigeons like last time, dh said that pigeons take care of themselves and not to swerve, unless its the only safe option available for the situation. Eek wish us luck Grin

passportmess · 23/05/2016 18:54

I'm glad the school issue is being tackled with a robust letter don't. Sometimes you have to put your foot down so they know you won't go away!

I hope your mum's house sells quickly. Selling our place was one of our worries re the move as housing market is slow. That said, the job is a chance for us to go 'home' which we never thought we'd have. My family have all left my home country for far away shores but I'd be moving to a different city from my birth city. We weighed up everything, including the impact of the move on ds. Dh has applied with my blessing so we'll see where this leads.

Hope music exam went well Smile

Aphie · 23/05/2016 23:18

Thank you for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers. I used to have a copy of footprints on my fridge. I now have a little poem called do not quit that I try to repeat to myself when I'm feeling down. The prayer from the top of the thread is lovely and helps too.

BlackeyedSusan · 24/05/2016 07:37

had a text form her teacher who said she played well. Just wanted her to play her best, whatever the outcome. she has worked really hard practising.

passportmess · 24/05/2016 08:34

That's great news Bes.