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Praying into 2016: a Christian prayer thread for the New Year

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Tuo · 01/01/2016 02:12

Happy New Year friends.

This thread is a safe space where anyone - regular, occasional visitor, lurker, committed Christian or waverer - is welcome to come and leave their prayers in the knowledge that they will be prayed for. No problem is too big or small to share here, and if you just want to come and say 'hi', that's fine too.

Looking back through our previous thread, we pray in particular for:

ALittleFaith - for good treatment for her anxiety; for better understanding from her boss; for the lovely Faithlet.

amberlight - for her work supporting people with autism, and for her and her family.

Anjelica27 - for her DS, who has mental health problems, and for Anjelica and her family.

BlackEyedSusan - for all that she has to juggle as a single mum, for her DC, and for her mum. Praying for a peaceful and happy 2016.

Dontbesilly - for her dad, who has been diagnosed with cancer, and for all who love and care for him; also for the medical team looking after him; for her DH's work situation; and for Don't's DDog who has a heart condition.

DutchOma - with gratitude for all she does to support people on this thread and elsewhere. Thinking of her especially as the anniversary of the loss of her beloved Bob approaches, in particular after the recent death of her brother as well. May she know God's closeness to her in her grief.

EdithSimcox - for her to be able to find ways to support and nurture her faith; and for understanding from her DP.

FaithLoveandHope - for clarity about what she wants (and what God wants) for her future.

HardyLeodicean - especially for her FIL.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece - for her to find comfort and joy in exploring her faith; also for a good recovery from heart surgery for her best friend's dad.

JugglingFromHereToThere - for her search for rewarding work, for health, and for comfort and strength for her and the rest of her family following the tragic death of her nephew.

Kaykat - following her divorce from an abusive ex; for happiness for her and for her DS.

legohurtswhenyoustandonit - for her to feel more at home and accepted by her church.

LifeofBriony - for her relationship with her DH; also for her DS going back to university after Christmas.

LightnessofBeing - for her new church, and for energy to cope with her punishing work schedule.

MadHairDay - for her health, especially in the cold, wet winter months which are always so hard on her lungs.

Pandora97 - as she starts a new job in a new town for the new year following difficult and stressful times relating to a court case in recent months.

passportmess (formerly known as QuietIsland) - for a colleague whose husband is very ill, and for a university friend who has been diagnosed with cancer.

PatchworkTurtle - for healing in her relationship.

PositiveAttitude - for her DD1, who is depressed, to get the support she needs; for her DD3 and her DH to work through their relationship issues; for PA's DH to find work that makes him happier, for PA's DMum to continue to be happy in her (relatively) new care home and for PA's DDad to cope with her being there. Above all, we pray for PA herself, who is always there for others when they need her, to be happy and fulfilled in 2016.

QoF - for courage when she is feeling anxious.

ScouseQueen - for a full recovery from recent illness.

SESthebrave - for her DH, who has been working abroad, and for SES, juggling everything at home; for her DS to find ways of communicating, rather than lashing out, when he is frustrated; and for her to feel appreciated for the work she does at her church.

TheRealGracePoole - for her ministry to women in her area.

weegiemum - giving thanks for an improvement in her DD1's (borderline) anorexia; praying for weegiemum's own health and for the Master's course which she has undertaken.

And, as always, prayers for anyone I've forgotten (with apologies), for all who lurk but don't post, for 'old-timers' who haven't posted recently, and for newbies who may not have posted yet.

A prayer of St Teresa of Avila

Let nothing disturb you.
Let nothing frighten you.
All things pass away:
God never changes.
Patience obtains all things.
Those who have God
Find they lack nothing;
God alone suffices. Amen

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Dontbesilly · 21/06/2016 17:13

Thank you Oma. I might try and contact the chaplain, the counsellor might know her details as they are both from the hospice. Today I planted three pots of carnations as dad had pots of carnations in his garden. I pulled my back lifting the full pots, I can almost hear dad saying not to do it like that Confused still I will know for next time. The ibuprofen have kicked in Grin

I understand what you mean passport. My mum sits sobbing over the ipad looking at holiday photos and listening to meaningful songs. I avoid these at all costs. I only allow myself to think about certain things. I think avoidance techniques suit me up to the point where you need to face things and then I flounder. I can't face removing his last message on my home answer machine and each message has to be listened to in turn after his. Even though I either listen to it repeatedly or I dread hearing it, noone is allowed to erase it. Sunday was difficult. Still observed it for dh and my dc but secretly, I dreaded the entire day. I search for him or traces of him at mums, I can still smell his smell on his clothing at mums. Nothing but his own lovely clean smell. The smell you smell when you hug someone. I read that searching for someone is part of the grieving process, so that's something positive.

The counsellor is really lovely. A young woman who is very easy to talk to. She listens very intently and understands everything I say. She makes me seem normal Wink which is quite reassuring and it recharges my batteries to offload. Still I feel weak having to go so I haven't told anyone else in RL about it as I am the strong one who copes.

How are you feeling today Faith? Good news on the job offer Bes I hope he accepts the job. Are you keeping busy Oma? Are you still enjoying the choir? Did you get the door painted Passport?

FaithLoveandHope · 21/06/2016 17:59

Hi All,

Just a quick message from me. I'm sat outside counselling. DP is in there now and I'm seeing her at 6:30. I think prayer is really helping me. I'm feeling a little calmer. Today has been very stressful but I'm not sat in the car with the seat back and for the last 20 mins have had my eyes closed listening to Matt Redman. It feels like a wave of calmness currently passing over me. Trying to remind myself that whatever happens in there happens and God is with me and so is DP when I come out.

Even if I don't reply much I do think about you all and hold you all in my thoughts and I do try to offer it all up to God even if I'm struggling with prayer - what is prayer anyway other than trying to make communication with God.

passportmess · 21/06/2016 19:20

I don't think anyone is weak going to counselling. It gives you space to explore your thoughts and feelings.

Flowers to don't and faith and prayers too.

BlackeyedSusan · 21/06/2016 19:33

he accepted. now we wait for the results of references etc. 2-3 weeks. he asked when he can have a celebration meal. once he has started.

Dutchoma · 21/06/2016 22:49

He can pay for a celebration meal from his first pay packet.

BlackeyedSusan · 22/06/2016 00:04

precisely.

we are living on savings. if this goes tits up then it will be another month or so before he is back in the interview cycle.

Tuo · 22/06/2016 01:40

Sending hugs to Faith and to Don't and praying for better times round the corner.

In the meantime, I have started a new thread here when you're ready to migrate over there.

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