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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2015 08:34

good to hear that briony. it is reallly hard letting them do stiff on their own. fortunately I am only at the spilt breakfast stage and oat snowstorm. I do have recent experience of mother nagging though and it drove me bonkers.

the children are miraculously still asleep. you will know when ds wakes as there will be howls that he is not first on the computer.

madhairday · 07/08/2015 08:35

That's good to hear, LifeOfBriony.

Praying for Woah and dontbesilly.

Continuing to pray for you, Peter. I know what you mean about looking at God through the pain and stating that God is good, praising God through it can be an incredibly powerful thing and it's sometimes at my deepest pain that I've know most profound encounter with God. There is so much we don't understand.

Praying for Tuo on Iona. Such a beautiful place :)

I'm off on holiday next week so may not have much Internet but will be keeping you all in prayers.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2015 11:00

I have started... again... the great clear up continues. please pray that ex will happily take his stuff. he may take the chair out of the hall. I am hoping toget a replacement.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2015 11:11

ooo now I have gone green again. how odd.
oops wasting time back to it.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2015 14:38

got the strops. very sore grumbling tummy and run out of oomph.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2015 14:53

have finally got in touch with ex and told him he has to take his stuff away. now I have access to nearly all the wardrobe. next job is to fill it up and clear the bloody floor. then mend my wardrobe, then clear my bed of the entire contents of the wardrobe.

how long that will take is anyones guess. I was going to go shopping, but have a sore tummy and it may not be wise to venture far... or try and drive. must find the powdered milk then.

Dontbesilly · 07/08/2015 19:49

Firstly thank you all for the advice, support and prayers and for everything. Each one of you has been a huge positive support. Even though I don't personally 'know' you and I pray for you using your nicknames, I feel as if I know you and I am so grateful for you being around!!!!! Hope that made sense Blush

Praying for the pain to leave Peter alone and for things to get better and stay better. For Bes to get rid of the stuff and for her tummy ache to pass soon. So pleased that things worked out for Briony's ds. Hoping Madhair has a fantastic holiday. Praying Woah is getting better. So grateful for this thread and praying for everyone.

My dad has an opportunity to be seen privately for a second opinion. Please, please can you pray for the doctors to consider his case as a viable one. The doctors meet on Tuesday. Just the chance of them agreeing to take him on and try to do more than palliative treatment would be, well so amazing. He has stage three cancer which should be operable, according to everything I read. Please can you think of and pray for my dad and the doctors too.

Hoping everyone has a wonderful productive, pain-free and peaceful weekend. X

QuietIsland · 07/08/2015 20:03

dontbesilly I was going to suggest a second opinion because doctors do differ. Will be praying for him - he sounds like a fantastic man. X

BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2015 20:10

you may also be able to get a different opinion at a different nhs hospital. have yuo googles to find out the specialist in the field?

QofF · 07/08/2015 20:25

prayers for an opportunity for a second opinion dontbesilly.
On holiday and about to read through, catch up and pray.

amberlight · 07/08/2015 20:59

Dontbesilly, I'm not a doctor or medical specialist of any kind - just a cancer survivor who reads cancer research reports every day...and has done for years. The advice here is good. For a start, I'd ask about personalised profiling of the cancer. And I'd ask about trials. There are lots going on, some showing great promise.

Praying for all as I read through.

Here, praying for DS. As some may know, he is also autistic. And is about to start a new job. After a really difficult situation where his contract was ended after he 'whistleblew' on a safeguarding situation, he needs confidence in employers again.

Dutchoma · 07/08/2015 21:54

Prayers for all but especially BES, Dontbesillyand er family, Peterspots and Anjelica and Amber's ds.

An evening prayer from the Northumbria community for Friday evening

I am placing my soul and my body
in Thy safe keeping this night, O God,
in Thy safe keeping, O Jesus Christ,
in Thy safe keeping, O Spirit of perfect truth.
The Three who would defend my cause
be keeping me this night from harm. Amen

Dontbesilly · 07/08/2015 22:02

Amber. You said you were just a cancer survivor. Well from my view point you are way more than that!!! Hopefully dad can join your club, the word survivor is a very inspiring one.

I will definitely ask about what you have suggested. The reason we are trying the private second opinion is that we discovered that the hospital knew he had cancer mid June and told my parents three weeks ago, despite being a stage three, we don't feel they are really rushing around or pulling out the stops, just giving out estimates of how long left he has. Time is of the essence. He is fit and healthy and the oncologist agreed, but still they won't be pursuaded to try anything as they don't see the benefits.

Bes I can't find out a specialist in the field, I will ask McMillan they must know who is, although they didn't recommend any particular hospital. I Googled and found the Marsden has great reviews. Trouble is the Marsden don't list his cancer as ones they treat. I will keep on googling and digging around though. I am also wary that a second opinion could delay things, and I am reminded time is of the essence again. My mind is like a hamster wheel with thoughts going round and round.

Amber, I am so pleased for your sons new job. What a difficult situation to be in and so brave to be a whistle-blower and to then loose out. Really thought new regulations had come out to protect whistle-blowers. Hoping his new employer treats him well and as a result he can rebuild his confidence. Hoping he really enjoys this new challenge and is successful too, sounds like he really deserves this new opportunity.

Thank you Quiet, he is fantastic and if it was me poorly then he would be camping outside the doctors office making things happen. He would have created a plan (whilst eating frozen peas I must add) all carefully thought out in great detail and followed it through. I am inadequate by comparison.

QofF - thank you so much and have a really great holiday.

Thanks everyone x Flowers

Lightnessofbeing2015 · 07/08/2015 23:07

Hello everyone and best wishes and prayers to everyone struggling.
Thanks for the prayer for my new job.
I am working 40 hours over the weekend in a new hospital and new job. It's tough but the hospital is friendly and I do love my job. I am old fashioned..I like to think I am saving lives and helping people feel better in every way I can.
Praying for clear thinking and calm and fast work.

EdithSimcox · 08/08/2015 06:36

Reading...., praying....

Thinking of you all. Happy holidays, MHD and QoF.

amberlight · 08/08/2015 09:38

Dontbesilly, thanks. For anyone looking for info on current cancer trials, this is a good link www.cancerresearchuk.org/about-cancer/find-a-clinical-trial/clinical-trials-search?populate=Oesophageal%20cancer&f[0]=field_trial_status%3A4386&f[1]=field_trial_type%3A4271&f[2]=field_cancer_type_tax%3A3561&items_per_page=40 (That one is for oesophagus). But of course expert cancer teams know medical history, and will be able to explain why some of these may or may not be suitable.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 10:22

ho hum. I have been clear since last weekend that ex will have to be here (this city) to collect his stuff. he apparently did not know it was here... (well he has not been listening for two weeks then as it has been said several times.) I have rung him several times to try and get in contact to find out what time. when he rang at ten last night, he apparently is going out to lunch... (both meanings) and will not be able to leave until at least 1.30 (his words) if it goes ahead. he will ring to let me know if it is not going ahead. (someone else may not be well enough) he has not mentioned the children really. Confused I think he may expect to see them here...

after breakfast I will be getting more of his stuff into the hall. It may mean losing half the bathroom under hall junk though.. Blush (the flat is like a giant version of one of those games where you can only slide one square at a time inot the one empty space.

oh and I am confined to barracks again as still poorly.

Dontbesilly · 08/08/2015 11:28

BES that's terrible. He sounds like he is controlling your home. You need to take charge and tell him his stuff will no longer be held at your home after xxx date. It's affecting your life and your health too. I really feel for you. If the stuff is so important to him, he would surely have needed it by now. Hoping you feel better soon and his stuff doesn't block your route to the bathroom if your heading there in a hurry. Blush really feel for you. X

Thanks for the link amber I will have a good look. It's valuable information and I appreciate that x

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 12:09

I have the most enormous bathroom. it is thirteen foot ten inches into the back of the cupboard. it is very annoyingly large as the bathroom is bigger than the second bedroom.

he has lived in small accomodation until now so storing his stuff has worked out ok. he has been taking bits of it away gradually. sending him away with a carrier bag full at a time has got rid of quite a lot of it. it is his records. he needs to take them now as I am going to do some woodwork in there and they will get damaged if they get dusty. as will his keyboard. and I can not store them in the bathroom as they will get damp and may get weed on, again. (they were under the nappy table and ds managed to pee on them when he was a baby as ex thought he knew best and refused to cover up ds's willy when he took the nappy off)

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 13:35

first batch of records in the hall. he seems amenable to taking them away for their own protection. they wood have got all sawdusty upstairs and in the hall ds is likely to climb on them.. poor records.. Sad

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 14:36

would

I was obviously thinking of sawdust wood..

one enormous crash, a slammed door, one snapped curtain rail support, toast making, drink providing, and only two more bags of records have made it to the hall. they are quite heavy.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 17:26

he came at three fifteen and took a little away. it is not bloody good enough. he has to pull his bloody finger out and get on with it.

Dutchoma · 08/08/2015 17:51

Get the man first and let him take all the records away.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 18:32

he is still notbloody back.

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