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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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PositiveAttitude · 08/08/2015 19:04

Just flying in. My uncle who died under 2 weeks ago.....his funeral was planned for this Wednesday. His wife (my aunt) has been totally distraught since he died. She had a stroke earlier today and is not expected to survive. Please pray for their family. Funeral is now postponed and likely to be a double one. Awful, awful, awful!! But she did not want to live here without him.

Dontbesilly · 08/08/2015 19:22

Oh positive that is so sad to hear. I will be praying for you all. What a shock for you and your family to have to go through.

Dutchoma · 08/08/2015 19:24

That is indeed awful in one sense PA but maybe God has answered prayer in a way only He can.

amberlight · 08/08/2015 20:14

Prayers assured, PA

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 20:53

oh Pa. they said that it often happens when dad died. prayers.
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Dutchoma · 08/08/2015 21:53

TUO is home after a rather lengthy journey, so is MaryBS.

Prayers tonight for PA and her family, for BES in her ongoing battle with clutter and twonk ex, or Soozi, for Anjelica, for Lightnessofbeing in her 40 hour shift this weekend and for all who read but do not post on the thread. I am copying one of TUO's favourite prayers with particular intention for PA's aunt.

Watch thou, dear Lord,
with those who wake, or watch, or weep tonight,
and give thine angels charge over those who sleep.
Tend thy sick ones, Lord Christ.
Rest thy weary ones.
Bless thy dying ones.
Soothe thy suffering ones.
Pity thine afflicted ones.
Shield thy joyous ones.
And all, for thy love's sake.

Amen.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 22:30

amen.

may god have his loving arms around you PA. My you know his comfort and his strength.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2015 22:52

two bin bags of recycling gone.

four carrier bags of rubbish.

lost the end of my bed again. but we are getting there. there is space under the dressing table. there is space in the wardrobe.

EdithSimcox · 09/08/2015 08:31

Oh PA I'm so sorry. Praying for your aunt, for you, and all the family.

Another no-church-Sunday for me. Sad Please keep DP and me in your prayers.

BlackeyedSusan · 09/08/2015 10:09

sorry edith.

Dontbesilly · 09/08/2015 13:50

You are in my prayers Edith. Thinking of you x

madhairday · 09/08/2015 16:49

I'm so sorry PA Flowers - this sounds such a hard time for you all. You will be in my prayers.

Edith :( I'm sorry it's so difficult. I am praying for you and dp.

BES, did he come back and take the rest of his crap away? Hope he has and you can get on with stuff.

I'm going away on holiday tomorrow and will keep you all in prayers.

PositiveAttitude · 09/08/2015 17:10

Thank you all for the prayers.

Edith most definitely in my prayers.

MHD have a wonderful holiday. Where are you going?

Well, we are all now very confused and not sure whether to give thanks, or how to feel. Aunt has rallied. Yesterday we were told there was no hope - today she is sat up in bed, very confused about what has happened, but alive! We are all just confused. She is still critical and things could very easily go back to how they were expected to go yesterday. Please just pray for peace for everyone in the family. Life is a massive roller coaster at the moment. My mum has no idea what is happening, which is frustrating my dad no end - and making him get very cross with her because she does not understand her brother has died and her SIL is so ill.

On a totally different tack - a wonderful morning visiting another church today and we are going back this evening. This is in the church where I work and not normally where we worship.

Those of you who have known me here for a number of years will know how unhappy we have been with the church we attend. There could be light at the end of the tunnel. We are praying about the possibility of leaving to join a church plant. Early days yet, but we are very excited and are just waiting for God to confirm one way or the other what He wants us to do. Prayers for clarity would be appreciated. Smile

Dutchoma · 09/08/2015 18:23

Certainly praying about that PA. I know a bit about your situation and this could be an elegant way out...if God will allow you to stop being a thorn in the flesh of your current 'old' church. I have the distinct feeling they may well need you.
As far as your aunt goes, what a surprise! Definitely give thanks under the 'whatever' banner.

Tuo · 09/08/2015 19:05

Hello all... I'm back! Thanking God for a lovely holiday and safe travels, despite long delays yesterday.

Time for a bit of a round-up, methinks... If I forget anyone, please don't be offended - just keep adding people/prayers!

Praying for...

Pandora37, as she awaits the final outcome of the court case. May she know patience, and as much peace of mind as is possible in this waiting period. And thanking God for her renewed faith.

PeterSpots, for her pain to subside and for her to get some answers from the medical team. Also for her DD's A-level results, due this coming week.

Lightnessofbeing, for her faith to be strengthened, and for her job to both challenge and satisfy her.

FHaL, in the aftermath of her relationship breakdown, and for her work.

NotAHappyDay, for her relationship with her DH.

PA, for the family of her uncle who died while I was away and for her aunt in the aftermath of her stroke. Also for her DS with his broken hand. And for her church situation and hope for a happy future there.

featherandblack, for her relative, who is seriously ill.

Dontbesilly, for her dad who has cancer, and for DBS and her family as they cope with this news and try to support him and one another.

WhoaBodyforrrrm, who has had surgery for a brain tumour, praying for recovery, and for her whole family at this stressful time.

BES, for the post-holiday clear-up, for strength to deal with all that she has going on in her life, and for her mum.

EdithSimcox, for her faith to be strengthened, and for her to find support in developing it. Also for her DP to be able to accept this.

MHD, thanking God for her current good health.

chocolatechip123, for her new job opportunity.

LifeofBriony, for her DS's university opportunity.

QuietIsland, welcome to the thread.

QoF, for a lovely relaxing holiday.

amberlight, for her DS in his new job. It takes a lot of courage to blow the whistle and stand up for what you know to be right against those who have power over you. May his courage continue, and may it be appreciated by his new employers.

Soozi, for healing for her disk.

And for lovely Oma, for her prayers while I've been away, and for healing for her foot.

May God be with us all, with all our different needs, and may He richly bless us.

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BlackeyedSusan · 09/08/2015 19:53

all his crap? the hall full was only a tiny amount of what he has. and there is still some left in the hall.

I got to church. it was demoralising in some ways but ok in others.

went to his new house and it is filthy. it needs abloody good clean. somebody was trying to recruit helpers.

now waht is that old mn saying? ah yes, no is a complete sentence.

Dutchoma · 09/08/2015 20:29

And did you have to aks which bit of 'no' he did not understand?

Dontbesilly · 09/08/2015 22:36

Thank you Tuo. It's very much appreciated. Glad you enjoyed your holiday and arrived back home safe and sound.

Bes - hopefully you only went to the new house to deliver more bags of his stuff. I think you need bigger bags like the blue Ikea ones not carrier bags. Glad you didn't become a cleaning recruit as well as a storage facility. Wink

Pa - wow what a difference a day makes. You all must feel very confused. Praying for peace for your family. It's a difficult time for your parents. Everything seems up and down. Hoping you are ok too. Very exciting opportunity for you with the new church so prayers for you to get the clarity you need.

Hoping everyone had a lovely weekend and things are going well. Thinking about and praying for everyone x

BlackeyedSusan · 10/08/2015 12:38

yes delivered some stuff to his house. not as much as I could have fitted in but did not fancy walkingup and down the street with the children several times.

have started again on the big clear up. so far found one bag of rags. one of exes stuff to send next time. one bag of clothes for a friend. some recycling and some rubbish, as yet unquantifiable in bag terms.

I need some more oomph. got to lots of fiddly bits. hate fiddly bits.

Dontbesilly · 10/08/2015 14:00

Just a quick update and to say a massive thank you for your prayers StarFlowers

With some fight we have finally secured a chemotherapy treatment start date. Week next Wednesday. Dad did not say much but his eyes couldn't hide the fear. Bloody cancer I absolutely hate you!!! Punching the nearest wall in anger

It's early days but if you can spare another prayer, please pray for it to work, that it's tolerated and he's well enough for surgery at some point in time.

I was so happy with the start date I sobbed like a baby and absolutely said a big prayer in thanks.

Hoping everyone is OK. Thinking of everyone x

QuietIsland · 10/08/2015 15:26

Will do don't be silly. And hoping that the second opinion goes well tomorrow.

BlackeyedSusan · 10/08/2015 16:33

prayers for its efficacy don't

been hoovering and tidying the children's room as I wanted to do that before bringing hte hoover down and starting on the living room so things can be put back where they belong.

they have decided to get rid of the slide so that is in a massive bag waiting to go to the charity shop.

BlackeyedSusan · 10/08/2015 18:34

finished the children's room though ds is playing in it now so not sure how long it wil last.

Dontbesilly · 11/08/2015 08:00

Sorry to be a drain. I don't know if I am going to be strong enough to do this. I am so selfish as it's not me actually with the disease. I think that all I could concentrate on was the treatment start date and now that's here the rest is sort of sinking in. Believe me I am so, so grateful for this start date it just opened up fresh new worries. If he doesn't tolerate it....

Sorry for the depressing post.

I want to sleep. I wake often and for a nanosecond everything is OK. Then boom. Then I sleep. I wake again and boom. I get washed with fear and sadness about things passed and to come, events in life. The sadder I get the more I ask God to stay close by and help me. I know that he loves us all and doesn't give us anything we can handle, but I don't know how I can. Obviously I will do it, but everyday I will be a pathetic wet sobbing mess (never around dad, he deserves better, he deserves hope, love, courage and support). If this disease is so common why can't I manage this. Then I say that I have to for him. Writing this down was a bit therapeutic. There is today's blessing.

So sorry for the start to the day. Hoping and praying for everyone that you are all OK and things are bearable and God keeps you all strong and safe in his care.

Sorry for the downer Flowers

Dutchoma · 11/08/2015 08:18

No, don't be sorry for off loading. It is a privilege to share with you on this journey. You will cope, you are coping. You are doing well to stay close to God. When you look back on this time you will see how His hand has guided you all this time. Try and concentrate on the thing nearest at hand, one day at the time. Fill it with love, love for yourself as well. Don't berate yourself by thinking you are 'so selfish'. You are not, you are hurting. My prayers are with you.

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