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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 05/08/2015 12:46

praying for: peter's face

light's new job. hoping it is going well.

silly's df

Dontbesilly · 05/08/2015 18:29

Went to my local church this afternoon, it was so calming and peaceful. I offered prayers for everyone in need of them and gave thanks for the wonderful support in this thread.

I also prayed for a positive oncology appointment tomorrow for my dad. I offered to go with him and mum, but dad wants to go with just mum so they are ringing me afterwards. He is the strong, silent type and he hates fuss.

Prayers for everyone and thinking of you all whatever the difficulties facing you. Praying for strength, peace and faith. Praying Woah's operation, which I think is tomorrow, goes well, and she can start to recover and enjoy her young family.

Thank you all for prayers and support x

Dutchoma · 05/08/2015 21:09

Praying tonight in the first place for WHOA's operation tomorrow. That all may go well and that it may the beginning of a full recovery. Also praying for the oncololgy appointment for Don'tbesilly's dad.
And praying for TUO that she will have a blessed holiday and that a return visit to Iona will be possible tomorrow. I think that the weather has been a bit unpredictable.

An evening prayer:

As our evening prayer rises before you, O God,
so may your Spirit come down upon us
to set us free to sing your praise
for ever and ever.
Amen

LifeOfBriony · 05/08/2015 21:44

Thank you BES. I'm trying to back off but it's hard.

Wishing you well with your tidying - it can be soul destroying when whatever you do doesn't seem to make any inroads.

Praying especially for Woah for her operation and for Don'tbesilly's Dad, and for all on here.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2015 12:04

i managed a bit last night while I put the tea on and have had a lazy morning so getting on with some today. (hopefully)

Dontbesilly · 06/08/2015 13:39

Glad to hear that you have had a productive evening and hoping you enjoyed your morning recharging your batteries. It's just as important to look after yourself as it is to plough on with the things that need doing.

Hoping that the uni situation is going OK and good choices are made in the end.

Got the phone call from my mum following the oncology appointment. There is no chance of surgery without the cancer spreading further, plus it's in the lymph nodes too. Chemo and radiotherapy are next along with positivity, a good diet and lifestyle. He has about a year........I am having a temporary wobble. I actually got really annoyed with a clothes peg that didn't cooperate while I busied myself pegging the washing out waiting for the phone call. Maybe I need to stand in the garden and scream like a banshee and then get back to the housework. I always want to curl up under the duvet when I feel sad like this and feel sorry for myself. I wont on this occasion as I have decided that cancer won't get to my mind and add to the problem at hand.

Hoping everyone is feeling better and not in too much pain and that you feel stronger in yourselves.

I am going to have a cup of tea and some chocolate and walk my dog. I will pray for everyone and hopefully walk off my frustrations at the same time. x

chocolatechip123 · 06/08/2015 13:44

Popped back in (name changed). I have a new job offer and am very scared! It will be a lot of work, more stress (which I don't do very well), more 'brain work' but more money. Can I ask for prayers for strength, clear mind and calm please!

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2015 15:56

so sorry don't you may need to give yourself time to grieve the news, before enjoying the last few months as much as possible. it is really hard.

well, I have picked up stuff and shoved it in the empty cupboard.. (ex's ex wardrobe) it will need sorting out later but the main aim is to get the floor clear to be able to get at the last of ex's stuff in his wardrobe. (then stuff it with more of our stuff. )

anyway the big tidy has begun.

QuietIsland · 06/08/2015 16:02

I haven't posted before but read all your posts and think of you all.

Thinking especially of Woah and her family today. Also thinking and praying for you and your family dontbesilly

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2015 16:11

please pary that ex will take away lots of his stuff on saturday and not throw a strop about it being really difficult to fit in (a whole bloody house for one) (as it is possible that the local population will be put at risk by records flying out of the window like frisbies...

or possibly deafened as I yell that we have stored them for five years and it is tough luck he has to take them.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2015 16:12

offs I have gone all purple

Dontbesilly · 06/08/2015 19:43

Thank you Bes and Quiet. It is really kind of you and I do appreciate your support.

I can't help think that if man can fly past Pluto, surely we can operate on this type of cancer without causing more 'damage'. Then if not, why not? I am angry at the unfairness of it all and what he will miss out on. He has grandchildren that absolutely adore him and he is still young. He can do the eldest grandkids maths homework and the science homework too and geography, he is brilliant on history and general knowledge, and the daft facts like how much methane gas cows release. Then he can do anything. He can fix things when they break, he has an immaculate garden and is an amazing cook, he is obsessive with tidiness and order. He is funny and wise and always there. He can put his foot in it and say the wrong thing and my mum gets all embarrassed and over apologises for him and he can't understand what he did/said. Then I quickly remind myself that, no he won't miss out on anything he will be watching over us all, right there with us, just as he always was. Then I get overwhelmed again. Sorry for the wobble.

Bes hope the stuff goes and you get back some space. You sound like you have made good progress already on the organisation. Five years is a long time to store things especially for someone else too.

Good luck with the new job Chocolate. It sounds exciting and I understand that change can be scary too. I will include you in my prayers.

Hoping everyone else is OK and I am thinking of you all x

PeterSpots · 06/08/2015 20:46

So sorry don't. Thinking of all. Was told today when things are dark & there seems to be no light & prayer is difficult, just say God is good.

Dutchoma · 06/08/2015 20:46

I can so understand your 'wobble', don'tbesilly, to have to lose such a wonderful man is unfair, there's no two ways about it. But he may have longer than you expect, in four years' time you may still have him. Dont lose time grieving before you have to.

Dutchoma · 06/08/2015 20:49

That seems a bit trite Peter. It is true enough that praising God can release a lot of positivity that prayer alone cannot do. But there is a bit more to it than 'just' saying 'God is good'. Did you get any answers yesterday at you appointment about the scan?

QuietIsland · 06/08/2015 21:17

Peter I think that is a lovely saying. People used to say that where I grew up.

Dutchoma · 06/08/2015 21:23

Praying for all in need tonight: For Whoa, for don'tbesilly and her family, for Peterspots, for BES and her decluttering efforts and for Anjelica who has a very challenging weekend coming.
Welcome to Quietisland and welcome back chocolatechip

As TUO had another day of blessing on Iona today I am reposting the prayer of St Columba:

My dearest Lord
be Thou a bright flame before me
be Thou a guiding star above me
be Thou a smooth path beneath me
be Thou a kindly shepherd behind me
tonight and evermore. Amen

QuietIsland · 06/08/2015 21:29

Thank you Dutchoma. What a lovely prayer.

May I confess here that I had no idea that Julian of Norwich was female - I have no idea why I did not know this sooner!

Dutchoma · 06/08/2015 21:51

Oh quietisland what a confession, that made me laugh.

On a more serious note: I have had a message from our darling Zipadisoozi that she had a bulging disc on holiday, spent nine days in hospital and is only just home, high as a kite on painkillers. She will be off work for another ten weeks. Meanwhile her dad has been in hospital with pneumonia. But, she says, we are all ok.

PeterSpots · 06/08/2015 22:03

Oh sorry. I didn't mean to be trite. I meant when you feel overwhelmed & you want to pray but feel so low to went mention God is good will help you til you can gather yourself and pray. Was a difficult day for me yesterday & I used the advise. I have been referred to a pain clinic. I was hoping that I would get an answer but they are looking at a trapped nerve in my pelvis. Thank you for your prayers.

Dutchoma · 06/08/2015 22:37

No, I didn't mean you were being flippant Peter, only if somebody says that to you when you are in deep trouble it somehow doesn't seem to go very far to 'just' say God is good. But I'm glad you found comfort in it.

PeterSpots · 06/08/2015 22:45

Your prayers have given me so much comfort & focus. Thank you for your time, patience & prayers :)

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2015 22:54

there is a difference between the advice from someone like peter, who knows what fecking trouble is like.. and advice from someone whose only trouble amounts to whether they will find a parking space.. {ahem} Blush

my parking space related to getting an autistic and dypraxic children out into heavy traffic on a blind bend oh and I forgot to say I coped. neighbour popped off out (to hospital sadly) for a while while I sorted car and got the heavy case in, and several other bits and bobs, then was able to get the rest over the road.

LifeOfBriony · 07/08/2015 07:33

Thank you to anyone who prayed for my DS and for the supportive messages on here. He has now done what he needed to do. We are both feeling a bit better about it, but still nervous about results day.

Dutchoma · 07/08/2015 07:55

Good to hear that LifeofBriony. Always good to hear of answers to prayers. I'm so often reminded of the healing of the ten lepers and only one came back to thank Jesus - and him a Samaritan. Maybe that was why?