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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 03/08/2015 16:00

off to take mum to her drs. hoping she gets some answers.

EdithSimcox · 03/08/2015 16:02

Hi MHD, yes sometimes it feels exciting and other days just crap. I'm doing something difficult (and a bit boring) at work today which isn't helping my mood and it all seems too hard. But I've been here many times and I know it goes up as well as down. Just need to keep on keeping on I suppose.

My DP is still railing against it, though we get interludes when we can pretend the issue has gone away, and then it comes slamming back and knocks me flat. It's no
wonder my faith is wobbly when it gets knocked about so much. But in some respects our relationship is getting stronger under the pressure - though also at risk of snapping ifswim.

I was very glad to hear about your good holiday and good health; and thanks so much for thinking of me and for your prayers. I will add that book to my list to check out too.

Dutchoma · 03/08/2015 16:07

BES here is hoping that she will be able to understand the answers she gets and that you will have an opportunity to share your concerns with her doctor.

BlackeyedSusan · 03/08/2015 17:57

she has medicine.

it is tough edith. pulled in two directions.

the jungle is less jungle like and nearly filled the wheely bin with jungle. definitly filled it once but as it dries out it makes more room. it is like a magic wheely bin! (miraculous?)

amberlight · 03/08/2015 20:26

Still reading and praying...

Dutchoma · 03/08/2015 21:18

Praying at the end of the day for peaceful sleep, for the calming of our minds and for trust in God.

Anjelica has asked that I thank all who have prayed for her over the past weeks. She values prayer so much and has a tough weekend coming up. She bears all of us up in her daily prayers which happen mainly when she is out walking with the dog.

A prayer from the Northumbria Community:

I am placing my soul and my body in Thy safe keeping this night,
O God,
in Thy safe keeping, O Jesus Christ,
in Thy safe keeping, O Spirit of
perfect truth.
The Three who would defend my cause
by keeping me this night from harm.
Amen

PeterSpots · 04/08/2015 07:25

I know we have challenges but the facial pain I have is getting worse too. I don't know if I can bare it anymore. I ask for strength but the challenge seems to great. Thank you for prayers.

Dutchoma · 04/08/2015 07:49

Praying for you right now Peter that you can manage just for a little while longer in the strength of the Lord.

madhairday · 04/08/2015 08:57

Praying for you now Peter for strength, for easing of pain, for peace. Pain can be so all consuming. Flowers

QofF · 04/08/2015 09:32

Praying peter

Bluetinkerbell · 04/08/2015 10:24

Popping in after a long time, all going well here. Been a year today since we moved down to Kent.
Feeling very settled here :)
DD4 is a bit poorly with high temperature since Saturday, probably because of immunisations.

PeterSpots · 04/08/2015 10:25

Thank you so much for your prayers.

BlackeyedSusan · 04/08/2015 12:23

prayers peter.

I have got to the end of my tether. she has mithered wittered and questioned me for over a week. I stayed yesterday to take her to the gp. she has no idea what she has done to upset me....

I have a child with autism and a child with dyspraxia like behaviour. single parent. this takes up a huge percentage of my emotional reserves. add in the constant questioning about which particular shoes to wear and how many layers and which layers... and what to eat and what to do... and I am spent. I constantly ask to be left alone for a few minutes but she is unable to keep quiet and asks something else, or else goes round talking to herself. she is so negative. everything she says is qualified by a negative statement. she asks for food from the supermarket then accuses me of not going to leave her any food... she has cupboards and freezer full. she keeps thinking I have not cooked her any food for tea. she questions everything. I no longer take her to the supermarket because she asks two or three questions about every item of food I pick up. ( will it fit in the fridge? will it last?) she worries about the shopping bill that it is too much yet worries she does not have enough food. she wants the free labour (shopping, 2 hour trips to dr and supermarkets hours of gardening.) but hates the consequence of feeding us. she gets a shop in weekly but I buy the big stuff and stock up when i come so all she sees is a huge bill. does not realise that a pack of loo roll is £8, for example. she winds ds up and does not know how to handle him. ds winds her up as well.

she will not listen to the polite requests I make. she keeps asking and asking until I lose my temper, then sits there upset.

I am at breaking point today. past breaking point, broken. I could not sleep until three am last night with it all. I am looking forward to getting home but dreading the mess in the flat and starting on that. hopefully ex will not be an idiot and will take his stuff away. i need to drive home, i need to get the children food.

I can not explain how bad mum makes me feel when she does not do anything really outrageous. I guess it is like the chiinese water torture... a constant drip drip of questions, negative statements, implied accusations, ignoring my feelings and wishes.. worries... which she will not be reassured about.

Dontbesilly · 04/08/2015 12:43

Sending my prayers to everyone and for strength too in such difficult times.

My df is due to see another oncologist this Thursday so I am praying for good news in the form of an operation to perhaps remove some of the cancer and then hopefully the chemotherapy and radiotherapy can do their bit too.

We had a lovely day with my parents yesterday which is a blessing, everyone was happy and upbeat and positive which is in itself another miracle.

Thank you all for your prayers and kindness, it really does make a difference and I am so grateful x

BlackeyedSusan · 04/08/2015 17:01

prayers for the oncology appointment.

Finally off home. nearly packed the car. if I get five minute peace I shall walk round and see what I have forgotten.

we have done have you left me enough cheese/chips/milk/bread twenty million questions. no because I went to fucking asda with an autistic boy twice just for bloody fun, what do you bloody think

I have sucessfully identified a ball point pen, two of them, confirming several times.

there are ructions going on in the front yard...

EdithSimcox · 04/08/2015 17:02

Oh BES that sounds so trying and tiring. I read your post earlier but couldn't post, but I prayed for you when I went to church at lunchtime.

Also today particularly for you peter and for everyone else who has asked for prayers recently.

And I thanked God for all the support on this thread, especially for MHD and Oma and of course Tuo.

BlackeyedSusan · 04/08/2015 20:04

thankyou edith.

I am home now. it is a right tip, especially as the holiday stuff has just been put down in the limited space we have.

the great tidy will begin... tomorrow!

Dutchoma · 04/08/2015 20:52

Prayers of thanksgiving for the safe return of BES, prayers that she may get on top of the inevitable clutter at the end of the holiday.
Praying for Peterspots and her appointment tomorrow, praying for Don'tbesilly's dad and the appointment with the oncologist on Thursday, again prayers of thanksgiving for a good day with the family.

As our evening prayer rises before you, O God,
so may your mercy come down upon us
to cleanse our hearts
and set us free to sing your praise
now and for ever.
Amen

(Source unknown)

Lightnessofbeing2015 · 04/08/2015 23:53

Starting a new job tomorrow so praying for patience and skill.
Praying also for Peter and BES

BlackeyedSusan · 05/08/2015 00:04

praying for calmness of nerves and clear thinking light

well i have put the food away in the fridge and freezer, wiping out the fridge as I went. (well three shelves)

Dutchoma · 05/08/2015 07:17

Hope all goes well with the new job Lightnessofbeing Praying also again for Peterspots's appointment.

Tuo · 05/08/2015 07:23

Reading and praying. Especially for those struggling at the moment. May they - and all of us - feel God's reassuring closeness today.

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LifeOfBriony · 05/08/2015 07:55

Please can I ask for prayers for my DS who has a great opportunity re his potential university place but cannot see what a great opportunity it is. He needs to take a particular action now but won't; he will not listen to me and does not realise that nextk week will be too late for this particular thing.

I know he is of an age when he is making his own decisions but I am finding his behaviour so frustrating.

I realise this is minor compared to most on here, but in terms of my DS's life it is a pivotal point.

Thank you.

PeterSpots · 05/08/2015 09:09

Saying prayers for all. Feeling closer to God by reading your words.

BlackeyedSusan · 05/08/2015 10:31

HOping that you do not get too stresses about the uni thing. he might have to learn from his mistakes, hard though that is.

some people do well with reminders, some get pissed off and cut off their nose to spite their faces... good luck with deciding which is the best approach.

well the great tidy is about to begin. I need motivation, energy, clear thinking and persistence... all of which I am lacking this morning. it all looks so overwhelming that I may take the pottering approach and see where I land up! usually when I have done something, anything, then the rest follows a bit quicker.

fed up of faling over stuff inthe kitchen so going to sort some of that out.