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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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chocolateyay · 25/06/2015 08:08

Oh chicken, that's dreadful. Who's on your side to support you?

Dutchoma · 25/06/2015 08:18

Of course I will pray for you CFP but you might also get some more support if you post in Relationships under 'support for people who are emotionally abused' (or somesuch. Have you been in touch with Women's Aid (you will find their number at the beginning of every new thread). You may very well find some very sensible advice there and I know that some people on there are Christians.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/06/2015 09:59

(hugs chickenpox)

need the V5 urgently now. arse. pretty sure it is not in the kitchen. need to turn the living room upside down and make more mess search the living room now. arse. again.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/06/2015 13:40

eureka!

BlackeyedSusan · 25/06/2015 13:48

and the car tax is paid.

and the bloody receipt, V5 and reminder notice have been filed in the correct place.

chickenfuckingpox · 25/06/2015 13:55

ive posted most places my support is my friend my dad and umm that's it womans aid have been wonderful they think my social worker is treating me badly ive complained about her and all its done is made her venomous towards me instead of merely disliking me Sad i never thought my life could come to this im one of the most inoffensive people around i help when i can although im not perfect my life has gone down the toilet

KayKat · 25/06/2015 17:10

Sounds like you're at the end of your tether with it all chicken and not surprising it all sounds dreadful. I shall certainly pray for your meeting. All I can suggest is that at the meeting you make it very clear that you have no intention of ever taking him back. If possible go no contact with him. Don't answer his calls and return his post to whoever sent it.

chickenfuckingpox · 25/06/2015 17:25

thank you xx

Tuo · 26/06/2015 01:28

Computer is having a tantrum and refusing to talk to me, so forgive brevity.

I'm praying, chicken. Your situation sounds very difficult and I pray that you find strength and support to help you through it.

Also praying for FLaH and for all affected by her STB FIL'S illness. Thinking especially of DSS, who's probably quite confused by what is going on.

Also continuing to pray for Kay and her D'S.

And thinking of all who post on the thread and/or who read and lurk.

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KayKat · 26/06/2015 07:33

Thank you Tuo. It took him half the week to start talking to me and be normal again now it's nearly the weekend and he will see his dad again so will probably have to deal with the same again for a few days when he gets back.

Pandora37 · 26/06/2015 08:36

I'm so sorry chicken, I'll be praying for you.

I feel pretty selfish asking for prayers but I'm going to (hope nobody minds me jumping in here). I have someone close to me who has committed a very serious offence - I don't know if he'll go to prison or not but he's going to be sentenced in a few weeks and the closer the date gets, the more anxious I feel. Firstly, because it's going to be reported - I'll get to read the full details, the entire world will get to read it and I can't stand the thought of it. Even though I know it's what he deserves but I feel protective of him at the same time. But then that makes me feel bad - how can I love someone so much who's done this? Can't help feeling that must reflect badly on me as a person. I feel sick about what he's done and I have nightmares about it a lot. Sometimes it makes me cry thinking about it but I cry for him as well. I've spent so long searching for answers as to why he did it, I wish I could be one of these people who can cut people out of my life easily. But I know he's suffering as well and it feels wrong to walk away from him. I also work with someone he knows and I'm dreading going there once she finds out about this, especially if she knows I haven't cut him out. I expect I'll be facing a lot of judgement.

All of this is really stressing me out, I'm massively behind in my degree work and am going to miss a deadline so will probably fail. My old anorexic thought patterns are coming back. Sorry this is very whiny but just feel like I've made a complete mess of my life. I know if he goes to prison I'll worry about him a lot. I don't expect anyone to pray for a criminal but prayers for me to get through this would be much appreciated.

Dutchoma · 26/06/2015 08:52

Pandora but that is exactly what we do: Pray for the criminal. You are spot on in your feelings. Because when all is said and done, we are all 'criminals' in the sight of God, we all need the forgiveness of the Lord. No, nobody is condoning the crime he has done, you are not either. People may well misunderstand this, but any Christian of any maturity will understand where you are coming from. Try to center your thoughts on Jesus Christ Who loves both you and him and walk in His ways. May your way be in the light of His countenance.

Pandora37 · 26/06/2015 10:34

Thanks Dutchoma. I understand what you're saying but are there crimes that are so abhorrent that they're not worth praying for? I don't know. I know that sounds callous but it's been very hard for me to weigh up what he's done against the person I know.

madhairday · 26/06/2015 10:52

Praying for you, chicken and pandora and also for KayKat and FLaH Flowers

Packing for scout family camp and hoping it stops raining.

Dutchoma · 26/06/2015 11:15

Pandora, no, I believe there are not. 'The vilest offender who truly believes, that moment from Jesus a pardon receives'. There were two other people on the cross with Jesus. They were 'vile offenders' as is the person you care about. One got the promise of being in paradise with Jesus, the other died unforgiven. So you need to pray for 'true belief' and repentance for 'vile' sinners, which is all of us. We all fall short of the glory of God, to God there is not 'big' sin or 'little' sin, all sin is abhorrent to Him and needs to be cleansed by the blood, the sacrifice of Jesus. No one is beyond redemtion.

Notapassingphase · 26/06/2015 16:17

Praying for you and him Pandora, and for chicken, and FLah, and Kay and Elderflowerlemonade.

Feeling immensely self-obsessed and still stressed over my marriage problems and my faith; coming here is good, encourages me to think of and pray for others, especially those with problems far greater than mine.

Pandora37 · 26/06/2015 18:50

Dutchoma wasn't the man who accepted Jesus on the cross a thief? I wouldn't call that a vile offence, of course it's bad but in terms of some of the horrible things humans have done throughout history, stealing seems pretty minor.

Thank you madhairday and passing, I appreciate it. I hope you're able to sort out your marriage problems.

Dutchoma · 26/06/2015 20:24

Pandora the man on the cross is variously described as 'robber', 'thief' or 'rebel'. But that is not the point, the point is that we have 'all sinned and fall short of the glory of God' (Romans 3:23). So whether we pinch a pencil out of the stationery cupboard at the office or are a mass murderer (or anything in between) we are imperfect and God cannot accept us. That is why Jesus had to come and die for us on the cross, so that we could be forgiven, a forgiveness we all need.
So try to get your head around the mercy and the love of God, it is pretty mind blowing stuff, but it is absolutely true.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/06/2015 21:57

david was a murderer, (sent the husband of the women he committed adultery with to be killed in war) paul stood by as christians were murdered. both were forgiven.

well I am supposed to be at mothers but it was all a bit much and packing did not happen in time. going up tomorrow.

QofF · 27/06/2015 08:31

reading through and praying for you all

Pandora37 · 27/06/2015 11:07

Dutchoma I don't agree that all sins are on the same level - I'm not sure about the whole concept of sin, to be honest. I think of myself as loosely Christian but I know I don't share many of the beliefs of traditional Christianity. It's an interesting discussion though.

Dutchoma · 27/06/2015 11:17

Since this is purely a thread for prayer and mutual support I shall not answer that comment here. If you would like to start a discussion about the gradations of sin you might like to start a new thread on the topic. I'm sure there are a number of people who would engage with you on that.
In the meantime I pray that you may find some peace of mind in a very difficult situation and would encourage you to keep praying for the person you care about.

Pandora37 · 27/06/2015 13:00

Yes you're right, I'm sorry for going off topic. And thank you, I will pray for him, as well as all of the people who have been effected by what he's done.

SESthebrave · 28/06/2015 20:25

Pandora - if you do start another thread, do link to it on here. All I would add here is that I like the phrase "Love the sinner, hate the sin". Absolutely right to feel compassion for the sinner, no matter what that sin is. Prayers for you and your friend.

Chicken - I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through but prayers for the situation and upcoming meetings.

*Notapassingphase" - prayers that you will feel God's presence in your life and for your marriage problems

MHD - hope the scout camp went well?

Kay - is DS back from his weekend with xh? Prayers that he will see the truth of the situation

Here, things are ticking along ok although today have had a series of bits of bad news. SIL's MIL passed away early this morning. They'd all been at her son's 30th birthday celebrating and then she was rushed to hospital in the early hours and sufferred a massive brain haemorrage and stroke and never recovered :(
Then this evening my mum phoned me to say her sister has been diagnosed with breast cancer and is having surgery on 14th (hopefully just a lumpectomy) followed by radiotherapy.
Finally please pray for my neighbour. I took her to A&E last night as she had a nosebleed that wouldn't stop. She was there until this morning as they tried to get her blood pressure down. She is a lovely lady in her 70s but has a son who is mentally ill and lives with her. He is very loving towards her but suffers episodes where he shouts at himself and gets really cross which can't be easy for her.

Dutchoma · 28/06/2015 20:38

Yes please Pandora do link to this thread if you start a new thread somewhere else.

That's a lot to cope with SES and all very sudden, especially the death of your SIL's MIL. Also a big shock about your aunt, hopefully it will have been caught early and the treatment is not too drastic. And hopefully your neighbour is home again and able to look after ther son. Such a difficult situation.

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