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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
Dutchoma · 23/06/2015 09:55

Have a lovely day Soozi BOING

ZipadiSoozi · 23/06/2015 16:14

Haha, all the best made plans! Everything cancelled, trapped a nerve in my back travelling to buttox and down my leg! so sat sitting doing nothing! (Albeit painful)

Dutchoma · 23/06/2015 16:48

Can't even knit? Oh Soozi. So much for BOING. Really sorry

ZipadiSoozi · 23/06/2015 17:33

Gets better, dh and ds1 gone golfing and the washing machine pipe doesn't seem to be attached, lovely flooded kitchen so while I am in agony mopping the floor! Looking forward to knitting DO sounds a lovely distraction! My spirits are still high, I cannot be beaten, but if you could see the kitchen, having to do 5 mins then rest 5 mins then rest!

Mrs Mop on to it!!!!

KayKat · 23/06/2015 17:42

Yes my ex knows its harmful and he doesn't care. DS is just a means to an end, a way to try to manipulate me. DS isn't talking to me at the moment apart from the odd occasion when he forgets that he's is supposed to hate me. There really is nothing I can do except ride out the storm and hope that one day when he's older he will like me. This has been going on for months now. We just had it a little bit easier because he didn't see his dad for months. Now seeing him regularly again.

ZipadiSoozi · 23/06/2015 18:27

Kay, Prayers for you, ds is obviously hurting very much, maybe it's the only way he knows how to control the situation, hope it passes soon, have you any other family, is he ok with them, is he nice to you in front of them, just thought if he can control his upset in front of other people, then at least that's a start. X

KayKat · 23/06/2015 20:24

Yes I have a lot of supportive family who my DS loved but recently his dad has criticised them a lot and made it obvious that he disapproves of him seeng them so he is now often reluctant to see them.

amberlight · 23/06/2015 21:37

Reading through and keeping prayers going for all

PeterSpots · 23/06/2015 22:50

Please pray for me. I am struggling with the addition of the pelvic pain on top of the other physical problems that have been since January. I'm struggling with life and work. Visiting gynaecologist tomorrow so I pray for patience and guidance & all those who need support

Dutchoma · 23/06/2015 23:13

Reaching out to you PeterSpots and praying for sleep in the night.

Notapassingphase · 24/06/2015 00:07

but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Isaiah 40:31 NIV
Verse of the day from Bible Gateway; apt for several of us I thought.

Tuo · 24/06/2015 00:44

Wonderful, hopeful words, NAPP.

Praying tonight for Peter; for relief from pain and restorative sleep.

Also praying for Soozi; that sounds painful (the back and the flood) on so many levels.

And praying for Kay and for her DS; it's awful that he's being manipulated to this extent, and I pray that he may come to understand the truth about his dad eventually; in the meantime, I'm praying for strength, patience, and hope in your life, Kay.

I wanted to add prayers for two posters from other threads who could do with being remembered here tonight: ElderflowerLemonade and DrudgeWithAGrudge.

May God bless all who visit this thread tonight and in the days to come.

OP posts:
chocolateyay · 24/06/2015 07:32

I'm needing a hand hold for work today. Messing with my contract and I feel quite helpless and frustrated. And teary!

ZipadiSoozi · 24/06/2015 08:40

Peter, prayers for your pain to subside, pain is so frustrating and debilitating, [flowers[

Chocolate, horrible situation, why do people have to cock things up like that! Prayers your situation improves quickly.

Hoorah, trapped nerve untrapped, just sore now, at least I can go to work!

Prayers for everyone to have a smooth day, all aches and pains subside, hope the warmth of the sunshine will lift our spirits and minds to a tranquil end of day.

BOING! trying to be positive

ZipadiSoozi · 24/06/2015 08:41

And hope my typing improves Grin

ZipadiSoozi · 24/06/2015 08:44

Sorry me again, just a quick thank you God, my washing machine wasn't broken, the pipe had somehow worked its way loose! Relief!!!!! And mopping untrapped my trapped nerve in back! Hehe, got to be good!

BlackeyedSusan · 24/06/2015 13:22

glad that the machine is still working. hope it all gets connected up securely again.

I can't see the kitchen floor. I moved something and the stuff collapsed. poking about through it and cleaning up stuff and recycling loads of papers from school. there is less stuff on the floor, just it is now spread out. Hmm

been reading through and ripping up receipts as well which is time consuming but necessary. I am hoping it is getting better rather than just shifting stuff about.

still no sign of the V5.

BlackeyedSusan · 24/06/2015 13:23

hoping work contracts are sorted too.

chocolateyay · 24/06/2015 14:25

Hmmm 'sorted' - but not in my favour! Days slashed to bare bones. Just was we were about catching up. Ouch!

madhairday · 24/06/2015 15:56

Afternoon all. Quickly popping in to add prayers...

FaithLoveandHope · 24/06/2015 17:44

Hi All, Sorry I haven't been around much, things have been pretty busy here. Exam season is well and truly over with results flooding in. I had a few exams myself, all of which I did well on so I'm pleased with the results. From an academic point of view, things are going really well. From a personal point of view, things are not so great. STB-FIL is getting worse, chemo is no longer working and he's deteriorating quite rapidly. I don't know an exact prognosis but it's not looking good. DP isn't handling it well at all (though better than I think I would if it were the other way around) and seems to be in tears a lot. I don't know how best to support him as I've never been very good at dealing with death. Also deeply worried about how DSS (5) will take it. All we can do is hope and pray that God will continue to be there for us all when the inevitable happens.

Praying through as I catch up with the thread.

Dutchoma · 24/06/2015 19:09

God will be there for you all, when all else falls away God is left and He will never leave you.

FaithLoveandHope · 24/06/2015 22:12

Thanks Oma It doesn't feel like it at the moment. I just feel really down about everything and have recently had my anti-depressants increasing which is giving me negative side effects. I feel like God is nowhere to be found right now.

Dutchoma · 25/06/2015 07:26

'Believe your beliefs and doubt your doubts'. And: 'Never doubt in the dark what God told you in the light' and 'God is nowhere' can also read 'God is now here'.
Three things that may sound trite and cliiche but they are something that I hold on to in the dark times and I am therefore sharing them here.
I call it 'strap hanging faith': hold on tight to what you know, however rocky the ride.

chickenfuckingpox · 25/06/2015 07:51

ok so last year my husband got arrested for abusing my daughter she then retracted the allegation social services got involved and escalated to the point where they are threatening to remove my children ive not got back with my ex ive protected my children ive complied with there every request my social worker hates me my sons school hates me ive no support from my family they even lied to ss and told them that they "knew" he had a thing for young girls and had a family meeting about it deciding he couldnt be around my cousins children (not true according to my aunt) the social worker has not done her job and this has been addressed by conference (which she then ignored)

im lost alone and trying to parent three children one is very angry and told ss i said he shouldn't say things to them (again untrue and his dad admitted he had said that to him) his family have got involved and are making malicious reports to the social worker claiming he is back living with me (he is not)

she claims im being groomed by him and will do anything for him she feels im a victim of domestic violence however she sends his post to my address and forces me to contact him

this week i had a PLO letter (pre proceedings letter) she threw them through my letter box with no explanation i got upset and despite trying to keep my son away while i rang my friend for support he heard something and told the school he was upset he might not be living with me soon ss told me off for telling my 15 year old about the meeting i told them she was old enough to know about it as non compliance is one of the allegations and she is not complying with them they told me off again for talking where my son could here but i needed support i put him at one end of the house while i talked in the other he kept on following and eavesdropping my dd kept removing him what was i supposed to do just sit there and cry i told them i finish my conversations when he walks in the room i have even had to stop talking to woman's aid when he is around as even though all i say is yes and no he still gets upset he told the school he wants his dad home that is my fault too apparently

my ex is a controlling person he is emotionally abusive i was trying to be amicable for the sake of the children but he wants me back and wont accept its over he rang me thirty times in an hour the social worker says its fine for him to have supervised contact with his children still despite this she wont even allow me to move house despite knowing he drives past my house and even parks by it so people think he is here

i dont want to lose my children i need strength and hope ive had so much against me why cant i just win through once

any chance of a prayer or two? the plo is next Tuesday morning im not sleeping at all i feel so helpless