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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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SESthebrave · 28/06/2015 20:46

Thanks DO

How are things with you?

Tuo · 29/06/2015 01:05

Have been away for a few days and there is a lot to pray about here...

chicken - praying for you in your very difficult situation and for all those affected, especially your DC. Praying that you find RL support now when you most need it.

Kay - praying for you and for your DS, especially now after contact with your ex. Praying for peace and love in your relationship - and for you to be able to recognise the love that is there even when your DS isn't able to express it (or when what he actively expresses is the exact opposite).

Pandora - you are very welcome here, and you are in my prayers. Your situation sounds very tough and I am praying for peace for you in it somewhere. Please talk to your personal tutor (or equivalent) about your degree work. They can find ways to support you, and missing a deadline because of something like the situation you outline will not make you fail. Also please seek help with the eating disorder if you feel that coming back - you are going to need all your (physical, as well as mental) strength.

MHD - hope the camp went well. How are you atm, health-wise? Thinking of you, and praying.

NAPP - praying for your marriage issues.

FLAH - continuing to pray for you, your DP, your DSS and your FIL.

SES - gosh what a lot of stuff for you to be dealing with. Praying for your SIL's MIL, your aunt, and your neighbour (as well as her son).

Oma - how are you? Prayers for you too, and for BES, and all who visit this thread, regularly or occasionally, whether or not they post, and whether or not they (think they) believe...

Finally praying for all those affected by terrorist attacks in the last few days: in France, in Kuwait, and in Tunisia. Thinking in particular of all those who have lost loved ones, and of those working to help the bereaved and injured.

God, our refuge and strength,
bring near the day when wars shall cease
and poverty and pain shall end,
that earth may know the peace of heaven
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

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BlackeyedSusan · 29/06/2015 14:38

i am very sleepy. need to get on with clearing up after yesterday but feel like all the energy has been sucked out of me.

madhairday · 29/06/2015 18:20

It's the heat, BES! Feeling the same here, like I'm leaden with no energy whatsoever. May also be something to do with late nights around the campfire at scout camp - which was great. :)

Prayers for you all. I must get on here more and do some more intentional praying. I haven't been brilliant at this lately. Oddly enough, the better I am physically the less praying I do. Doesn't seem quite right - but there's something there about God's strength in our weakness, isn't there. I need to learn to rely on him and pray through the good times. My health isOK. Not fab, and fairly ropey in the heat but very OK. Which is good, and I'm busy, but I may forget more important stuff.

Praying for all those affected by these awful tragedies.

Compassionate God and Father of all,
we are horrified at violence
in so many parts of the world.
It seems that none are safe, and some are terrified.

Hold back the hands that kill and maim;
turn around the hearts that hate.
Grant instead your strong Spirit of Peace -
peace that passes our understanding
but changes lives,
through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen

PositiveAttitude · 29/06/2015 18:40

I am still here, still praying far more often than I post. Feeling a bit as if I am drowning under the amounts of things I need to do. So many plates to keep spinning.

SquarePeggyLou · 29/06/2015 19:40

I'm reading and trying to pray as well but all I want to do is curl up in a ball and cry but I can't in front of the children.

Dutchoma · 29/06/2015 20:30

What's the matter, dear PeggyLou?

BlackeyedSusan · 30/06/2015 07:26

aghhh... there is an 8 for uv today. pale skinned people are going to struggle... eek.

madhairday · 30/06/2015 09:36

I am Bad Mum. I forgot to put suncream on the dc Blush

Praying for you, Peggy. Is there anything we can help with? We can listen Flowers

BlackeyedSusan · 30/06/2015 14:50

I have to go and fetch the dc's and hang about for an hour for sport to finish. It is too hot to be hanging about for sport.

SquarePeggyLou · 30/06/2015 18:36

I don't know, just everything seems like too much of a battle at times. I feel ill all day every day but there is no solution for it and I just have to live with it.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 30/06/2015 20:35

Hello you lot

Bless you TUO for still including me. Life is indeed manic these days. My hours at work are now longer and the kids have too many extra curricular activities. I'm going back to college one day a week in Sept and DD is having such a tough time at school I'm considering moving her. So it's all go.

Big conference on Friday for the course I help on, so prayers it goes smoothly would be extra extra fab

KayKat · 01/07/2015 08:16

Wednesday already and no improvement with DS. He barely speaks to me and if he does he is grumpy. Even the simplest of day to day tasks are a battle. He is angry about his dad's version of the outcome of the divorce and how favourable it is for me. He says he has plans to live with his dad but I don't know when or how that would be practical because his dad is renting a room somewhere in the uk in a location that he keeps secret from me and working full time and he likes a full social life I don't think he wants a teenager with him. It's exhausting living with someone who dislikes me so much.

PositiveAttitude · 01/07/2015 13:15

DD2's court case starts this afternoon. If anyone sees this please pray for peace for her and justice to be done. And pray for her to be able to move on in life when this is over.

Tuo · 01/07/2015 13:17

Praying PA.

Also for Kay and for Peggy and for Momey. More when not typing on phone.

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SquarePeggyLou · 01/07/2015 14:09

Praying PA.
Kay, it's the same here, I am hated by both my DCs who tell me I am pathetic and unreasonable on a good day. Both of them hate it here and never want to come home.

KayKat · 01/07/2015 20:15

How old are they Peggy? Are you separated/divorced as well?

LifeOfBriony · 01/07/2015 22:17

I haven't been on this thread or on MN very much lately as RL has been very busy, mostly in good ways.

I am almost afraid to say that things between DH and me have been improving, but we are a long way from right. DS has finished his exams now so we can forget about that for a few weeks.

I am going away soon for a few days with extended family - it does seem strange not going with DH, DS or DD, but it has been arranged for a while and it is important to my family. While packing I have been remembering good holidays with DH and the DCs, but feel sad that things will never be the same again.

I am going to read through the recent posts, catch up a bit and pray as appropriate.

EdithSimcox · 02/07/2015 07:42

Reading through and praying for you all.

I am so tired and drained. DP is still talking of leaving me if I carry on with this God nonsense. Almost every day there's another long exhausting and unresolvable conversation. It's really hard.

Sorry for the name change (again), some of you will work it out. I'll try and keep this one.

BlackeyedSusan · 02/07/2015 10:32

hey, nice to see you again edith. sorry it is still difficult.

FaithLoveandHope · 02/07/2015 18:06

Hope things improve soon for you Edith. Sorry to hear things are still difficult with your DP. Praying for you.

stb FIL got rushed into hospital at the weekend, very worrying. Finally he has been let home. Not sure what was wrong really, think he may have picked up some sort of infection. I've very little experience with cancer so it's all quite new and scary to me, I'm guessing this won't be the last time he gets rushed into hospital over the next few weeks.

mhd that's a lovely prayer you posted on Monday.

Kay things sound incredibly tough for you at the moment. I know it must be so hard at the moment, but I suspect DS is just lashing out at the parent who cares the most and he feels most secure with. Praying things get easier for you soon.

Also praying for those with DCs struggling with mental health, seems to have gone quiet on that front lately (unless I've missed it), hope that's a sign of things improving.

I'm trying to make a poster for a conference soon and keep procrastinating. Must try to get back to it and finish it.

EdithSimcox · 02/07/2015 21:28

Hi BES - sounds like you still have your work cut out running around after everyone. Hope your health is ok?

and FLaH - praying for you and stb-FIL and your whole family; it must be a really hard time for you

PA - praying for you and for DD2. How is it going?

Kay and Peggy - it must be so hard for you to live with that negativity all the time, praying for you and for your DC

EdithSimcox · 03/07/2015 00:03

Sorry I didn't mean to end there - had to close the browser fast!

My prayer for us all tonight is that those things that complicate our lives may become uncomplicated, and that God gives us the strength to cope with the challenges in the meantime.

KayKat · 03/07/2015 01:18

The whole week I've had nothing but either not talking or telling me he hates me and that its hell living with me and he would rather live anywhere than with me. I feel like running away myself. I'm hoping his dad can take him for a week to give me a break. Not ideal since his dad is the one who encouraged him to dislike me. But he has told me many times that he is happier with his dad and if thats true I'd rather he was happy.

PositiveAttitude · 03/07/2015 10:14

Thank you for the prayers Tuo, Peggy & Edith DD2 has done her bit in court. The verdict should be announced middle of next week - although there seems to be a lot of procrastination going on from the other side, so I am not holding my breath! I am pleased that the part DD2 was most dreading is now over. Now just praying for justice to be done and DD to be able to put all of this behind her. The sexual attack happened well over 2 years ago and has been dragging on since then.

DH's last day at work today

Welcome back Edith Praying that you find peace for your continuing life journey and that you and DP work through your difference of opinions.

Kay prayers for you and DS. Maybe it would be better for you to have some time alone, away from the stress that DS is causing you. I know it is far from ideal for DS to go to his dad's - prayers for you to make the right decision for you.

Prayers for everyone on here.