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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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QofF · 08/02/2015 21:24

Oh niminy not easy! In my prayers.
Ninety nine good to see you back and glad some progress is being made

FaithLoveandGrace · 08/02/2015 23:07

Don't know what's going on atm but DP and I are constantly arguing. His response is always "well let's not bother getting married then" :'(

Tuo · 08/02/2015 23:17

Welcome back, ninetynineonehundred! It's good to see you. Praying for you and for your marriage tonight. I like that image of untangling a thread very much. When you are all knotted up inside a situation like that it can feel as if it's going nowhere, but sometimes all the going round and round in circles is just a prelude to the whole thing coming right in the end. I hope and pray that this is the case for you.

QoF - I think that it's really normal to have a sort of delayed reaction to a horrible situation such as the one you've been through. So you kind of grit your teeth and get through the worst of it, and then when it starts to look as if things are going to be OK you kind of relax your grip on yourself somehow and feel as if you're going to crumble under the strain of all the held-in emotion. Not sure that helps, but knowing that it's a normal reaction can be reassuring. Do you have access to any kind of couples counselling or similar? I am praying that things will continue to improve for you generally, and that you will feel better in yourself soon too. Praying for strength and hope and love and joy in your life, this week and on into the future.

ALittleFaith - I am praying that the ADs will make a real difference to how you feel very soon, and that the course you're on, which sounds great, will also be really positive for you. Also praying for your health, and keeping your dad in my prayers. And praying for the family of Emily - what a tragic situation. Sad

Cloutie - praying for your church situation; I have no advice, never having been in that situation, but I know that I got put off going back to church for quite a long time by hearing things I really wasn't comfortable with on the odd occasion when I did go (when my DDs had a Brownies thing on there or something). All I can say is that, for me, when it was right I knew that it was right straight away. Praying for wisdom and support for you as you decide what to do next.

FLaG - you sound happier. Good to hear you sounding positive about work. Long may it continue! Prayers for your continued positivity.

And niminy, that sounds so hard. I am praying for wisdom, strength and love for you and for your whole family. Praying, too, for a restful night for all of you (DS1 included), and that things will look more positive in the light of morning.

This is one of the Northumbria Community's readings for today, and I leave it with the prayer that whatever difficulties we may have, whatever sadnesses we may be burdened with, and however hopeless we may feel, we may take comfort in the knowledge that nothing can separate us from the love God:

'For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.' (Romans 8:38-39)

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Tuo · 08/02/2015 23:19

AAARGH! Cross-posted with FLaG - that doesn't sound positive... I was referring back to your previous post about work. I'm sorry that things are tough with DP. Praying for a better - more peaceful - week ahead.

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FaithLoveandGrace · 08/02/2015 23:22

Don't worry Tuo. I figured you meant my previous post :)

Thank you. Things are more positive generally but DP and I are just arguing so much. I hate his instant response is to just say let's not bother or let's not get married. It makes me feel like maybe there's a part of him that just doesn't want to get married but he doesn't want to actually say it when things are calm :'(

Tuo · 08/02/2015 23:36

Hmm... I would say that he's more likely to be sincere when he's calm and to say things that he might later regret in the heat of an argument. Hoping you have a good week and that this turns out to be just one of those phases which I'm sure we all have. [Tuo contemplates how tetchy she was with DH earlier tonight] [Tuo feels a bit guilty Blush ]

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FaithLoveandGrace · 08/02/2015 23:41

Thanks Tuo I hope you're right.

niminypiminy · 09/02/2015 08:01

Echoing Tuo's prayers, and praying for all of us in our different situations.

Love that passage, Tuo's.

amberlight · 09/02/2015 12:47

Prayers aplenty for all as I'm reading through, and especially for youngsters in meltdowns and frazzled folk trying to get them settled.

madhairday · 09/02/2015 13:39

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Faith - prayers for her and her family at this awful time.

Hello niminy - prayers assured. That sounds really, really tough for you. Brew Cake Flowers

Prayers for all those struggling at the moment - QoF, innerstrength, kaykat, FLaG and everyone else. Prayers for cloutie in her church situation and prayers of thanks for PA in her work situation. Prayers for Tuo and dd2, for Bes and Oma and Amber, and love to all.

Thankyou so, so much for your prayers for my dh, it felt like a real rock bottom time. Not better by any means but things have shifted a bit. I have a poorly chest today so taking it easy but a bit frustrated with that really.

BlackeyedSusan · 09/02/2015 14:55

thanks amber, it has been melt down central this weekend. surprising the ceilings haven't fallen down.

amberlight · 09/02/2015 17:28

BES, yup - mine's been really struggling in the lead-up to half term also (and he's one of the teaching staff now...!). Think lots of them are totally exhausted at this point in later winter. Worth experimenting with wraparound sunglasses and/or noise cancelling headphones if they will tolerate it, to see if that takes some of the sensory load off. May work.

PositiveAttitude · 09/02/2015 18:29

Just had a good catch up and a pray through as I read.

I have come to share some lovely news (please dont mention specifics if anyone sees my facebook status). After about 4 years of suffering terribly with depression I have just received the following text from DD1 : "Mum, I am happy! Smile I just am. I have friends for the first time in ages. I have just felt that happy feeling." So many prayers have gone into this. It might seem silly and tiny, but to me this is HUGE and I am sat here in tears.

Please can you also pray for a church leaders meeting we are having tomorrow evening which has the potential to be rather explosive! Praying for the right outcome and an end to frustrations and people ignoring issues.

Anjelica27 · 09/02/2015 19:15

Praying for your friend Faith at such a difficult time. Thinking of you too.
PositiveAttitude, that is amazing, I can only imagine how thankful you are - I pray for something similar for my own ds. He continues to be calm but is still refusing to talk to any of the doctors who would help him. It breaks my heart to see him so sad and lost. Every night I say my prayers asking for some guidance to help him and for the strength to do so, am just so tired. Holding my breath too, waiting for the next crisis - without any professional input it's bound to happen at some point. Thanks for listening x

QofF · 09/02/2015 19:40

PA that is fantastic! So pleased for you. Anjelica praying for the same for you and your son.

NotChimpandZeeagain · 09/02/2015 19:44

Please could anybody pray for my ds2. Dh has taken ds1 to see my in laws again, but mil has very little interest in seeing ds2. Long story, but he is like me personalitywise and my name is mud. Please give me wisdom to know what to do and how to help ds2. At least they haven't told him that is the plan tonight!

Dutchoma · 09/02/2015 20:00

That's 5 darling sons to pray for:
Niminy's for calm and co-operation
BES's for a cessation of melt downs and for strength in the ceilings.
Amber's for strength to make it to the end of the half term
Anjelica's for an opening of his mind so he will talk to someone who can help him
NotChimpanzeeAgain's for fair treatment by his grandmother.
For wisdom and strength for all the mums and the grace of God to carry on.

Giving thanks for PA's daughter's news, long may it last. Also praying for her meeting tomorrow.

madhairday · 09/02/2015 21:25

Amen, Oma.

PA - that's so so lovely. Praying for your meeting tomorrow too

Praying for your ds Anjelica.

Feeling rubbish and come to bed. Chest in so much pain - gah. Had been doing well that year.

innerstrength100 · 09/02/2015 22:02

Hang on in there QofF. Sorry you feel so low at the moment. Just hold onto the thought that no feeling, and no situation, lasts forever. This too shall pass.

Ok here Thank you. Have made huge leaps forward in the past month. I still have my moments, and still need a lot of quiet time to reflect - still feel like I have not fully processed what has happened. But I can cope with it now. I still feel utterly betrayed, but I am happy and I am strong.

Anjelica27 · 09/02/2015 22:34

Dos went out tonight, came back very distressed. Home and safe but don't know where to ask for help. Tried talking to family which was no help. Just sitting, waiting and praying. Never thought I'd be doing this

RabbitsarenotHares · 09/02/2015 23:27

Ok, this is cheeky and pathetic as I don't believe, and am asking for a prayer for a non-human. But I'm worried I've hurt my wee pet and probably won't be able to get him to the vets for a few days as they're busy and won't see it ASAP emergency, so he'll be in pain for a few days. There's another possibility, which means his 'injury' was nothing to do with me, but his outlook would be worse.

I feel sick. (And will probably feel embarrassed in the morning when I realise I really have posted this. Apologies.)

Dutchoma · 10/02/2015 07:08

Oh my dear, in no way are you pathetic. You are just a wee soul in distress and you come to a loving heavenly Father, your only resource. You have done very well and need feeel no embarrassment. I hope my prayer for your pet achieves what you hope for, but even if not, know that God, whether you believe in Him or not, loves you and wants you to know Him more.

NotChimpandZeeagain · 10/02/2015 07:11

Don't feel embarrassed, Rabbits. I will pray for your little animal and for peace of mind for you if that is alright. If not, I send you good wishes. Thinking of you this morning.

BlackeyedSusan · 10/02/2015 07:39

oh poor, poor neighbours. there was a phase of some nocturnal stamping going on. I am slightly crooked this morning... a night fitting round a small boy, he is a very effective hot water bottle though.

QofF · 10/02/2015 07:43

Thanks inner. I will hold onto that thought. You seem to be doing amazingly well now all things considered. so good to hear.
anjelica did ds talk at all? Do you know if anything triggered his distress? Am praying for you daily, for healing for your ds and peace of mind for you.
rabbits no need for embarrassment and of course will pray for you and your pet.
mhd sorry to hear your chest is bad. I hope the pain has eased and that it doesn't last long. Glad that things have shifted a bit with your DH's situation. Hope he is less down about things.
oma love your summary regarding darling sons to pray for. Amen to that.