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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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FaithLoveandHope · 11/04/2015 13:57

howto i think the street bible may be too old for her unfortunately as they're more aimed at I'd say around 10+. It's put in a really cool way though - I've read some of the Old Testament but not the New. Apparently it has Jesus riding into Jerusalem on a motorcycle rather than a donkey and it does skip out a lot of the genealogy type bits so it does make a more interesting read for young adults or teens / slightly younger.

BlackeyedSusan · 11/04/2015 14:25

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

she is not bloody sleeping again.. and everything is wrong. the tv is wrong, the medicine makes her ill but it is too far to the pharmacy as she is too tired, if she does not sleep she will die, and she does not know how to work the tv remote...

(there may have been a lot of words said yesterday when she delayed us leaving asking about the sodding remote again. wehave been trying to teach her how to use it for the past two years, written her instructions with pictures, the lot. )

there have just been words said about the not sleeping, as the options i suggest over the phone are not bloody possible... apparently.

erm thursdays visit was ok. got a good three hours gardening in until the last bit when every five minute someone popped out of the front door to ask a question about how to cook tea.

friday was not so good as I had to get a shopping list of urgent stuff from her... which took and hour of don't knowing. don't know how to cook mushrooms if she is not eating bacon any more, don't know what to eat. don't know how to cook... should she try tomatoes again becaus e she has got to eat something... and she will die if she does not eat..

I do not think she really appreciated the fact that I wouldbe dragging one child round the supermarket in hot weather on a day we would rather be at home relaxing, and did not have a lot of time as we were supposed to be going home... there may have been a melt down when we go t back as I had to explain several times that she should take those bags in there...

nothing is particularly big, but it is the constant drip drip drip of it all that drives me to distraction, on top of one asd child and one hypermobile child and one drip of an ex.

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade · 11/04/2015 14:46

Brew ?

We have the Action Bible here, that seemed quite good for a 9/10 year old, I'm not sure about younger though - possibly.
I've not seen the Street Bible, I'll look on Amazon at tha.

BsshBosh · 11/04/2015 20:29

Blue that's great news :)

how indecision is normal. When I'm feeling tired/worn out it's very difficult to drag myself to Church. Last year I didn't go for months and it was fine. God understands and asks only that we trust in Him. I found direct prayer and meditation helped; Church was superfluous, only my direct relationship with Him counted (even if, at times, that relationship was a fraught one!). Ip this year I've been going to Church weekly. I can't always stand or kneel through chemo-induced tiredness but I get real peace from going. But I won't beat myself up if I don't go again (although I gain immense strength from the bread/body and wine/blood Mass).

Gosh, I went on. Sorry Blush.

BsshBosh · 11/04/2015 20:36

Fearfully praying that your work stress lifts soon.
BES how frustrating!! Praying for a bit of calmness for you.

Thanks all for your prayers... my mouth already feels less sore :)

My tumour scan results come out on Monday. Please pray that the scan shows stability or shrinkage and not further growth Sad and . The former will mean my current chemo is working; the latter will mean... well, you know.

Dutchoma · 11/04/2015 22:02

Glad to hear your mouth is a little less sore Bissh. Such an anxious time. Will pray about Monday, let us know how it g oes.
BES, what to say. Prayers for calm and strength and a bit of distance from your mother. Prayers that the holiday works out and is not yet more stress.
Howto, it would be lovely if you could manage church, but don't beat yourself up if it doesn't happen.
Blue, lovely news.

I had a most marvellous day at a 'Come and Sing' event in London. We sang from 11 - 6.30 with a few breaks, lovely people, lovely music. Safely home and in bed now.

BlackeyedSusan · 11/04/2015 22:37

thanks. took a while after the phone call with mum. I am packing for holiday and there is still loads to do. ex was supposed to ring me back as he was saying goodbye to family, but he forgot. always did come insecond or third place to his birth family.

anyway hoping for a safe journey.

the latter will me you are going home for a party, though if it were me I would want to stay fro the children. faith is not that strong... so will pray.

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade · 12/04/2015 08:08

Thank you Bssh. Tuesday is likely to be the really stressful day.
Praying for you re your scan, and will pray on Monday.
Dutch, glad you had a good few days.
How I feel like that about church at times. I'm struggling to go today for various reasons.
Susan I hope you have a good day.

innerstrength100 · 12/04/2015 11:53

I am really struggling, if anyone can spare a prayer please.

Some of you will remember I had an incredibly painful and unexplainable break up with my partner in the Autumn. Since then, God has helped me hugely put my life back on track, and I have worked really hard at moving forward in a positive way, and even started a nice romance recently, which is still ongoing.

A few days ago, out of the blue, I received an email from ex partner. Was so so shocked, I really thought I would never hear from him again.

The email was relatively short, but confirmed my theory that he had indeed had some sort of break down due to the stress he was under last year and is "only just starting to surface in the past 2 weeks; it is fragile days", and "you are never far from my mind."

I am so so sad, so upset.

I have no idea whether I should reply, and if so what I should say.

The pain is all back. Really don't know what to do. Feel really low.

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade · 12/04/2015 12:19

inner praying for you. I think I'd be inclined to reply but making it clear what you want - if it's just friendship or if you'd consider something more or if you want him to go to end of the world and then go some more.
Hugs.

innerstrength100 · 12/04/2015 12:34

I have no idea what I want. It just feels like a big horrible mess now. I thought I was over it, but clearly not. Feel so upset. I don't know if I should be in contact with him at all; very much not over it, so it seems, even though I thought I was.

Dutchoma · 12/04/2015 12:36

Inner I well remember your utter devastation when all this happened. I think the ex partner has a nerve to unload his uncertainties, his fragilities on you. He obviously has no idea of the devastation he caused and I think that he is totally unable to grasp that. This is the sort of person he is, totally self absorbed. His email proves that: there is not a thought for your feelings, your hurt.
How and whether you answer him is of course up to you, I don't think you owe him anything.

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade · 12/04/2015 12:47

AAAAAAARRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
[cry]

BlackeyedSusan · 12/04/2015 12:51

rushes in with tissues and Brew and Cake

oh dear.

BlackeyedSusan · 12/04/2015 12:56

actually trying not to respond in kind. doing the deep breathing over packing and getting out the sodding house with fifty million bags. there are muttering about ex's who only pack their own stuff and have no thought for feeding children.

anyway, fearfully loud and wonderfully made... can we offer any assistence?

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade · 12/04/2015 13:03

I'm trying to do some work and have to read several academic essays, none of which I understand :( That and trying to get a child to do their homework when they have refused to do it for a fortnight now and are also refusing to get their stuff ready for school tomorrow. Oh and my eldest is trying to revise for GCSEs and the laundry hasn't been done and the bin hasn't been emptied and the house is a mess and I have had enough.
Sorry you asked?! :(

BlackeyedSusan · 12/04/2015 13:17

nope, i would be howling, louder, Wine for later

in fact I have just had a bit of a wail myself. i am deep breathing and trying to tackle things one bit at a time.

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade · 12/04/2015 13:19

I need to go out for a long walk but unfortunately I need to stay with the DCs :(

As for wine, I can't drink because wine plus my hay fever tablets = asleep

BsshBosh · 12/04/2015 13:31

inner I pray God guides you in taking the time and working out what you want regarding ex and current romantic situation.
fearfully praying for you too.

And breeeeeaaaattthhhhhhhheeee everyone.

Dutchoma · 12/04/2015 13:37

How good it would be if we could get all of us in community rather than be miles apart from each other

BsshBosh · 12/04/2015 13:44

Virtual Cake to all make mine a big hunk of carrot cake with buttercream

BlackeyedSusan · 12/04/2015 13:54

right, that is it the computer is going off. I am going to start the last minute trying to fit everything in the car game of tetris... I will text Do when I get mobile phone reception.

Tuo · 12/04/2015 14:24

I've been feeling as if we may need a bit of a mid-thread round-up. Please add anyone I've missed.

We pray, then, for:

amberlight - for her work supporting equality and access issues in churches and for her forthcoming pilgrimage with Oma.

Anjelica27 - as she tries to support her DS through his mental health crises; may God be with her in that, and may He keep her DS safe from harm.

AnxiousKeziah - following the loss of her baby DS; may she find RL support at this sad time and may she know God's calming presence.

BlackEyedSusan - as she prepares to go away, praying also for her mum and for the stress that having to care for her provokes. We pray that BES finds support in all her caring roles (for her mum and her DC) and that she is also able to make some time for herself in which to relax, just occasionally.

Blueskies80 - welcome to the thread.

BlueTinkerbell - as she awaits the arrival of DD4. Thanking God that the scan showed all to be well and that the home birth plans are back on! And praying for patience in this last period of waiting, and for a healthy and easy delivery. Can't wait to hear your news, Blue.

BsshBosh - for her tumour scan results tomorrow: hoping for good results, but praying that, whatever the outcome, Bssh is able to face it with peace in her heart. Also praying for the soreness in her mouth to ease somewhat: mouth ulcers are horrid. And keeping her DH and DD in prayers too.

DontstepontheMomeRaths - praying for a chance to rest once the DC are back at school.

DutchOma - thanking God for a good day making music yesterday, and for all she does on this thread and elsewhere to look after us all.

FaithLoveandHope - praying for her mental health and, especially, for her soon-to-be FIL who has cancer. Just playing devil's advocate a bit ( Hmm ... not sure a prayer thread is the appropriate place to do that, but you know what I mean!) but have you considered bringing the wedding forward rather than postponing it? You needn't have a big celebration (you could do that at a later date perhaps when you feel more 'celebratory' - e.g. for your first anniversary) but you could organise a small ceremony for immediate family so that your FIL could be there...? Maybe this just isn't feasible, but it was just a thought. In any case, keeping you all in prayer.

FearfullyAndWonderfullyMade - for immediate 'home' stresses and for work stresses, particularly on Tuesday.

FlabbyMummy - so glad you found this thread.

howtoapproachthis - praying for her health, for the ability to rest, and for her to find a church where she feels truly welcome.

innerstrength - Oh that sounds so difficult. I'm so sorry that your ex has resurfaced and brought up with him all those horrible feelngs. First of all, please don't worry - it's normal that contact from him should make those feelings come back, but it will not be like it was before - you have come so far and you will never be back in that place where you were when it first happened, however hard this may feel now. I am praying for your peace of mind to return swiftly. I think that if I were you (disclaimer: I am not you, so I'm definitely not telling you what to do - only you know what is right for you) I'd email saying that you're grateful to hear from him and to know that he's OK, but that you'd appreciate it if he didn't contact you again. If there's a mutual friend or family member you can think of you could suggest that, if he really needs to contact you, he does it through them. Then you don't have to deal with him directly and don't have the shock of receiving a letter or an email popping into your inbox unexpectedly. Maybe consider blocking his email address, so that he can't email you directly?

Kaykat - praying for her DS as the return to school looms, and praying for Kay's ongoing divorce to proceed smoothly without too much nastiness from her ex. Praying that she finds a church where she feels welcome and not too 'alone'.

legohurtswhenyoustandonit - glad you found us.

LifeOf Briony - for ongoing difficulties in her relationship. Whatever happens, may she know that God is with her in her difficulties and may that bring her peace.

MadHairDay - keeping prayers going for her health.

PositiveAttitude - praying for her DD1's mental health, thanking God for great progress made and asking that it continue; also praying for her DD2 as she faces the stress of giving evidence against the man who attacked her; and praying for exciting new charitable ventures with Cambodia. Also keeping in mind PA's parents.

QoF - thanking God for a more positive turn in her life and asking Him to continue to be with her also in the future, particularly in her relationship with her DH.

SESthebrave - for her ongoing difficulties at work. May her next conversation with her boss be a helpful one, and may she have the courage to question potentially bullying behaviour. May God guide her and her DH as they plan for their future, possibly with a different career emphasis.

weegiemum - praying for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia.

ZipaDiSoozi - for her parents, who are struggling with dementia and caring issues, and also that Soozi's Meniere's disease remains manageable.

May we - and all who read this thread, even if they don't post - all know God's love today and always.

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 12/04/2015 17:32

Thanks TUO but I'm working most of Easter. The kids are in Playscheme for a small fortune instead.

Work will be very busy this week ahead. So prayers for that would be wonderful. And that DCs will enjoy Playscheme. Wish I could spend more time with them but I've booked may half term off and I'm hunting for a good holiday deal to do something nice with them. God willing.

Tuo · 12/04/2015 17:43

Aww, Momey... I saw earlier in the thread that you were working over Easter but was hoping it'd calm down a bit once they were back at school. (Mine are back tomorrow... thankfully ) Praying for your busy week and for the chance of a lovely relaxing break at half term.

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